Are there other CDrs like me?

[Patti Remick]

Hi all,
Sorry, I know my post title is a bit ambiguous.

What I mean exactly is are there others CDrs like me that are really not into breasts - either in male or female mode. Im not trying to start a discussion or debate. I always am repectfull of others and say 'to each his/her own'.

I fully recognize that breasts are a very important physical part of a womans body, and have a definite purpose and function. I also recognize that many CDrs - and most real women - consider them an integral part of their 'femininity' - both physically and emotionally. I also recognize that like tucking, waist/hip/bum shaping, makeup, hair, nails, and - of course - clothing - breasts are a part of a 'total package' of feminine appearance.

But as a life long CDr I have never 'got it' about breasts or cleavage. As a male Im not a 'breast man', and as a CDr I dont try very hard to have a bustline. I suppose Im quite happy being a 'flat chested' woman. I do own a few bras (a few Olga's and a few Vanity Fair's) and usually use a couple of pairs of pantyhose as 'stuffing'. But truth is I rarely wear them. I think many here are going to think Im 'nuts' for feeling as I do.

So again, Im not trying to start any debate and Im not dissing anyone's wants/tastes/needs, etc, when it comes to breasts. Im just asking for those that feel like I do - that breasts are not an important part of your CDg and/or 'female persona' - to respond here. Sometimes I think Im the only CDr on earth that isnt into having a breasts/bustline.

Thanks in advance for you replies
Respectfully,
Patti Remick

[Carly D.]

I understand it, the question of having breasts when you are a male.. I wear a padded bra and a bra over it to have what I call a "B" cup look, but really don't understand why I bother.. I feel like I am more comfortable being dressed from the waist down.. or in other words wearing pantyhose or tights and heels and either a skirt or shorts and really skipping the top part and that includes make up and a bra/bust line... that might sound odd but as far as crossdressing is concerned I am evolving more back to what started it all for me and pantyhose and high heels were it.. the igniter if you will... the original "ground zero" starting point...

[SiobhanW]

I pad out when I'm alone, but don't when I'm intimate with my wife. I feel that might be one push too far. Although I've never tried, so who knows. But only pads, not accurate breast forms.

I love breasts on a woman though. Not so much the breast itself, but more the shape under clothing. Especially if they're perky.

[Marla S]

I have what I have ... no breasts ... and no desire to pad ... tried it of course but didn't like it.

[Shelly67]

When I first dressed all those years ago , it never crossed my mind to wear a bra , padding to achieve a full bosom . Now I simply cannot be dressed without tape ( to give a cleveage) , silicon falsies and a lacy bra .
The first time I ever experimented , trying to attain a bosom , I felt silly , but now , well , its just part of a buxom Michelles figure .
Its all about personal taste.......

[Karren H]

Funny but over on MUT there's a thread about breast implants... And most of the GG responders are either unhappy with the smallness of their breasts or the largeness of their breasts... Its the same with anything... If ya got a small one then ya want a big one.. And visa versa..

But as with every thing in this life.. Some could careless about them... I could careless about my feet... Or what shape my hands are... I dare say that there's more things that I don't care about than I do care about... So your not alone.... Your don't give a hoot list just has different thing on them than mine does!! Lol

[Brianna Lovely]

Since I'm an "out in public" CD, I wear fem clothes every day. If I'm running errands, shopping, etc. I'll just throw on a nice top, but I do have my own natural breasts. I usually wear a bra and forms if I'm going somewhere special.

Now I've reached a point, where I have to make a decision.

My rib cage is 39" and my breasts are 46" with large nipples, and I've had some off-hand comments from GGs, like, "Oh, nice nipples, giggle", "You have such big nipples", and that's with a crop-top under my fem top.

So, in my case, it's either get the stares from some men, and comments from GGs, or get a bra fitting and wear a bra all the time.

[bobbi(CO)]

Myself, i love the look and feel of breast:2c:

[Jilmac]

i have gone both ways. when i first started dressing, i wore a slip under my dress without a bra. as i progressed, i wore a bra without stuffing. now i'm at the point where i don't need breasts all the time to make me feel like Jill. i have a nice collectoin of bras and i also have my silicone forms, which i just got in september. it depends on my situation at the moment, whether or not i wear my breasts, but i'll never give them up.

Jill

[Nadia-Maria]

A poll about that point would be interesting I mean.

As for me, my first and best pleasure is to fill my bra with huge breastforms when I dress up. I am very pleased and confortable wearing them. On the other hand I have never used make up.

Nadia-Maria

[Ruth]

I guess I am less interested in the breast area than most other parts. Dresses generally require some sort of bosom contour for their fit, and so I will wear a bra and silicone enhancers to get a decent minimal effect, but I would feel silly with a great big "rack" out front (that's what the modern girl calls them in the UK). I have a fairly slim build so a large bosom would probably look artificial anyway.
But it's been said already, we've all got different ideas. I shave my legs most carefully and I love the look of a smooth nylon clad leg.

[Nicole Erin]

I pad a little just for the extra effect, but honestly, I could care less about breasts also. They serve their purpose but I am not fascinated with them.
I am a leg man anyways.

[zann]

I like the sensation that a bra gives ang the look a well formed female breast line. As a practical matter, to pass, the more female clues that you present the more passable you are. Only GG are born with the potential for full female breasts. Some girls and most men are flat chested. Therefor a developed proportional breast is presumed to be on a female unless some other clue contadicts. Get enough clues right and the weight of evidence will force the observer to say you are womenhttp://www.crossdressers.com/forums/images/smilies/happy.gif Ann

[TxKimberly]

I never thought breasts were the end all get all either. I like 'em just fine don't get me wrong, but I wouldn't loose my cool over a pair. Now legs on the other hand . . . :-)
I also thought it was odd the way so many of us WAY over do the breasts, make them bigger than their heads, etc. I think that makes you more like a caricature of a woman, but like you said, to each their own . . .

[lisa_e_love]

I wear padding because I love wearing bras and I need somethin' to put in there!

It also helps when going out in public to kind of be in keeping with the rest of my appearance. I guess it's not really a focal point of my dressing to have breasts, but wearing a bra is sure important to me when I'm dressed.

[tina jayne]

hi there when i wear my bra which is 75per cent of the time now i always have my breast forms in it looks good and feels right that:2c: bye for now tina

[paulaN]

I love breast. On me, and woman. I am such a breast man that I would love to have my very own. I have tried to grow them. Silicone is still the this cd's best friend.

[Eugenie]

Well, I guess it all depends upon preferences, and being a x-dresser has probably little to do with it...

I'm a breasts lover, as a male or as a x-dresser...

Some men don't like women with big breasts...

My brother likes women with very small breasts...

:hugs:
Eugenie

[Lawren]

As a man I have never been fascinated by large breasts so it follows that when I am dressed I do not desire large breasts. during the day I usually do not wear forms in my bra but I do when I really want to look fem in my best clothes. Mostly Sundays and evenings. Even then I am satisfied with a B-cup.

[SweetCaroline]

I've never been into shoes or panties and don't do much make-up. Yet I LOVE jewelry and accessories, and prefer blouses and skirts over sexy dresses. Does that make me any less of a T-girl than those who spend hours on make-up or hundreds of dollars on shoes.

No.

It just means I have the things I like, and the things I don't feel I need to make me a girl.

If breast forms aren't your thing, then by all means, be yourself, and focus on the things that are you, whatever they may be.

Here's wishing you luck!

[Veronica 1]

My bra and forms are what make me feel like I am myself. When I come home from work, I will usually wash up and then put on my bra and forms, even if I am going to be spending the night in drab. I just love them.

[andreaattimes]

If I am dressing at home then I don't usually even wear a bra. When I dress in front of people(just my triess sisters so far) then I wear forms just because it makes my tops fit better. It is the same my wig and makeup.

[Deanna2]

When I wear femme gear it is not that I want to be a woman or even act like one. I genuinely just love wearing femme gear for the colours and styles and because I find it so comfortable. I very infrequently wear a bra, although when I do so I enjoy it.

In short I am a guy who just loves to hang out in a cami, skirt and heels.

[RachelDenise]

To each, her own. Variety is the spice of life. We all have very definite tastes and desires about everything. Myself, I'm a breast man, and a breast CD! And I love it. :love:

[rustynail]

I ahve been into lingerie since i was 13 or less and bras did not interest me for the first 25 years or so. Another couple of decades on and i find that i love wearing a sheer bra (38B) under a slip or camisole that slithers over it. That makes my nipples tingle. Just last week, following all the chat about breast forms I bought a gel bra from a charity shop for 50 pence just to see wht it felt like. It should mean nothing to me (although I am quite a brest guy for the girls) as it isolates my nipples but i find it a terrific turn on, especiallyu if driving at night with my slips stockings and sheer blouse, although nobody, I hope, can see. Starne isn't it how things never wort the way you rationalise them to?

[Kristen Marie]

I remember in my early days that bigger was better. But more recently, especially when I bought my first breast forms and stopped stuffing, I went for the "perky C's" look. Overall, I'm more comfortable with my look, but have to watch out for certain outfits that bag around the breast area .

[Becca]

Oh, yes. Although all the articles of female clothing attract me, wearing a bra with my breastforms is to me one of the fundamentals, and provides a deep sense of satisfaction. At the same time, proportion is everything. Waist, hips, toned legs, heels, etc., are also an important part of the image, at least for me.

[Annesah]

I have B silicone forms but don't wear them anymore. They did not feel or look right to me. I have natural A's and now wear a slightly paded A bra. Perfect, perky and totally natural. I am petite for a GM so maybe that's why I like the minimalist look. I also enjoy the sensuous feel of the bra against real breasts and nipples as mine are extremely sensitive.:happy:

[Michaella]

When I'm just dressing for myself, or for a few select friends in private, no, I don't pad my chest. I prefer to avoid the artificiality. The idea is to be me, who prefers feminine clothing, but is still physically male, and always will be. But if I am going out in public then I need to fake the breasts in order to pass, so I do it. I wish it weren't necessary, but it would attract attention if I were too flat chested, so padding it is. (The same applies to my beard!)

Oddly, despite that, I rather like wearing a bra. I like the sort of "harnessed" feel they create, so I sometimes wear a spandex sports bra, that fits well without any need for enhancement, just for the feel of it.

[joann426]

oh!!!!!! yes really a bra is the only way to go for clevage and they are very nice to wear have wearing one all day every day and have a wig for sale i payed 159 and never worn it but want to sell it for 100.$ just get in touch with joann:love:

[janet1234]

C forms, great feel, love the bras, love caressing my boobies, love the look.

[trannie T]

I always wear a bra when I'm dressed although I may or may not wear breast forms. I have bras with ups from B to huge and I choose my boobs to fit my mood.

[Melissa Davis]

I keep my breasts somewhat on the smaller side. I like to wear camis and such. My size depends on what I am wearing. With some clothes, the breasts kind of disapear. So I might be a large B cup rather than a small B cup. Just like some women will wear a push-up bra one day, and a sports bra the next I guess.

[Ashly]

.....
Now I've reached a point, where I have to make a decision.
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Got myself in a similar situation...I always like to have real breasts..breast forms didn't do it for me....now I got B-cup breasts..love em..and they feel and look great..especially in a nice lacy bra ;)...but...there might be a day I have to decide which way I want to go..

[Michelle PJ]

For me, when I am alone to dress up, my trans attire must absolutely include a comfortable, feminine and pretty bra and my new size C forms. The appearance and feel of "my" newly created bust covered by a contouring, darted slip is just sooooo sensual.

[marie354]

Before I came out, I usually went braless or wore 'A' bras. Now it's always a 'B' or 'C' and forms (Walmart silicone push-up pads). Like others, I feel that they are a part of me and wear them every day.

[MarciManseau]

Always a B for me, but I may be a lil larger now that I take hormones.

Marci

[Billijo49504]

I'm like some of the other gurls, I have them and that's that. Didn't ask for them, and sometime I wish I could take them off, but they are there and it's too expensive to have them Lipo'ed. That would cost over $3,000. At least that's what they told me a few years ago. I can buy a lot of bras for that money...BJ

[marny]

You ar lonely hon!

[Lorna]

I, too, did not bother much about bras or breasts as a younger CD but in recent years I have come to realise how much a bra contributes to the overall feeling and, of course, shape. Since, for me, the main pleasure of dressing is in trying to experience how a woman feels in her clothes, a bra has become essential. I don't always pad it but when I do, a B-cup is big enough to get the right proportions for my figure and give a good shape to a dress.

[kymmieLorain]

For me I guess that breasts are an augmentation to an outfit.I have a couple padded bras that give me the breast look. I also have breast forms that I wear on occasion when I want the look. but that is alone at home.

Kymmie