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Alisha284
11-23-2007, 06:12 PM
Hi Girls,

Well I have not posted much but can anyone tell me
why I feel so good about myself and very happy when
I am dressed.. I have the chance to be alone today
as the gf is at work so I got all dolled up in short skirt,
med dark hose,nice lace blk slip,and my fav pink and blk
floral skirt. I feel as I can knock the world out. But
do not feel the same when I am in my male dud's. Why
is this??
Jasmine Ellis
11-23-2007, 06:19 PM
welcome to the family
Alisha284
11-23-2007, 06:24 PM
Can you tell me why I feel great being dressed up vs my male things?
Wendy me
11-23-2007, 06:26 PM
Can you tell me why I feel great being dressed up vs my male things?

yes silly your a crossdersser...............
charllote34
11-23-2007, 06:33 PM
yes silly your a crossdersser...............

And basically theres your answer simple as that!!
Alisha284
11-23-2007, 06:35 PM
I just love being on this site and thanks for the welcome!!
Mary Morgan
11-23-2007, 06:41 PM
Alisha, You certainly know how to ask the million dollar question first. My guess is that you like many of us, are somewhere on the male-female continuum that is closer to the center, or maybe you just have a great sense of style. Enjoy!
Kate Simmons
11-23-2007, 06:48 PM
Seems to go with the "turf" according to most answers on a recent thread of mine. I asked how do you feel when you are dressed.:happy:
Pamela Julie
11-23-2007, 07:54 PM
Real simple, you are one of the girls.
trannie T
11-23-2007, 08:00 PM
I don't know that any of us know why we are crossdressers, let alone know why anyone else is a crossdresser.
Samantha B L
11-23-2007, 08:05 PM
Well Alisha, To sum it up none of us know just precisely and exactly why we're crossdressers. that's the plain and simple truth! But let all of us give you a big welcome to the family.

Yours,Samantha
Atanna
11-23-2007, 08:05 PM
Do what makes ya happy :D
Nicole Erin
11-23-2007, 08:06 PM
Well, men's clothes just are not sexy. Women's clothes are usually softer and prettier. AND I assume you are attracted to women, so when you dress like one, you probably wear things you would like to see a woman wear. So, you feel that you look sexy. And maybe you do. Maybe you wish you were a woman.

Well I am sure if you looked hard enough around the web you would find a long winded answer by some "expert" but what I said above is the summary of it.

Many of us feel all pretty when dolled up. It is normal.
Susan.
11-23-2007, 08:26 PM
Women clothes give you a feeling of security. You don't have to live up to the pressure of being a man. At least that is one of the reasons I got from a therapist.
Sasha Anne Meadows
11-24-2007, 10:19 AM
It feels good because it is natural for us.
Karren H
11-24-2007, 01:43 PM
Beats me!! I feel good about myself no matter how I'm dressed.... Self respect shouldn't depend on what your wearing... IMHO....

Karren
Joanne f
11-24-2007, 02:16 PM
You are doing something that you want to do, that is bound to make anyone feel happy.


joanne
Michelle 51
11-24-2007, 08:05 PM
When a part of someone has been repressed because they,re told boy,s don,t like soft or silky cloths or they shouldn,t show their emotions or want to dress pretty and that side finaly gets a chance to express itself it feel good.Oh yes it feels so good to finaly let it out.
Joanna-Louise
11-24-2007, 11:32 PM
Heya hun and welcome,

The feeling good while dressed is your body's and mind way of telling you your relaxed, chilled out and comfortable.

Alot of us here will be able to realte to the feelings we experience while dressed en femme.

my advice?!? just go along with it and enjoy doing it. Experiment with it and you will find a medium where you will be happy.... (or wanting more lol).

tc hun


Joanna
xx