Intimacy While Dressed

[annekathleen]

I have a question for all of us.
How many of us have shared a sexual intimate act with our significant other while we were dressed? It could have been with your wife, g/f, b/f , s/o, self,
the other party doesn't really matter for what I want to ask....
After the intimate act,
Do you put your female clothing back on?
Do you put your male clothing back on?
Do you just call it a night and go to sleep?

[Kim_Bitzflick]

Sometimes I get dressed again & somtimes I don't. It depends on where I am and who is (or is not) with me.

[Ðarissa]

I just flake out on the floor / bed / table in my lingerie and smile. :D

[sara_also]

About 50/50..We have made love many times while I am wearing my bra,panties, and nitegown. Since I only remove te panties, I replace them later..

Kind of personal don't you think...

[Carroll]

How many of us have shared a sexual intimate act with our significant other while we were dressed? It could have been with your wife, g/f, b/f , s/o, self,
the other party doesn't really matter for what I want to ask....
After the intimate act,
Do you put your female clothing back on?
Do you put your male clothing back on?
Do you just call it a night and go to sleep?

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[Renica]

Only lost my panties! Love my nylons too much to remove during!*giggle*

xoxo
Renica

[Teddie]

The panties and bra go, the nylons and garter belt stay :happy:

Afterwards everything, bra, panties, etc. goes back on. And, were back to being two girlfriends.

[Gisele]

Sometimes we just pull things to the side and then go at it.:heehee: Most of the time we loose the panties and hike up the skirts/nightgowns and thats it.

[JoanFlores]

We just pull thing to the side, and after we are done, we just stay dressed in each others arms.

[Jordan]

I leave everything during just pull the panties to the side after about 70 percent of the time I stay dressed

[annekathleen]

Thanks for some of the comments!
I did not intend to invade anyone's privacy in this matter,
But...after my " intimate mements " I have a tendency to
get out of my female clothing and go back to putting on
normal male clothing. I was just wondering if anyone shared
the same feelings that I was experiencing.

[BarbaraTalbot]

I tend to shed any femme items that weren't shed in the process. I go back en homme. With kids underfoot I never sleep en femme. Ive tried it, but despite how others have reported, I don;t find most femme items that comfortable for sleeping. Could be I haven't concentrated on getting a correct fit like I would with outerwear. On the other hand male items are actually designed to contain my actual parts, so perhaps form should follow function.

[Crissy65]

I put my lingerie back into my lady's dresser drawer. We both like it better this way. Hugs

[JoleneCDinPA]

I always stay dressed in my lingerie after play she likes to be my male partner in the morning!:heehee:

[Jennifer Soames]

I stay in my lingerie and share sweet intimate talk and kisses. It is the time I feel at my most femme and peaceful. In the mornig i take the femme role around the house and I am usually rewarded again:love::love:

[Paula G]

It really depends on how we feel at the time.

[Lisa Golightly]

I only have female clothes.

[Rita B]

Yes, yes, and yes.

[DianaGomez]

now thats an excellent question. at first, when this was just a buzz, I would normally ditch the femme attire and that would be that. but now, increaingly, I find I will stay dressed en femme. Feels better and righter.

[Ashley Lyn]

Thanks for some of the comments!
I did not intend to invade anyone's privacy in this matter,
But...after my " intimate mements " I have a tendency to
get out of my female clothing and go back to putting on
normal male clothing. I was just wondering if anyone shared
the same feelings that I was experiencing.It's an interesting question!... We basically do a little 'role playing' while I'm dressed, and intimate, and after the FUN, we basically go back to 'normal' boy/girl persona..:happy: Some of that may have to do with a 'curious' 17 year old in the house, but....:shifty:

[Vivian Best]

I have a question for all of us.
How many of us have shared a sexual intimate act with our significant other while we were dressed? It could have been with your wife, g/f, b/f , s/o, self,
the other party doesn't really matter for what I want to ask....
After the intimate act,
Do you put your female clothing back on?
Do you put your male clothing back on?
Do you just call it a night and go to sleep?

In the case of my wife all I can say is "You've got to be kidding!"

[carolinewalker_2000]

Usually fall asleep still dressed.

[Mercedes]

I am able to sleep en femme three times a week and if lucky . . .

well I use to take everything off but have lately been keeping it on as I feel more comfortable that I am not upsetting my SO.

Mercedes

[nicoleazcd]

I love to put my panties on and just cuddle

[Samantha43]

We have tried sex with me dressed, and I guess it wasn't much of a turn on for either of us. The wig made me too hot, the clothing got in the way and my makeup ran all over the place.:D We always go at it with me in guy mode.

[traceyanne]

when i first got together with my present wife, i would mostly change my stuff due to feeling slightly guilty or embarrassed, but now its changed days, no guilt or shame and my lingerie stays on for as long as i want it on

[docrobbysherry]

I like to keep every on except the corset, if I'm wearing one. That puppy comes off a minute after I'm satisfied! Sometimes I have to jump rite into the shower and rush out. Otherwise, I like to stay dressed the rest of the evening.
RS

www.myspace.com/robertsherry

[Michelle04240]

I have done all 3 at some point. Day/night, kids home/not...


During the day I usually put back on whatever it was I had on, at night I will replace my nightie or PJ's as my wife likes to cuddle with her satin covered hubby.

[Jilmac]

i can see a lot of you girls have been intimate while dressed. i haven't been that lucky. i only had one gf between my two marriages who accepted my dressing. unfortunately, my relationship with her didn't work out. while i was with her though, i would have sex with her dressed in lingerie (sans panties). aftrewards, i would put the panties back on and sleep en femme. neither spouse 1 or 2 were supportive of my dressing so i never had the chance to enjoy intimacy with either one while dressed. however i did wear panties under my drab jockey shorts while i slept with them. Jill

[ToniQ]

It depends on the situation, sometimes I stay dressed, sometimes it's sleep, but rarely get dressed back in drab.

[XdressingSlave]

Almost 100% of the time, any sexual act between my wife and I involve me dressing in female clothes.
Having intercourse just involves pulling up my skirt!
As we have 3 kids, most of the time it is in the day while they are at school so afterwords, it usually involves having to put my man clothes on afterwards :sigh:

[Kelsy]

my lady loves me just as I am! She likes and encourages me to be enfem. My baby has told me that she likes the idea of making love with a woman knowing that I am a man under it all and sometimes she says she wants me to feel what it is like to be loved as a woman. No complaints:D

Kelsy

[Atanna]

I keep it all on unless it's not at my place and I have to leave afterwards. Then I just take off the sexy gown but keep on the panties and thigh highs :D

[Joni T]

My wife and I did it once while I was dressed. She said it made her feel like a lesbian, so no more (Drat!).

[Brenda's Friend]

I've only gotten intimate with myself while dressed. Afterwards, I do not have any desire to be dressed anymore. I guess I sill in a fettish phase.

BF

[rachel_rachel]

When i'm on my own, I take it all off again...
Since i now only wear women's PJ's or nighties to bed now, (wife loves it)
i just clean myself up, put my knickers back on and go to sleep.

[rustynail]

I've only gotten intimate with myself while dressed. Afterwards, I do not have any desire to be dressed anymore. I guess I sill in a fettish phase.

BF

Same for me after 50 years or so of loving lingerie, although I stay in clothes more often now than I used.

[Ashly]

When I was younger I changed to male clothes after any kind of intimacy. Interestingly that changed after age 40..no words to explain that, but nowadays I would have a tough time to put on something else then skirts and lingerie.

[Ashlee]

After we returned home from a recent Halloween party. I had on a skirt, heels, hose, wig everything. I was completely en femme. I showered and went to bed afterwards. It was awesome.

[Emily Ann Brown]

A lady never kisses and tells....WINK !


Emily Ann

[Stephenie S]

OK ladies, here's a disenting view.

I can't imagine trying to be sexually intimate while dressed, in anything! For me sexual intimacy involves getting nekked. Sexual intimacy while dressed? Geez! Doesn't everything just get in the way? And what a mess! Lovemaking can get a bit sweaty and sticky. I wouldn't want to have to clean up my clothes after trying to wear them through all that and then all night after.

I want to sleep in my nice warm 'jammies and make love naked, thank you.

Lovies,
Stephenie

[Jillm]

Weather I’m dressed enfem or not I usually fall asleep and whatever I have on stays on.

[RuthieER]

Usually after having sex en femme (during which I never take evrything off), I find nothing more fulfilling than to remain en femme, whether it is getting back into the outfit I was in, or getting ready for bed in a nightie. Rarely do I get into guy clothes, generally because of when during the day I have sex.

Ruthie

[Michelle 51]

I had to go slow but guite often now we make love with me in lingerie or even a skirt or dress.What i don,t understand is why i,m so turned on before the act wearing it but can,t take it off soon enough when it,s over even though i often wear panties and a nightie most nights to bed. justabit

[Shelly67]

More often than not we fall asleep cuddled up. Its a bit freaky when I awake , go to the bathroom , only to find a girl staring back at me in the mirror ..lol
Strange thing is ...and this is,nt just because I were dressed ,( or is it ? ) the intimate act has very powerful for us both - more than normal .....I,m so thankful for that ....:o

[sissy_she_boy]

LOL, thats a great question. The truth of the matter is that I sometimes do all of the above. However, my preference is to either put my female clothes back on, or if it is bedtime, I like to put on something feminine like a teddy or cami and panties and then go to sleep.

kisses
sissy dana

[silkenhose]

Thanks for some of the comments!
I did not intend to invade anyone's privacy in this matter,
But...after my " intimate mements " I have a tendency to
get out of my female clothing and go back to putting on
normal male clothing. I was just wondering if anyone shared
the same feelings that I was experiencing.

about 50% of the time i am dressed and when dressed usually stay dressed outside of the panties.......i tend to always want to get dressed in male clothes after my wife and i have had our "intimate moment"

however alot of times se will want some housework done and has me put back on an appropriate outfit, if u know what i mean

[Miranda269]

I dress in lingerie for my wife all the time, but afterwards could not stay dressed,due to kids at home still, unless we are staying in a hotel. Even then I do find that I'm far to hot, and need to be naked to sleep good.

[Riema's here]

My girlfriend absolutly will not acknowledge me sexually while I'm dressed, I usually keep my wig, makeup and bra on, remove my pantyhose, and put on my best nylon panties , put on my long black gloves and heels and take care of myself and then every thing goes Riema

[JamieMTF]

hello friends,

Here is a question i have had for a few weeks now. I have been with my girlfriend for 11 months and our sex life was great. She "discovered" me by accident with pictures on the computer. We talked it out and she wanted to meet Jamie in person. So we dress and have sex. One day she came over and I was just in male clothes and I could not stay hard at all. I think it was a conditioned response from when we were intimate while I was dolled up.
Has that happened to anyone else on here?

Jamie

[OlgaS]

I only remove my panties, I feel more sexy keeping on my stockings, high heels, even my dress. But I take it all of when I'm done and sleep in my boxers or naked.

[Joanna-Louise]

Thanks for some of the comments!
I did not intend to invade anyone's privacy in this matter,
But...after my " intimate mements " I have a tendency to
get out of my female clothing and go back to putting on
normal male clothing. I was just wondering if anyone shared
the same feelings that I was experiencing.

I can relate to the above, a couple of times well some of the time (40%) i will dig out a pair of male undies and put them on while finding something to wear. (olnly thing i can put that down to is guilt?) But the other times i usually either put on what i had on to start of with, or use it as an excuse to find another outfit (depending what i was wearing before the act) or just roll over and goto sleep after the compulsery hug n kiss g'nite usually wearing fem pj's or nightie.

[MJ]

it's been so long i forgot what is Intimacy ?

i go to bed with a good book and a box of chocolate

[Amanda Woods]

countless times,but then again I am a bit spoilt,full dress results in full sex,its amazing.

[AllyM]

My wife asked me not to wear a bra during sexual activities. I am happy to support her request.

[Joanna-Louise]

My wife asked me not to wear a bra during sexual activities. I am happy to support her request.

There are times in my situation where its nice not to wear wanything en femme, and this is something Kim has told me in the past. I would have to guess its beacause then our SO's don't forget who they actually are in love with?!?

[switcheralso]

My wife aks that I remove my girl clothing...Unless we have had a lot of Coors Light:devil:

[susan lewis]

i use to be intimate only with myself but the femine feelings keep increasing so the few times i was intimate with a man i just put everything back on, checked my makeup, and felt like a woman that has been satisfied, it was wonderful to know that my femine feelings keep goin even after an orgasm

[sissystephanie]

As a long time CD, whose wife knew from before our marriage, i would have to say that I put my panties back on before sleep. That is, if I was wearing panties under my nightgown! Sometimes I was the girl, so the panties just got pulled down. Other times they came clear off! But I almost always slept enfemme!

Sissy/Stephanie

More Girl than man sometimes, except for my GGF:love:

[Susan.]

Like a couple of other girls, I would feel guilty and always took the clothes off right after sex. Now a days, they stay on.

[NatalieBliss]

Stayed (somewhat) dressed the whole time. woke up in a bra, garter and nylons. It was awesome! :D

[Shelly Preston]

Well I could tell you but why should I +?


Some things are better not said :eek:

[Jodie Wexler]

It was so many years ago, that anyone saw me dressed, that I forgot what happend!
Jodie

[sandylove]

I live alone. On those rare occassions when I'm en femme with a GG, I keep as much on as I can. After orgasm, I put back on anything I took off.
But when I'm alone enfemme, I'll keep my hair, bra, stockings on. After orgasm, I may or may not put everything back on. Depends on how much time I have left. Never enough time!
Love, Sandy

[iwearpanties]

we have found this works for us i have set the room and house up like a day spa and have just totaly spoiled her in hot boday mesaages and warm bubble baths and oils . what realy got her turn on was seeking the hugh roman tub we set in white huhg bubbles and i put in real rose peddles thur-out the tub cover the bubbles . she was very kool haveing a message done this way and in-time loves haveing my silky side around i dont wear wigs or make or heels.I mostly stay in a very small tight satiny pantie under maybe a lite colored nylon brief and a satiny bra.. i dont fully dress as some of and i have in the past but i more have come too love the feel of the soft silky fabrics which are great for her as well ..iknow in one truely lucky man and greatful too have her as well.....

[Raychel]

My wife has requested that I only wear manly clothes if there is going to be any intimacy. She really has no desire to see me fully dressed at this time. So I honor her request and do not try to push the issue.

[SiobhanW]

My wife and I were intimate last night. I dressed in a mocca colored satin teddy with lace accents, Berkshire lace-top stay-ups in nude, and my new brown peep-toes (4" heels with a small platform). My wife wore the same stay-ups in white and then a white lace teddy. Hmm, we had a very nice time. In fact, just thinking about it now makes me want to do it all over again! :happy:

Afterwards, the wife remarked how cute my shoes were and wanted to try them on (despite her taking a 7.5 and me taking a 10.5). She liked them very much, but thought that she couldn't last for long on the 4" heels. I told her I probably couldn't either, but then I generally only needed to make it as far as the bed. :happy:

[Rachell]

Thats a great question, because in male mode I jump in and do the act and normanlly jump out. When I am dressed things go much slower and a lot more passionate. Normally if it depends what I have on as to wht comes off. Most of the time everything comes off except my bra, and depending on the kind of panties I have on at the time. Depennding on whats happeneing after depends on how I get redressed.
Rachell

[StacyCD]

Since my wife is in the not in front of me mode, I can only dream!

[Debutante]

My wife and I like cuddling too.... but I haven't yet had the chance to crossdress and be intimate yet.. I fantsize about the sexual aspects a lot...
she is going slow... she sometimes is open to it, other times says her feelings
wants a man (yet she has been with women before)... I need to take the initiative and do something...

[SarahHall]

I like to stay dolled up after we make luv. :love:

[kaitlin]

Hey Girls, Our love life is a bit crazy and alot of fun! As you can tell from my avatar we sometimes (alot of the time) are into some form of bondage. But she requests me to be fully dressed at times and there is times that there is nothing worn at all. So it's hard to say just what does and doesn't happen. Keep in mind my life style is to be under dressed all the time, so I am always wearing some form of female item.(panties, nail polish and shaved legs are the standard) Afterwards it's always cuddle, and then panties and a nite shirt for a cup of coffee. Kaitlin

[jeffcd]

Good question. For me its all about the intamacy. I only dress when we are going to tease and have sex. So usually I just fall asleep with what ever I had on when we finished.:heehee:

[Bethany_Anne_Fae]

Never.

[jonnie64]

Depends on my mood, when alone, i usually undress and call it a night, when with a friend, we stay dressed! it typically leads to more............

[dazzed]

Go to sleep without a nightie , what a horrid thought . Good grief , I shudder at the thought of it . No panties I can understand ,they do get in the way sometimes ,sad to say . But no nightie , Oh my , no .

[pattysn]

usually fully dresses wearing handcuffs and leg cuffs.

[Tiana]

we just go to sleep in our matching nightdresses x

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

Variety is the spice of life so we go many different ways but mostly I wear my nighties all the time so there you have it.

[Leohose]

Yes, as often as they have been into it, but the hose doesnt last the session, it usually gets trashed, the rest is anything goes, often in identical leotards, those times were great : )

[fuzzybe]

I was i would still be dress, but after intimacy my desire to dress some goes away.

[KandisTX]

Goddess YES... I will post more later on this, but GlitterGG and I have a FANTABULOUS time when I am dressed ;)

Kandis:love:

[Cheyenne Skye]

I'm surprised so many of you are so forthcoming about such intimate details of your lives. I could never be so upfront with that kind of information.

[Rachel_CDS]

I always wear my lingerie... bra (with forms), briefs, silk nightie & sheer holdups. She likes to touch my legs all over, feels gorgeous! Briefs do come off, but I always put them back on afterwards.
She also frequently wears a matching nightie.

[KandisTX]

Quite often we start with me fully in Kandis mode, and she treats me as such during the session. Yes, I dress again when we are finished and we snuggle before sleeping.

Kandis:love:

[kimberly ann487]

Oh I can only dream.