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[Mikala0589]

I shaved my legs for the first time, they feel GREAT. It's tougher to do then i expected. I still havent told my newly married wife about my crossdressing, but im getting closer. I kind of hope i can tell her myself without my shaved legs being a dead giveaway. I've gotten pretty close in the past couple months, we were on vacation and i tried on one of her thongs before we had sex and she said "laughing", that it looked sexy. So the next night we went out, i said that ill buy my own women's thong. I did buy one, and she wasn't that freaked out, but she did laugh. My next step is to tell the truth. I'm very nervous, but i love my shaved legs...

[Nicole Erin]

Tell her you had chemo on your legs. :heehee:

No but for real, the first time shaving legs is a pain in the butt. If you shave them regularly like once or twice a week, like when you start to get stubble, it is easier since you don't have a forest growing out of your legs.

There is also Nair but it is so gross and brutal on the skin that by the time the rash goes away, it is time to shave again.

With telling her - Wait til you have plenty of time to talk. When you can have plenty of time for just you two. Maybe say something like "I need to tell yoiu about something but I do not want you getting pissed off or freaking out..."

Well that is what I said to my wife and after explaining, she asked the normal "are you gay" "do you want to be a woman" and all that. But she took it pretty well.

[tina_43]

Good luck and wish you the best

[Angie G]

Good luck hun :hugs:
Angie

[tamarav]

I personally would telll her as early in the relationship as possible. I told my wife two years before we were married and spent an entire day and evening going through all the questions she had and many that she hadn't thought of. I also took her to ETVC meetings in San Francisco and eased her into the differences in life.

It gave her time to adjust, run, or scream. Fortunately many years later she is still my biggest supporter. (She does get pissed when I wear smaller clothes or have less tummy than she does...)

Tami

[Jodie Wexler]

I personally would telll her as early in the relationship as possible. I told my wife two years before we were married and spent an entire day and evening going through all the questions she had and many that she hadn't thought of. I also took her to ETVC meetings in San Francisco and eased her into the differences in life.

It gave her time to adjust, run, or scream. Fortunately many years later she is still my biggest supporter. (She does get pissed when I wear smaller clothes or have less tummy than she does...)

Tami


I did the same thing, but without the meeting part. Ditto on the clothes part too.

I would tell her soon, later it may be too late.
Jodie

[SiobhanW]

One thing about the shaved legs, at least for me. While they felt and looked great under hosiery, they felt really weird against the material of my pants. It's like the hair keeps the material off your skin or something. You may enjoy the sensation, but I didn't. Of course the answer could be as simple as wearing pantyhose or stockings all the time!

[Lanore]

Talking to her now eliminates the words, 'got caught', later. Why let her fall in love with one of you and be surprised with the other. The longer you hide it, the more it will sound like you've been keeping a secret, which you will. Relationships are built on trust and open doors. Don't let her open yours down the road. Take care.

Lanore

[Jocelyn Quivers]

Enjoy the shaved legs. I also told my wife before we were engaged. There was no greater joy than having my wife accept me.

[Tiffany Leigh]

I (She does get pissed when I wear smaller clothes or have less tummy than she does...)

Tami





NEVER, NEVER look better than her, nothing like a jealous so!!!!


I also told my bride early in our dating relationship, she always liked me in panties. She even bought me a pair of pink satin ones to wear on our wedding day. But she has only seen me dressed in full once and didnt like the fact she thought I looked better in her clothes.

Tiffany

[Alice B]

Talk to her and soon. An open informed discussion will save a great deal of grief later.

[kim85]

good luck on tellings your wife hun. I would agree with tamarav


spent an entire day and evening going through all the questions she had and many that she hadn't thought of

Just be honest dont lie and prepare your self well for the questions
Kim
xxx

[shauna 9]

Good luck

[marny]

I wasn't an early bloomer. I didn't start to cd until 5 yrs after getting married. I didn't know!:straightface: I think if I knew something signifigant about my sexual orientation that it would only be fair to tell the person I was about to MARRY if they hadn't already figured it out.

[femboy_01]

I agree Nair is really wicked and there is the rash to attend with.

Haven't tried waxing but thats painful but the feel of nylons on shaved legs is heaven!!

Serena

[charllote34]

Nothing beats the feal of silky smooth legs

[tammysuetv]

Shaved legs do feel soo wonderful. Good luck.

[occdresser]

good luck with telling your wife, I never did, she found out by cleaning the closet:Angry3: