Sexual Preference

[sissy_she_boy]

I don't know if it is kewl to post this thread here, but I guess it will just be removed if it is not kewl.
Anyway, I am just curious about the other girls here, and I would like to know what your preference is.
My preference is with men and sometimes other CD's/TV's/TS's. When I was younger, I used to consider myself to be straight because I only dated GG's. Then eventually I started dating bot GG's and men. Actually it was only one man at first and he kind of brought out my feminine side. Eventually I found that I was only attracted to men and other girls like us.
If you all find this offensive, just let me know and I will not post anymore threads like this, but I am just curious to know about you girls.

kisses
sissy dana

[Samantha43]

Only GG's for me!

[Aeslyn]

I have only ever been with girls. And I have to say, I love them. I will never give them up. And not only sexually. I love being with and around girls more than guys. Probably cause most of my friends growing up were girls... which might have something to do with the girl in me.
However, that only having been with girls comment I started with doesn't apply to pre-teen experimentation. Which I only ever did twice with the same guy who was a year older than me. But for the past seven to ten years of have wondered with increasing frequency what it is actually like to be a girl in all ways including relationships and sex. So I guess I am bi-curious. I remember that oral experiment, and I remember enjoying it. When I do watch porn I'd more often rather be the girl than the guy. I have two problems though, shyness is one and the other is that I do not look at all like a girl. In fact, I am not of the type that guys find attractive.
Though I will say, I do not find guys attractive at all. It's really just the girl in me who wants is. Which is kind of a good thing, cause it means I really won't be into looks when I do start dating guys.
(Which I am now trying to find one guy to share the girl in me with)

[Delilah]

Only GG's. 35 years ago, I was in stationed in Hawaii and had a guy try to
hit on me in a store - right out in public. I decked him in front of 3 people and they applauded me! I don't go for the gay thing, although the wife and I have some gay friends.

Delilah

[Mary Jane]

GG's for me too.

[Tina Dixon]

Only GG's but there are a few CD's that make me wonder:eek:

[RuthieER]

I am attracted to men and CDs. My ideal lover would be a CD who is also a good-looking man, and whether as one or the other, is the dominant partner.

Ruthie

[Vaerise]

I like man... well they kind of complete me. When I think of another female.. it just feels odd and weird..

[jennCD]

I'd prefer only GGs.... but my wife makes sure she's the only one available for me to focus on! LOL

:)
jenn

[KathrynTX]

GG's for me, but I have seen a few TS's I found attractive.

[traceyanne]

g.g's for me, although i have had a few ?? guys in my time. iv'e never been attracted to men, just to experiment on a sex basis:devil:

[Ðarissa]

I like GG's and the rest is all fantasy........ I think.

[Michelle04240]

I am married and LOVE women but I have had a few good times with men.

[docrobbysherry]

I am VERY surprised to see about 60% have selected they prefer GG's. From the varied posts on this site, I assumed it would be much less. I wonder how representative it really is? Maybe I'm not the, "odd man out", I thought I was. Oh, I'm straight.
RS

www.myspace.com/robertsherry

[pamela_a]

GGs for me. Or as I like to put it, I'm a lesbian in a man's body.

-Paula-

[Jilmac]

GG's for me. even though i've been dressing since i was 15 (i'm 62 now) my only sexual preference has been gg's. don't get me wrong, i'm not bashing gay people, i have gay friends, relatives, and even had a gay brother in law (who furnished me with some very important tips on dressing and feminizing). i've always felt more comfortable around gg's,socially, and enjoy being intimate with them sexually. Luv Jill

[Niya W]

I prefer women. A lesbian ahem transbain, but to me liking women means I like M2f TS. Now that said there have a been CD's that have made my toes curl :)

[tinastone]

Men ! Men! Men!! I love the touch and feel of a man. His smell the sound of his voice. Women are just friends to chat, shop and hang out with but when I want a great kiss or some sexual fireworks I really need a man.

[Cindi Ann Kelly]

Only GGs!

cindi ann

[Keely]

Another one in the 60+ percent category.

[BarbaraTalbot]

I don't want to over emphasize this by repetition, but I felt I should say something here:


Only GG's. 35 years ago, I was in stationed in Hawaii and had a guy try to
hit on me in a store - right out in public. I decked him in front of 3 people and they applauded me! I don't go for the gay thing, although the wife and I have some gay friends.

Delilah

Even with an inappropriate and unwelcome advance, this is not acceptable to me to let this just stand. Perhaps in earlier times, with less understanding of yourself and others issues, it was a bit of a knee jerk reaction as it was I'm sure from the bystanders.

There have been some hateful comments in the comments section of my local paper online as well as on the radio here about transgendered persons. In response to a local tempest in a teapot with a transgendered person that was discriminated against. Comments ranged from they should get their own place to go, to too bad we don;t lock up weird relatives in the attic, to they need to be committed to a mental institution because they are sick

In the comments there was a self identified gay man spewing bigotry about 'the tranny' as he said.

I also was reading a prominent gay blog articulating feelings about T being left out of GLBT recent bill in the house. His take was even handed but some of his readers were vitriolically bigoted. Referring to T-persons as those 'mutilating' their bodies. Decrying any association with such people. To be fair some readers reminded the bigots that the Stonewall Riots were led by transvestites.

Ugly is ugly regardless of gender or orientation.

[sissy_she_boy]

Wow, I thought this would have been a more even split, but the overwhelmig respose seems to be towards GG's. I have nothing against GG's in fact when I was younger I dated nothing but gg's. Perhaps I would still see a GG if I had found one that was accepting of me. The fact of the matter is that I was not able to find one once I made my decision to dress. Men on the other hand are everywhere LOL.

Anyway, it's nice to know a little more about you all and hopefully you don't look at me as the "freak girl" of the club LOL.

kisses
sissy dana

[claire angie]

gg's for me as i love my wife very much.
i have also had a few men who wanted to date me and take me to the bedroom, sadly for them i've turned them all down.


lol everyone xx

[SweetCaroline]

GGs only as far as sexual encounters go.

Tho maybe another question would be "how much physical affection would you show to another crossdresser"? Non sexual mind you. GGs will show a lot of physical affection toward each other, some of it even intimate, and not be considered lesbian, because that's how girls are. When I'm out with my Sisters, I identify them as girls. We hug when we meet. I've been pecked on the check by another crossdresser. I've been out dancing with them face to face (even rear to rear LOL) and I've hardly ever felt uncomfortable. And yet I don't consider myself gay, since I'm not attracted to men.

Someday we'll all figure it out have a good laugh when we're done. :D

[JennyCD4U]

Well, I'm bi but I have my preferences.

I prefer GG's, but for the right guy I'll go with him.

-Jenn

[MonikaW]

I'm only interested in GGs too.

[Tricia_cd]

I adore women, probably why I want to be like one, why I dress like one. BUT, (pun sort of intended) I do enjoy, no, wait, make that LOVE, when I am with a dominant woman.

Just my point of view.....:-)~

tricia

[wannabie]

I don't know. that's kind of an unfair question for me.

In guy mode I have no interest in men what so ever!

In Girl mode (I hate to admit this) but sometimes I get urges to be with... a guy :GE: (if you know what I mean :devil:), and from what I've heard from other members its a really different experience.

right now, in somewhat drab I prefer GG's only.
as my other self, she wouldn't mind the occasional Guy. but then she smokes too, and I don't. Hmf?:straightface:

[flacindycd]

Sometimes I prefer other cds/tgirls, sometimes GG's, and occasssionaly men, It really depends on my mood/needs at the time. On the other hand dont get me wrong I love my wife,shes not only my wife but my best friend(after 30 yrs of marriage) however, I have different needs than her ,thats all.

[kristytv]

1st not mutiple choice as it should so no vote , 2 there is no singular answer in that poll for me

[ColleenCD]

GG's only for me too!

Colleen

[MJ]

I like GG's and the rest is all fantasy........ I think.

same as Darissa ..gg for me .... but i am understandably curious

[CaptLex]

Only GG's. 35 years ago, I was in stationed in Hawaii and had a guy try to hit on me in a store - right out in public. I decked him in front of 3 people and they applauded me! I don't go for the gay thing, although the wife and I have some gay friends.

Delilah


Even with an inappropriate and unwelcome advance, this is not acceptable to me to let this just stand. Perhaps in earlier times, with less understanding of yourself and others issues, it was a bit of a knee jerk reaction as it was I'm sure from the bystanders.

I had the same thought, Barbara. Delilah, how do you justify this? So a guy expressed interest in you - big deal. Were you embarrassed because it happened in public? Women have to deal with this every day. And if every woman were to "deck" every man who had ever given her an unwelcome advance, there would be a lot of hitting resulting from being hit on. Lighten up, hon. If you're not interested, all you have to do is say so - no need to get violent. I realize this was 35 years ago, but you sound like you're proud of it. :rolleyes:

[Stephanie Anne]

Currently none :(

I guess it would be whatever I found I wanted. Never really limited my self in scope to such things. I mean I am a gender freak after all breaking social norms but wearing women's clothing, acting somewhere between androgynous and feminine and working on crossing to the female side of the fence.

If I fell in love with someone, I would care less the gender of that person. As a TG I have learned it is about the who they are and not what gender they present.

I mean thinking about it, why do we need to still live in this little 2 dimensional window of the world any longer?

[LaFem]

When I am dressed in my most feminine clothes, when my makeup is perfect, when I feel like a princess, when my body tells me I am female, when every feeling I have is a female feeling, when my body tingles and vibrates with the electricity of femininity, when my mirror tells me I truly am a woman, when my lingerie caresses me, I want to be a woman in every way! I want to be loved and touched and kissed by a strong, wonderful loving man. I want to roll up in his arms and feel protected and safe. I want to make him feel like a man. I want to be his woman.

So, I guess you could say I prefer men.

Quack Quack!

[putter288]

for me it is GG's in male mode and either when en fem .

being dressed puts me in a very submissive mood and most women i have encountered do not like to take the dom role in love making while men or other cd's have no trouble taking charge and makeing me feel like a woman.
Alison

[nikki_t]

Just an observation but there's no CD's/TV's/TS's and GG's and men option on your poll. :eek:

[trannie T]

I enjoy women.

[Deborah Jane]

GGs only 100% sure

[the femm side of me]

GG's for me. But thanks for asking...

[Paula G]

GG's for me.

[Ðarissa]

Just an observation but there's no CD's/TV's/TS's and GG's and men option on your poll. :eek:Would that be the full meal deal? Want fries with that? ;) LOL

[docrobbysherry]

I had the same thought, Barbara. Delilah, how do you justify this? So a guy expressed interest in you - big deal. Were you embarrassed because it happened in public? Women have to deal with this every day. And if every woman were to "deck" every man who had ever given her an unwelcome advance, there would be a lot of hitting resulting from being hit on. Lighten up, hon. If you're not interested, all you have to do is say so - no need to get violent. I realize this was 35 years ago, but you sound like you're proud of it. :rolleyes:

You're dating yourself Captn! These days, GG's don't punch a guy who hits on them. They go to the boss, get the guy fired, and sue everyone involved! Much more effective than a punch, don't u think?
RS


www.myspace.com/robertsherry

[Suzy Harrison]

I'm blonde.... I'm still thinking about it ........ what was the question again? :heehee:

[jaina]

Only GG's. 35 years ago, I was in stationed in Hawaii and had a guy try to
hit on me in a store - right out in public. I decked him in front of 3 people and they applauded me! I don't go for the gay thing, although the wife and I have some gay friends.

Delilah

Are you proud about being violent with no self control?

[serinalynn]

as for me, I prefer GG only even though I CD I still have my male organ and I am not interested in another guys male organ

[sissystephanie]

There was a time in my life, after my dear wife passed away, when I thought about becoming a woman totally, and of course having men in my life. Then I met, online, an absolutely amazing GG who totally changed my mind. I now refer to her as my GGF, which to me means Golden Goddess Friend, because that is what she is. She knows all about my CD activities, as did my wife, but likes me as a man. So that is what I am! Strictly GG's for me, ot to be more precise, only GGF for me!!:love:

Sissy/Stephanie

More Girl than man sometimes

[Michelle 51]

I'd prefer only GGs.... but my wife makes sure she's the only one available for me to focus on! LOL

:)
jenn

Me too justabit

[AmyCarter]

I've only ever been with men and cd's but lately they're beginning to turn me off. I might consider switching to the dark side soon. The unknown, uhoh....

[AmandaM]

I picked CDs/../ and GGs. I'm 99% for girls, but there have been a couple of TS types who made me say "wow". :)

[sissy_she_boy]

Hi ladies,
I just wated to thank you all for giving me a little feedback. I can totally understand all of your point of views here.

kisses
sissy dana

[flatlander_48]

Wow, I thought this would have been a more even split, but the overwhelmig respose seems to be towards GG's. I have nothing against GG's in fact when I was younger I dated nothing but gg's. Perhaps I would still see a GG if I had found one that was accepting of me. The fact of the matter is that I was not able to find one once I made my decision to dress. Men on the other hand are everywhere LOL.

Anyway, it's nice to know a little more about you all and hopefully you don't look at me as the "freak girl" of the club LOL.

kisses
sissy dana

It is what it is. Human sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it somewhere.

[renee k]

I'm in the 58.29% that prefer GG's.

Huggs,Renee

[Kaylene]

It's interesting that about 43% listed men (as-is or CD) as a part of their sexual preference.

[Sally-Ann]

You're missing an option...

CD's/TV's/TS's and GG's and Men :)

Also known as try-sexual (will try anything sexual) ;)

[Aeslyn]

I just need to say, in response to BarbaraTalbot's post, ....
Wow.
Where I come from CD's are all in the closet, or you can't tell the difference. And where I moved to they are openly accepted. So I am not used to hearing people say things about it. But I can't imagine why someone would have a problem with it. Even if I didn't dress myself, I could never fault some else for doing it. It's not about what someone looks like, and clothes are only an extension of looks even if they do show personality. It's about who someone is inside.
People who think otherwise just can't be happy with themselves.

[Christine Andrews]

Only GG's for me - I may be crossdresser and enjoy exploring both male and female facets of my personality but it is women - GG's that attract me both in a physical sense and in a mental sense too.

Regards
KH

[sarahdavids]

well, up until early early this morning, i could say that it was GG only for me. after this morning, i'm just not sure.....

I guess i'll say gg only, with the right to opt out

[ElaineB]

I am VERY surprised to see about 60% have selected they prefer GG's. From the varied posts on this site, I assumed it would be much less. I wonder how representative it really is? Maybe I'm not the, "odd man out", I thought I was. Oh, I'm straight.

Well... you have to remember that you are more likely to hear from people with strong opinions than people who don't care, and in this case the people with strong opinions will mostly be the ones doing things the UNusual way...

[ElaineB]

35 years ago, I was in stationed in Hawaii and had a guy try to hit on me in a store - right out in public. I decked him in front of 3 people and they applauded me!


Isn't that a bit drastic? I have been propositioned by men several times in different places (in all-male mode, it had nothing at all to do with CDing because I wasn't at the time). Mostly they were nice polite guys and so I just said no. One or two were greasy creeps I just walked away from. But ... even though I wasn't interested in any, I certainly didn't feel any need to belt them!

Maybe things were different 35 years ago.

[Desiree2bababe]

While I love women and ********, there is something that a man has and the way it reacts when I'm dressed that I'm in total love with.

[nikki_t]

Would that be the full meal deal? Want fries with that? ;) LOL

Yuppers!! And dessert too. :D

[Niya W]

Isn't that a bit drastic? I have been propositioned by men several times in different places (in all-male mode, it had nothing at all to do with CDing because I wasn't at the time). Mostly they were nice polite guys and so I just said no. One or two were greasy creeps I just walked away from. But ... even though I wasn't interested in any, I certainly didn't feel any need to belt them!

Maybe things were different 35 years ago.
Unfortunately 35 years , yes in most places that would be considered an appropriate response. Being the military didnt help.IF she didnt do some thing and word got back onto the base she could of been harasser . I'm not saying its right or thats its ever right. not saying that its right just that those are the context.

[jaina]

It's interesting that about 43% listed men (as-is or CD) as a part of their sexual preference.

Not really. It's popular to claim that only very few CDs are not totally straight, but the 60/40 split has shown up time and time again in various groups, both in person and websites.

[Niya W]

Not really. It's popular to claim that only very few CDs are not totally straight, but the 60/40 split has shown up time and time again in various groups, both in person and websites.

Really ?? Cause in my experience the majority of CD's i know or straight, and are married

[CaptLex]

You're dating yourself Captn! These days, GG's don't punch a guy who hits on them. They go to the boss, get the guy fired, and sue everyone involved! Much more effective than a punch, don't u think?
RS


www.myspace.com/robertsherry

You've completely missed the point, hun. Women don't generally punch guys out in any generation - the point is that just because someone shows unwanted interest in us, we don't need to get violent. Just say "no thanks". It would be really stupid for me to get offended by and defensive towards every woman that comes on to me, don't you think? Same principle applies to Delilah's situation.

[michelleinhighheels]

gg and cd for me as friends and lovers

[sissy_she_boy]

You're missing an option...

CD's/TV's/TS's and GG's and Men :)

Also known as try-sexual (will try anything sexual) ;)

Maybe I just should have added "all of the above" LOL. But from the postings that I have read here, it seems like all of the girls here are pretty decent and would probably lean one way or another as far as sexual preference goes. I tried to have enough choices as to get a good idea of what we all think, but not have so many choices as to skew the results.

[Jackie67]

GIRLS,GIRLS, GIRLS, NEED I SAY MORE.
GREW UP WITH GIRLS AND I LOVE ALL OF THEM, WHAT EVER SHAPE OR SIZE, BUT THEY HAVE TO BE OF AGE.:2c::D

[Fab Karen]

I'm pansexual- I like women, T-girls, men, and I'm open to T-guys ( FtM ) though I have no experience with that category.

[TriciaO]

When I'm Tricia, I seek women and other 'girls' for conversation, advice, companionship and friendship, but for romance or sex, it's men, men, men, and only men. I need to be held, kissed, and loved by men, and I want to do everything to them that that they need to be satisfied.

In male mode, the thought of being with a guy or a sister does absolutely nothing for me - it has to be a GG only.

[LilahCD]

Technically I'm "bi".

Most of my life I probably leaned towards men, was known as the town gay guy in several small communities, could pass without dressing (to the point of guys buying me drinks)

First time was with a GG, afterwards I tried 100% hetero. made a bunch of new friends, then a chance encounter with a "friend" brought all of it back. Comments of being in the "glass closet" abounded no matter how hard I tried to hide it. I'd cover by being a chauvinistic jerk, which didn't work. "Closet" comments increased, et al...

Now I've stepped out of the closet, lost all "friends" from my hetero life, currently in limbo............



And couldn't be happier!

p.s. I do actually have a sexual attraction towards women.. but I wonder if I'm the only GM here that it feels "wrong" for, somehow.. :eek:

[docrobbysherry]

Well... you have to remember that you are more likely to hear from people with strong opinions than people who don't care, and in this case the people with strong opinions will mostly be the ones doing things the UNusual way...

Thanks for making me the, " odd man out", again.


You've completely missed the point, hun. Women don't generally punch guys out in any generation - the point is that just because someone shows unwanted interest in us, we don't need to get violent. Just say "no thanks". It would be really stupid for me to get offended by and defensive towards every woman that comes on to me, don't you think? Same principle applies to Delilah's situation.

Good points CaptLex. Compared to women in Europe, American GG's don't know how to say, "No", very clearly. They r improving their diction, it seems. Men, in general, don't know how to say, " No", period. ( This is not a comment on; cds, tfs, mtfs, rdfs, tss, tgs, rtds, stds, or mmfs.)
RS

www.myspace.com/robertsherry

[Tammy298]

Only GG's for me... The sexier the better and hopefully dressed sexier than me!

[bobbielynn]

as a girl i want men only, as a guy it's ggs.

[LaFem]

I am no longer married or involved, and no SO of mine is reading this, so I can be honest. Honest!

[Kimberly Marie Kelly]

Definitely I prefer women over men, as someone else said I'd like them to be accepting of my dressing and they would have to dress sexier then me. But definitely women.:GE:

[shauna 9]

I love my wife and the rest is all fantasy .

[Melissa Davis]

GG's for me.

[Khriss]

Hey, My dressing as a "girl" bummed out every woman ..I've been involved with ...(so far) even if sex was great when I was in "guy" mode.. truth is .. I love Women !! While femminine beauty .. is sometimes found in persons like myself ...transgendered does'nt frighten me much, as I find some of "us" might be more sexually charged or
open ..than the general population is (no-doubt-hehe) ...so I try to remain hopefull ..to find ...

[SatinDoll00]

Well...you will not likely get a "straight" answer out of too many here...

My general preference is women...but I have been with men as well.

It seems that this topic is a subject of division among us. I think many lash out because of fear.

We are all different. Embrace that. It takes a great deal of understanding to relate to what we are...if you cannot understand those around you, how can you expect those around you to understand you???


Morgan


"Once you can accept yourself, you can begin to accept others" ... <someone more famous than I>

[rustynail]

GGs only for me, real women, but still looking for one that likes my CDing in lingerie!

[LeeAnn_cd]

I tend to lean more to gg's I have not been with a man since I was married. I never had the chance to be with a ts,tv but if the chance came around I think I might have to take it.

[Lois Page]

GGs for me ("There is nothing like a dame"-South Pacific). Anything else (cd/tv/ts) is curious fantasy from reading TG fiction.
Lois

[ellieparsons]

GG's only for me as well

[Atanna]

Your poll's missing an option.

CD's/TV's/TS's, Men, and GG's

That'd be my vote.

:p

[Lora Olivia]

No vote....we want it all lol:drink:

[shannoncd]

only GG's for me.

melissa
you are so right girl.

hope to chat some time soon.

hugs,

shannoncd

[Ashly]

GGs for me ...Anything else (cd/tv/ts) is curious fantasy from reading TG fiction.
Lois

I guess that is absolutely true ;)

[Jocee]

Hmmmm...... should have added "Couples"


:)

[EllenCD]

I'm so glad so many of the responders prefer GGs as that leaves less competition for me to have all the cute hotties for myself. :rolleyes:

[wishonastar]

I love women and find their bodies attractive and sexy.

I find male bodies unattractive and disgusting. I can not look at male bodies they really turn me off.

I do not like my bits and would like female bits.

But if I became a woman overnight I would not want to be a lesbian.

It turns me off to have sex with a woman as a women as much as having sex with a man as a woman. Confusing is it not?

I have fantasies about having sex with a man as a women but really doing it makes me sick.

I think I would be a Nun if I became a woman, except I am an atheist!

Boy, am I messed up!

[Melora]

YESS!.. I LOVE GGs!, Especially my Wife! As I am only attracted to the feminine, I have seen more than a few TG types in my life, who DO Turn me ON! Even when seeing, "ahem".. "ALL", of them!.
Soo I would be labeled as Bi Curious I guess! But a true Masculine MALE does not turn me on at ALL! = Kind of ikky =.. :puke: I think..
Just my :2c:
Melora/Katie

[Ms_Judys_pet]

Ok, so i'm bi, about 60/40. i enjoy both women and men, but if having to chose one, woman.

i have had fantasies about TS/TG individuals. Never really thought about being with a CD. Sorry girls. However that could be interesting, the more passable the better.
The survey definitely needs an all of the above option.... If i could have them all at once, just once....
On the other hand, i'm happy as a cross dressing male, but if i could spend a couple weeks as a women, with the correct bits, :Party: :cheers: i would definitely be interested in men, i'd love to experience that. GG/TS/TG would also attract me.

[charlie-50]

A few years ago i would of said gg s only ... but now in my old age....i been having a real hankering feeling to spead the love .....charlie....:happy:

[ashlee chiffon]

GG's are the greatest,my primary focus, and the reason i am what i am...but passable TG's cause some stirrings, also. I'm too addicted to Women to give them up, though! Fabulous Creatures!

[Tray]

I ofcourse prefer men only but I can understand how CDers would want a man when in femme.

[tinadcd]

I just found this topic and upon reading the poll at the top I was given pause. This perspective may have been already expressed in one of the previous hundred-odd replies, so forgive me if I am being redundant.

Dressing is a very sexual thing for me; the ultimate expression of my submissive self and my deep rooted desire to be dominated, used, abused and humiliated. I'm straight, and I have no sexual interest in males, as such.

BUT... I have recently entertained (seriously) the scenario of meeting with certain specific like-minded (read: kinky) t-gurls for isolated assignations. I am not sure if this is just castles in the air or a paradigm shift. Could these thoughts be attributed to a desire for new level of sexual humiliation and/or an acceptance of other t-gurls as suitable "playmates"? I'm also not sure whether I am/should be excited, dismayed, accepting or repulsed by this prospect.

Therein lies the rub...

I think therefore I fall into a sixth category, one which I am at a loss to define or quantify.

Analysis and comment welcomed.

Tina

[Annette_boy]

Hi Girls
I am Bi sexual I like women and men and cd tg ts I prefer to be the woman mostly when with a man and also with a woman I figure just more people to party with LOL
Hugs Annette

[marykay1957]

Like GGs ts cd tg some men I diddnt like men untill I had one :love:

[SherylynJade]

For me it's mainly GG's, but I have has some experience with a couple of guys, and probably would again in the future if the oppurtunity came. Sometimes, I'll admit, it scares me a little.

[MarciManseau]

I only wish there'd been a choice of EVERYONE. For me, it's not what's between your legs, but more about who you are and how you treat me. Smart, funny, attractive and gentle are what I look for.

Gotta love sex :)

[silkenhose]

for me it is my SO and only her........however she does bend me over and i love it so does this mean :o

[Michelia]

But in another world (and when I was in my teens) I did have some relationships with TS/TV. The term CD did not exist back then.

Michelia

[Lizzie Kay]

I followed Kristen's advice to buy a nice pair of jeans, a top, and sliders to re-acclimate to getting back into dressing. I did, as well as control panties and a bra. Tonight, I shopped for three hours till I found a pair of high heel booties and black tights, that price and size worked.

Girls! I got home. Put everything on, then-presto! I went to a bar that has drag shows, dressed with the all the items mentioned! No make up, no wig, just a guy dressed! I entered the bar with no problem, found a stool by the bar, and sat down. Girls, I was accosted by a guy, who was fairly "lit" up, as soon as I got my drink. Clearly he was on the downside slope for the evening. Another guy came up, wearing a cowboy hat, and I started to tease him about his hat. He teased my about my cowl neck sweater being so "nellie", or retro. Found out that he had taught Human Sexuality at Iowa University and he was gay, his SO was in New York on a business trip.
We talked while he was on my right, then after our conversation, he moved to my left, and sidled his body up against me.

Sisters! I have always been a gg Guy! Tonight I was dressed, and he had his body and leg against mine at the bar. I found myself teasing his leg with mine, rubbing it up and down with mine. It felt wonderful! I had panty hose on under my jeans, and the sensation of teasing him with my leg by softly rubbing up and down it was a HUGE turn on! I played with his leg for a bit, then like a true gg, I pulled body contact away from him. The next thing I knew, he was moving his right leg as far has he could at the bar to touch mine. Another turn on!

LOL, I have to laugh at this. My next move was to wrap my leg and foot around this leg and pull and rub it with my foot!

I was dressed, I have always prefered gg's! BUT, I was scoping out and bird eyeing all the TS, and CD's that were entering the place, and coming up to the bar...

I have to sum this up, that something really strange happens to me when I am dressed "enfemme" and in a bar where it's tolerated....

LOL, the guy stayed true to his "husband", I think I got him so riled that he up and left the place. I remained where I was at, but smiled at being able to tease a man-albeit a gay man, to the brink! This is wild, but I fantasized while I teased him, about going home with him and seeing where things might go....

I enjoy and like being a man, but dressed up as a lady, it looks like I'm a tease! Had a great time! Most importantly, it felt really really good! I love women, I love to look at attractive women, but tonight as "en femme", I loved and fantasized about the attention of a man....

Question is, as a man dressing "en femme" how far does it go?

[Amanda Woods]

I am totally straight but i think if a convincing tv came onto me ,well I think I would have to give in whether I was in female mode or not.

[Rashell StClaire]

Well...you will not likely get a "straight" answer out of too many here...

My general preference is women...but I have been with men as well.

It seems that this topic is a subject of division among us. I think many lash out because of fear.

We are all different. Embrace that. It takes a great deal of understanding to relate to what we are...if you cannot understand those around you, how can you expect those around you to understand you???


Morgan



"Once you can accept yourself, you can begin to accept others" ... <someone more famous than I>

I have been married for 15 years but the last 2 years all I can think about is being with a man or another TV. It hasn't happened yet but I hope it will one day. My crossdressing is irrelevant to these feelings and I find it funny that people are so definite in their answers on this topic when they are so understanding of dressing issues

[Patti Girl]

When I'm in boy mode, I have no interest in men. But in girl mode, I would like to be treated as a girl, sexually, by a man.

I've done it a few years ago when my Wife was dominating and force feminizing me. But now that I understand and accept that I really want to be feminine, it would be nice to do it "voluntarily".

Bottom line, as a male I'm pretty much straight, but en femme, I'd like a man.

I don't think that I have interest in playing with another CD.

Patti

[Vickifur]

:d:d:d

[becki_babe_uk]

Oh has to be Men, Men, and Men! :2c:

[SiobhanW]

GGs only for me. I know I'm not gay because I've had 2 opportunites for a gay encounter (with friends that I didn't know to be gay or, in the second instance, bi).

The first guy, we actually shared a hotel room at a sales conference. I turned down his advances flat. Coincidentally, since he moved away from this area, he has figured out that he is actually transgendered and now lives as a pre-op. She is the only person outside my wife whom I've told of my crossdressing.

The other was an old friend from high-school who told me in a quiet moment at our class reunion that he has always found me attractive. Again hotel rooms were available for actually proceeding with an assignation, but again I said I wasn't that way inclined.

Somebody earlier mentioned TS literature. I am a bit of a porn hound, and like straight porn as well as TS porn. When viewing male/TS porn, I invariably identify with the male in the partnership, but in female/TS porn I identify with the TS. Either way, I do love a c0ck in a frock.

I guess the question is then.....if my now TG friend had presented as a female, would I have been more inclined towards accepting his advances? And the truth is that I don't know if I could answer that question.

[kaitlin]

Hi Girls, Being the fact that I am very happly married, I don't want any other woman. But the desire to be with a TS girl is very strong. Female body, male parts, yeah this would work well! Kaitlin

[Kieroney]

Good pole, I have only been with gg, as a guy that's all I want, would love dressing like that and doing it with another girl, wife,though I have thought about it with a guy only while I was dressed like a girl. The whole Idea of that scares me. Guys are always joking with me about that.

[Brenda1423]

GGs only for me.

[jayelle]

I love my wife and the rest is all fantasy .

ditto.

[cute_michelle_cd]

i have always been a person who isn't into spacific things when it comes to sexual pleasure. I enjoy all. i love the shape and feel of a GG which is why i dress. i also love the feel and comfort of a man. and very much enjoy the sight and feel of a CD..... so i dont really have a spesific answer to the poll. i just enjoy being sexual but not always with sex.

michelle

[Stephanie-L]

Well, let me start out by saying that I have leaned a bit toward the Bi side since I was young, so, when I am in male mode it is mostly GG's but a nice guy, maybe. And I have always wanted to be with another CD/TG gal. And the attraction to males and CDs increases when I am en femme. My ultimate sexual fantasy is a nice couple, GG and CD, to play with, with me en femme. Now mind you, this is all about sexual attraction, as far as emotional attachment it is definately GGs with a possibility of CD/TG, and maybe the perfect male. A bit complex, is it not........Stephanie

[Dizzy-Chan]

Sexual preference?

Omnisexual.

[Joy Carter]

I'll be with my wife till then end. But if I was single again, I'd look for another GG.
There just isn't anything like the heart, sole, charmes and personality of a woman. Their touch, caresses and even their scent.
You can say I'm hooked on GG's. And they really don't have to be beautiful to be attractive. So many of them are left waiting, when they have much to give. :hugs:

[veronica_gr]

GG's for me.

But I would like to try with CD's/TV's/TS's sometimes

[TV Wannabe]

Not sure yet, I guess I'm Bi-Curious.

[guysinpantyhose]

Prefer GG's, and passable CDs, however, when I'm dressed, I can go for a regular guy.

[renee99]

I have been married for 15 years but the last 2 years all I can think about is being with a man or another TV. It hasn't happened yet but I hope it will one day.

PLEASE tell me that you have let your wife in on this "plan" of yours. :eek:

[Michellebej]

I wonder how objective a straw poll like this can be when we have members whose SOs peruse our boards.

I think the only way to do this would be to close the thread to discussion and only allow anonymous voting. Even then I think you would get skewed results.

I would be interested to see what our stats woman has to say about this.

Kinda like conducting a poll on infidelity. Can't you just hear the SOs right now: "That right! You better not say you would cheat on me". lol

Something I learned in Engineering School: "The perception of the observer colors the observed".

Michelle

[Susan.]

Sexually, it is only GG's.

Only GG's, for one reason I wouldn't ever cheat on my wife. And if I were single I would seek out another GG first. I'd look for other CDs, TV and TS before looking at the man option.

[SarahHall]

I had never had any urge to be with another guy before I started dressing up. Almost immediately the urge to be with another guy came over me and has been with me ever since. I would also like to be with other transvestites.:hugs:

[Stormgirl]

GGs only but as of late,I have been turned off by them due to their illogical irrational thinking and excessive drama. :mad::mad:

[darla_g]

GG only and then only my wife.

Not that there's anything wrong with it .....

[androgyne]

CDs, TVs, TSs (nonop), men and select GGs.

[flacindycd]

I adore GG's but also enjoy a sexy guy as well as other CD/tgirls,its all according to my mood ,to be be perfectly honest.
I guess thats why I consider myself "BIGENDERED"

[Jere Oneil]

I have to admit, I did experiment with another guy when I was a young teen, but since those few times, it has been strictly GGs for me. As for decking a guy who made advances to me, I'd like to think that I'd reply, "Well, I'm flattered, but no thanks, I prefer women."

[susan2010]

GG's only. I want to dress like a girl and have sex with a girl. My present wife used to do this occassionally, but no more. In fact, no more sex of any kind.

[susancheerleader]

I am totaly straight. I dress like a girl, but thats it. :tongueout

[Veronika Backer]

I'm a cd for more than 25 years. First I didn't have any feelings for men. But now the feeling is getting stronger to date men. There is secret romance between me and a guy on the net for more than two years. And I hardly can't wait to meet him.

[Stargirl]

I used to wonder about the feminine side of heterosexual male crossdressers. The femme side, being also "straight" MIGHT be attracted to males at times, if so inclined. Acting on that attraction may not be an option, simply by having a natural preference to GG's.(but there is nothing wrong with a straight man being fascinated by, or attracted to another male, or a "butch" woman.) I am often attracted to all kinds of people, and ponder the possibilities, but acting on them may bring MORE problems for all involved. Attraction isn't necessarily sexual, but may be "chemistry" or "magnetism". Finding an enduring friendship, instead of heavy sexual engagement may be more rewarding than a temporary quickie. Nothing can equal a real connection to another person when both are satisfied, be it sexually, socially, or emotional. (the average horn dog guy would go for the quickie) I am basically attracted to men, but sensitive straight men. Seeing his dressed feminine side would be a plus. I am never attracted to overly aggressive men who don't like to be told "NO" or "let's get to know each other better first". I am open to variety in my love life. I haven't given up the desire for closeness. A big bowl of ice cream as a substitute for affection can only take me so far.

[Sonia_cd]

Neither! I am asexual and would prefer to be with neither a man nor a woman. No feelings of sexual attraction here.

[LilKimmiCD]

For me, I have to say men. I'm married to a wonderful GG, would not want to be with any other GG. I have had sex with men while in drab, and while dressed. It was all good. My sexuality does not change by what I wear. I love the "parts" men bring to the dance. Lol! I am also very attracted to pretty TG's (mtF). Haven't had the opportunity to experience sex with a TG yet, but it is very high on my (to do list).
To the person who used violence against a person who expressed an attraction to you, you should have been flattered, then said no thank you, I am straight, and only like GG's. Your post seems to indicate great pride in hurting that person. That is so wrong, and ignorant. May the next person that "hits" on you be a 5th degree black belt in some martial art. Just my 2 cents. Kimmi the queer Tranny.

[curiously_c]

I'm bi, and have been for a lot longer than I've been dressing.

I prefer GG's though, only I have an affinity for, well, carresing the male g-spot, . :heehee:

Although maybe I'm simply odd, but dressing makes me MORE attracted to GG's, maybe because I feel like i can indentify with them more. I have yet to have a sexaul encounter when dressed however, so who knows.

Also, an encounter with another CD might prove very interesting. I'm normally very submissive with men, but theres a few gurls on this site that make me wonder if that could change lol.

[helenejo]

I'd been dressing for about 10 years and had always fantasised about being with another CD.
I was a bag of nerves before trying it and it was the best ever, knowing all the tricks of turning her on made for a magical experience which needed repeating asap
Now when dressed I split my attention between other CDs and guys, I think its a combination of the female half taking over when Im fully en femme and enjoyment of what a male has down below.
Ive been married 15 years but have started meeting other CDs when we are both in drab to arrange dressing up encounters which invariably lead to something else - however I'm finding myself attracted to them & fantasising about them before they are dressed up.

Sometimes I think there is a bit of a culture of denial about crossdressers and homosexual desires - a significant amount of CDs would and do enjoy same sex encounters, especially if it comes in the form of another particularly pretty CD :love:

[missicat]

love my ggs but love being exploited by cds and men alike... anyone? :P

[Sherri CD]

I picked CDs/../ and GGs. I'm 99% for girls, but there have been a couple of TS types who made me say "wow". :)

Funny, I was kind of thinking the same thing. There's been a few that would probally make my toes curl.

[MarciManseau]

Funny, I was kind of thinking the same thing. There's been a few that would probally make my toes curl.

I know exactly what you mean :) WoWoW :D

[MonicaDD]

HI Dana;
I think your post is fine and wish they would allow a little more reveling post here. I was a married straight guy once, although I had been dressing from a young age, but now my preference is ALL MEN, and they have to be straight or at least think they are straight, I dont like gay men and dont date gay men. I have a lot of CD and TG girl friends and even a lot of RG girl friends hell I even have a lot of guy fiends, but as far as my sexual preference is its straight men, and the straighter the better, lol, Monica.

[Alana65]

I have always cosidered myself a straight male, however, I've got to admit that when dressed I quite often have fantasies of being with a man. I don't know if it means that the feminine side of me has taken over and brought deeply buried bi-sexual urges (that I didn't know I had) closer to the surface. At the same time I'm excited & scared by the feelings. Maybe someday I will just have to act on these feelings to know for sure.

[Kayla_CD]

No matter how many times this question, or ones like it, comes up I'm amazed. There is a real stigma that all crossdressers are gay. But that is so far from the truth.

btw, I'm straight but I'm starting to think I may be bi-curious.

[Julogden]

The results of this poll are very interesting, pretty much shoots down the mantra that CD's are highly heterosexual. I realize that there are some TS's here, but the overwhelming majority of the members, and therefore voters, are CD's. Only 53% are strictly hetero, a much lower number than among non-CD males.

Carol

[jaina]

The results of this poll are very interesting, pretty much shoots down the mantra that CD's are highly heterosexual. I realize that there are some TS's here, but the overwhelming majority of the members, and therefore voters, are CD's. Only 53% are strictly hetero, a much lower number than among non-CD males.

Carol

This poll and the many before it always show similar #s

[RobertaFermina]

There are short answers, and accurate ones.
IMJ, seldom the twain does meet.
So I feel disappointed about most one-question polls.
There is almost always more complexity than is offered in the answer choices.

What I miss here is, what is your practiced preference, and what might you be open to?
After all, we all have a few things on our shopping lists that we have never yet gotten into our closets....fresh meat rather than skeletons, I say.

So, SIGH!, maybe someday the board will support more than one question in a poll, or we will all do exhaustive diligence in enumerating EVERY possible meaningful answer to a question before presenting it to our August Body.

:rose: Roberta :rose:

[Eugenie]

The results of this poll are very interesting, pretty much shoots down the mantra that CD's are highly heterosexual. I realize that there are some TS's here, but the overwhelming majority of the members, and therefore voters, are CD's. Only 53% are strictly hetero, a much lower number than among non-CD males.


Well can we give any statistical confidence to these results? First of all there is an enormous statistical bias: only "Crossdressers.com" members participated to the survey. I think that we, here, are by no mean a representative sample of the Crossdressing population.

All we can say then is that the population that answered the poll (Members of crossdressers.com accepting to answer) has these characteristics, in particular a higher ate of homosexuality and B preferences than other surveys had observed. This poll says nothing about the overall crossdresser population.

Some other surveys have been done with slightly more "scientific methods" about various characteristics of x-dressers. I can't remember the references if these researches but some one had given then in a post on that subject.

Designing a survey and conductin it is a complex endeavour...I know, I've been doing it professionally for a great part of my career...

:2c:
Eugenie

[Julogden]

Well can we give any statistical confidence to these results? First of all there is an enormous statistical bias: only "Crossdressers.com" members participated to the survey. I think that we, here, are by no mean a representative sample of the Crossdressing population.

All we can say then is that the population that answered the poll (Members of crossdressers.com accepting to answer) has these characteristics, in particular a higher ate of homosexuality and B preferences than other surveys had observed. This poll says nothing about the overall crossdresser population.

Some other surveys have been done with slightly more "scientific methods" about various characteristics of x-dressers. I can't remember the references if these researches but some one had given then in a post on that subject.

Designing a survey and conductin it is a complex endeavour...I know, I've been doing it professionally for a great part of my career...

:2c:
Eugenie
Hi Eugenie,

I've been around the community for many years, and this poll strongly agrees with what I saw in the community in general. Why would you think that we aren't typical?

Carol

[deja true]

I've read all 151 posts so far and even though I would have answered "gg's only" at the top of the thread, now I'm not so sure.

I agree that the poll is not truly scientifically offered. There are too many ways that the sample could be biased (monitoring SO's, inclusion of wishes as actual action, etc). The only answers I can 100&#37; believe are those of the admitted gay not-girls who say "Men!Men!Men!". They may be the only sector of the membership represented in the poll who really know who they are and are comfortable as they are.

For me, I think i agree with Melora (#93) that men or men parts do not turn me on at all, but when looking at a seriously gorgeous T-girl, that might not be important to the reality of the immediate desire. Especially because, as several others have said, desire for an intimate relationship in my case will ultimately rest on the person and not just the look.
A drop dead and willing T-girl would turn me off if she turned out to be ignorant or bigotted or totally self-absorbed. I don't want sex just for the sake of sex. I want sex as the culmination of a commitment to share a spiritual bonding.

As a man, I'm attracted to women. As a woman, I'm attracted to women. And as we know some CD's, and most TS's are really women. Just ask 'em! So there's a big pool of possibles for me, as it turns out.

Remember the new wave song from the 80's? Never say Never!

Thanks for helping me clarify my own confused thoughts on this important question.

respect & love

deja

[Jennifer Brooks]

GG's all the time but when in fantasy mode I think of being with a male. I think that is common.

[LACD]

GG's for me. Wife posed a question of what would I do if a man came on to me while out and dressed. Told her I would refuse, but she says I might not. She is worried I might go with another man nd can't make her see I am Like another post, lesbian in a mans body, dressed like a woman. I have never been out dressed so everything is hypothetical. One day I will get out and about.

[Amy Hepker]

Only GGs for me, but it is so frustrating when they don't want people like us.

[Dalece]

as a girl i want men only, as a guy it's ggs.

Same for me

[sunnybunns]

My wife is the only G.G. for me.

[Emily Ann Brown]

YES.......I prefer sex ! But we can't always get what we want.


Emily Ann

[Megan (VA)]

I appreciate both GGs and men regardless of how I am presenting myself. I always have. I've never really given any thought to being with another TG, but I would not rule out the possibility.

[Wynter Skye]

growing up, i've always loved gg's and i still do. however, having dressed since my pre pubescent years, i eventually found myself in various situations and places where i've met a wide variety of people. exploring my own inner complexities opened me to the idea that a person can be beautiful regardless of gender indentification or external packaging. I found that my own ideas of beauty (while most still resonate within me) were the results of my upbringing and my society. While I am married and love my gg wife, if I were single, I've known a few men and tg's that I would lavish with my affection.

[Donna Delite]

I'm bi and am leaning more towards cd/tv/men the older I get. A few years ago I would never have admitted it, now I have learned to go where the river flows, wherever that may take me.

[jayme357]

Guess I am one of the confused one's, tho' I don't consider myself as such. I love women! Obviously I do everything possible to have people believe I am one! When I am dressed, tho', and totally into the joy of being what I dream about, there is nothing more exciting than having a man recognize, accept, and enjoy what I have to offer. My experiences with men have been so satisfying and have left me feeling like the consumate woman. I have not had the priviledge of having a sexual experience with a GG, but it is certainly one of my fantasies. Nevertheless, looking into the eyes of a man that I have just given the ultimate pleasure is a reward that I will cherish forever.

[Kathy Renee]

After 36 years of marriage and still going strong, only my GG.

[lottarosie70]

i honestly can't vote on this one, because there are choices left out. my experience in life has been almost exclusively GGs, and i love EVERYTHING about the female form. that said, i can envision being attracted to any gender. i am not enamored of the male shape and body (with one notable exception:heehee:) but if i were approached in the right way at the right time, i can certainly imagine giving it a whirl. i have been attracted to CDs and MtF transsexuals, i've seen some FtMs that looked quite good...i think i would have to pick "all of the above" except that isn't a choice in the poll as written.

i've noticed that when i am dressed up i am more open to the idea of being with a man than when i am not, but there is no way i could rule out any possibility, again depending on circumstances at the time and on the approach used.

[PameeSue]

I second that motion for new category...(just :2c:)
There are a few of us with all doors open...good to see.:thumbsup:
Bisexual or pansexual ......to be more exact.
For me its about the person...the being....
...if the shoe fits......ahha...no wonder I have so many in my closet.

I present a sweet shy girl....<giggles>

Suzie

:hugs:to all.

[annekathleen]

I am "bi" regardless if I am "crossdressed" or in my male clothes.