Anthony Jake
10-28-2007, 06:42 PM
Im having the most ridiculous and annoying conversation right now with my ex, who has been my ex for at least 8 months more i think, i dont know and right now i dont particuarly care.. anyway, i just had to share this with you all so you can see how stupid people can be (im sure you all already know but anyway)
:mad: :Angry3: :mad: :Angry3:
Right so were discussing lesbians and them dating or not dating transguys.. now, she makes a pretty firm point that she would never date a masculine type.. be it trans or butch (i dont know why she dated me as i was never particuarly femme but anyway).. so i kinda said to her but then you're judging on looks which is something you claimed you didnt do.. so she said, yes,but i have to be attracted to who i date (understandable but hmm, a little shallow when put against some of the conversations her and i used to have) She then told me she would only date people with a feminine side/vibe whatever..
So i decided to see just what she thought about transguys, and wow.. how the hell i ever dated her is beyond me.. she has just said.. a lot of bulls***. Apparently, according to my ex's lesbian world.. transguys can only be classified as male if they will have the full operation and have male parts.. otherwise they are female, if you live as a guy full time but wont have the operation then thats your female side holding you back and you not wanting to let go of it, apparently its a psychological fact that transguys who dont have the op are feminine and not male.. that and that as a transperson we will always have 2 personalities our female on (bc we havent had the op to make us a man) and the man that we're creating. she then said, if u want to be a man then be a man, get all the parts the hormones etc, otherwise no matter what your female.
so then i asked her if it was that simple that gender is basically labeled by what genitalia we have, and she said yes.. simply.. there is only two things one can be male or female..
she the proceeded to apologised to me and point out that she still loves me but cant date a guy! WTF??
i have never heard such a lot of old rubbish... it just annoys me really annoys me that anyone could be so shallow.
*i thought i should just add something for the sake of not causing arguments, i am not saying that people cant have split personalities or both genders.. im talking in reference simply to someone who is wanting to be of a singular sex, be it male or female, i think it would work both ways her opinion.. just had to clarify that.. and also that this is not my opinion, but me portraying someone elses opinion towards me..
:mad: :Angry3: :mad: :Angry3:
Right so were discussing lesbians and them dating or not dating transguys.. now, she makes a pretty firm point that she would never date a masculine type.. be it trans or butch (i dont know why she dated me as i was never particuarly femme but anyway).. so i kinda said to her but then you're judging on looks which is something you claimed you didnt do.. so she said, yes,but i have to be attracted to who i date (understandable but hmm, a little shallow when put against some of the conversations her and i used to have) She then told me she would only date people with a feminine side/vibe whatever..
So i decided to see just what she thought about transguys, and wow.. how the hell i ever dated her is beyond me.. she has just said.. a lot of bulls***. Apparently, according to my ex's lesbian world.. transguys can only be classified as male if they will have the full operation and have male parts.. otherwise they are female, if you live as a guy full time but wont have the operation then thats your female side holding you back and you not wanting to let go of it, apparently its a psychological fact that transguys who dont have the op are feminine and not male.. that and that as a transperson we will always have 2 personalities our female on (bc we havent had the op to make us a man) and the man that we're creating. she then said, if u want to be a man then be a man, get all the parts the hormones etc, otherwise no matter what your female.
so then i asked her if it was that simple that gender is basically labeled by what genitalia we have, and she said yes.. simply.. there is only two things one can be male or female..
she the proceeded to apologised to me and point out that she still loves me but cant date a guy! WTF??
i have never heard such a lot of old rubbish... it just annoys me really annoys me that anyone could be so shallow.
*i thought i should just add something for the sake of not causing arguments, i am not saying that people cant have split personalities or both genders.. im talking in reference simply to someone who is wanting to be of a singular sex, be it male or female, i think it would work both ways her opinion.. just had to clarify that.. and also that this is not my opinion, but me portraying someone elses opinion towards me..