Middle agers: Have you met admirers?

[Alice Torn]

I don't get to get on so much lately, but, have had several or more, admirers, wanting to meet me. I have been very cautious, but, am considering it, with one. Have any of you middle agers, ever met with admirers? A bunch answered some personals, I had on line. Share if you feel ok about it. Good, bad, or ugly! Lucille

[Mitch23]

I've had lorts of attention from admirers and other 'girls'. I think because when dressed, I look much younger and v sexy and also because I think i'm a bit flirty and still exploring the boundaries of my sexuality. Not generally helpful if you have an unsupportive wife and you are wanting her to be more accepting. so i have had to set myself some off limits because i'm playing with fire

mitch

[Lilith Moon]

I have had two admirers hit on me in the same weekend. The experiences were unnerving because I wasn't out to pull, just doing my own thing when I got read by them. Admirer #1 was OK and we chatted for a few minutes before I told him nothing doing and we parted company. Admirer #2 was more of a creep...he insisted on playing with himself while asking for certain "favors". Both of these guys must have been half my age which left me with a mixture of feelings..flattered that I could pull 'em without even trying, uneasy about what could have gone wrong, irritated by the assumption that I was looking for sex with men just because I was wearing a skirt.

[MsJanessa]

yes of course I've have---both on line and in real life---some have led to some very satisfying relationships, others less so and some were absolute disasters----My advice is to avoid anybody you think has had even a little to much to drink if in the flesh---sometimes very difficult to tell until its too late---also as far a meeting people on line--it does offer us a way to let the other know exactly what we are looking for in a rather safe way---

but also there are a lot of poseurs on line---if T-Girls they post somebody elses photo to get people to talk with them and if admireres they don't have any intention of ever meeting you---you are basically a porn show for them. There is no way to avoid these people just don't be suprised if you make a date to meet them and then they don't show up----I bet there are even some Girls who post here who have done that.

[Billijo49504]

I've been told I have a few admirers, but those are the secret type. I wish they would come out of the woodwork. I'd really like to have a few more close friends on the forum. I'm not looking for anything physical, but a new friend is always nice....BJ

[Kate Simmons]

It's not easy meeting someone who is genuine. Ms Janessa had good advice on that. It's best to meet in person however. Be prepared for disappointment though because no matter what someone says online, they can turn out to be someone entirely different. If you do get to the point of actually meeting, you need to use discretion like a real woman. While you may be looking for a friendship or relationship, they may be looking for something else. Have fun, enjoy but always use caution.:happy:

[SiobhanW]

but also there are a lot of poseurs on line---if T-Girls they post somebody elses photo to get people to talk with them and if admireres they don't have any intention of ever meeting you---you are basically a porn show for them. There is no way to avoid these people just don't be suprised if you make a date to meet them and then they don't show up----I bet there are even some Girls who post here who have done that.

There is a beautiful GG on MySpace (at least if you can believe the pictures she's posted of herself) who claims to love turning boys into girls. But then shows "after" pictures of what are mostly (and clearly) GGs. There are no "before" pictures. It would be the fulfilment of a fantasy (dream?) to have her make a beautiful woman of me. But with these looks, and this frame, she'd certainly need to employ all her skills!

[Vivian Best]

Remember the saying in Real Estate, the three most important things about a piece of property, #1 Location, #2 Location, #3 Location.

Well, the three most imporant things about on-line anything is, #1 Caution, #2 Caution, #3 Caution! And, most of all CAUTION!!!!!

[Kris]

Okay what is middle aged?


I know I have talked to a few t-girls now that totally don't believe I really am interested. They almost automatically assume it is some weird fetish or something.

It's almost like they think I am too good to be true. Which is hard for me to understand because I am not THAT good. LOL I mean I am not horrible but I am not something to be worshiped I am just me, and I know what I like.

So I am 40 ish .. so you decide if I qualify.

:hugs: and :love:'s,
Kris

[Rogina B]

A good transformation certainly makes a girl look at least ten years younger!remember that we tend to dress in the way that most men think a women should, observing of how many women are out shopping in awful clothes and flip flops.they are just a mess. so,it is natural that a man would be atracted to the image we try put on when we are out and about. and there are genuine admirers and just horny men out there for sure! you have to sort them out if interested.

[Karren H]

Okay what is middle aged?


I know I have talked to a few t-girls now that totally don't believe I really am interested. They almost automatically assume it is some weird fetish or something.

It's almost like they think I am too good to be true. Which is hard for me to understand because I am not THAT good. LOL I mean I am not horrible but I am not something to be worshiped I am just me, and I know what I like.

So I am 40 ish .. so you decide if I qualify.

:hugs: and :love:'s,
Kris

:yrtw::yrtw::yrtw:

All Hail Queen Kris!! hehe

And yes I have met a few admireres before, for lunch or dinner.... and one I have become very good friends with..... Nothing sexually.... just a nice person to talk to..

Karren

[MsJanessa]

There is a beautiful GG on MySpace (at least if you can believe the pictures she's posted of herself) who claims to love turning boys into girls. But then shows "after" pictures of what are mostly (and clearly) GGs. There are no "before" pictures. It would be the fulfilment of a fantasy (dream?) to have her make a beautiful woman of me. But with these looks, and this frame, she'd certainly need to employ all her skills!

there are people who can do a real good job at transformations---one that comes immeadiatly to mind is Jamie Austin(in Massachusettes). I'm assuming this girl is running a business---maybe the ''"afters" are t-girls--don't let the fact that there are fakers out there stop you from going after what you want---just do it with your eyes wide open. xoxo Janessa

["Mary"]

Since I don't get out much, there's not much admiration going on (except for a few secret admirers on line - make my day:happy:) so I have not actually met any. Sounds rather naughty, though.

Diana

[charlie]

I'm 57 and definately middle aged. At a bar I met several very passable,nice, and beautiful TS and TG that were very outgoing, friendly and chatty. All offered to help me out with my makeup in the future. We talked all night and I was made to feel like one of the party. I don't know if they all felt sorry for me or wanted to just bring me into the fold.

[Sharon]

I have no interest in people attracted to me only because I am transgendered. I want someone who likes me for being who I am, not what I am.

[TxKimberly]

I have no interest in people attracted to me only because I am transgendered. I want someone who likes me for being who I am, not what I am.

She just said exactly the way I feel.
Oh, and yes I have met a few admirers, other Tgirls dates. So far I'd say it's about 50 / 50. About half seem to be nice people, the other half gave me the creeps.

[Kieroney]

Well, Halloween,seemed I had quite a few, girls mostly, guys just seemed to look, that was a bit much to handle. I'll see how it goes when I start doing it outside of Halloween. Real low thirties keeps me out of the middleaged for just a wee longer.

[Kris]

:yrtw::yrtw::yrtw:

All Hail Queen Kris!! hehe

And yes I have met a few admireres before, for lunch or dinner.... and one I have become very good friends with..... Nothing sexually.... just a nice person to talk to..

Karren

I can't find a kissy kiss for you Karren but I wish I had one.

I love you honey, but get off your knees until I am standing in front of you~!


HAHAHA!

I am going to a fetish photoshoot tonight and I am so excited. I hope these pictures don't make me look middle AGED~!

:love:,
Kris

[Jodie Wexler]

I have not meet anyone yet. Only three people, other than my wife, know that I am a CD and I only told them last month. Maybe some day I will get the courage up to meet another member.
Jodie

[MarciManseau]

I have had two admirers hit on me in the same weekend. The experiences were unnerving because I wasn't out to pull, just doing my own thing when I got read by them. Admirer #1 was OK and we chatted for a few minutes before I told him nothing doing and we parted company. Admirer #2 was more of a creep...he insisted on playing with himself while asking for certain "favors". Both of these guys must have been half my age which left me with a mixture of feelings..flattered that I could pull 'em without even trying, uneasy about what could have gone wrong, irritated by the assumption that I was looking for sex with men just because I was wearing a skirt.

They may have been reading your body language. Is that possible? GG's learn early on how to dress and act when they don't want male attention. You look very nice, so you're going to have to expect some male attention, Lilith. Where were you when this happened?
:hugs:

[MarciManseau]

There is a beautiful GG on MySpace (at least if you can believe the pictures she's posted of herself) who claims to love turning boys into girls. But then shows "after" pictures of what are mostly (and clearly) GGs. There are no "before" pictures. It would be the fulfilment of a fantasy (dream?) to have her make a beautiful woman of me. But with these looks, and this frame, she'd certainly need to employ all her skills!

"If it seems to good to be true, it probably is," some wise woman once said.

[Dita_B]

A good transformation certainly makes a girl look at least ten years younger!remember that we tend to dress in the way that most men think a women should, observing of how many women are out shopping in awful clothes and flip flops.they are just a mess. so,it is natural that a man would be atracted to the image we try put on when we are out and about. and there are genuine admirers and just horny men out there for sure! you have to sort them out if interested.

I wholeheartedly agree with the above statement...

I was hit on this week by a nice (and handsome) guy while I was shopping in Sears, of all places. And as far as I could detect (and believe me, I was on red alert), he bought me as a GG, lock, stock and barrel. He kept running into me until I agreed to have a coffee with him...

I couldn't get myself yet to tell him that I am a TG, because he couldn't have behaved more like a real gentleman, as he went out of his way to shower me with gallantries, opening doors, helping with my coat, my chair, paying for my coffee... all of those things that nice men do for real women they are impressed with. He even blushed several times...! All the time doing his very best to make me feel comfortable.

He wants to see me again, but I don't know yet what to do with it... I enjoyed the experience because it gave me a tremendous boost in my femininity. I am not really interested in a male admirer, but I am kind of interested in a male companion, as it is the ultimate "cover" for a girl like me when going places. A lot less people will "doubt" my genuine girl presence when in company with an (attractive) male...

But sooner or later, I'll have to drop the bombshell and shatter his tender illusion...and I don't look forward to that.

:love:Dita.

[Lilith Moon]

They may have been reading your body language. Is that possible? GG's learn early on how to dress and act when they don't want male attention. You look very nice, so you're going to have to expect some male attention, Lilith. Where were you when this happened?
:hugs:

I was just going about my business. The first time I was at a local beauty spot taking some pics, admirer #1 was passing by in his car, then stopped and reversed up before introducing himself. He said he was clocking me as a gg, then his trannydar alert switched on. Second time, I had just gotten into my car in a local town when the guy hailed me through the window.

Both times I was dressed to blend in, not like my profile pic :heehee:

Hey, thanks for the compliment...purr...purr

[Mistybtm]

Yes i have meet with a few of them but not with out a lot of e-mails and phone calls, Just be careful and go with your gut feelings ,if it feels bad it is. but so far no problems and a lot of good times :D