Walking the line

[Tobie]

I'm starting to find it easier to strike a balance between HER and HIM. It's taken a little while to understand that it doesn't have to be just one or the other, and that both can be present at the same time.

But I'm thinking I should sit down sometime and write up lists of what personality trait belongs to whom.

[Kieron Andrew]

yup ive always thought that there is no reason why the two cant merge, in my opinion that becomes less awkward and confusing

[Marla S]

yup ive always thought that there is no reason why the two cant merge, in my opinion that becomes less awkward and confusing
:yt:

[Kate Simmons]

Yup, nice place to be Hon.:happy:

[SirTrey]

I know you very well....and being able to combine the two is really the best thing for you....nothing wrong with androgyny....being comfortable with YOU is the most important thing....No need for two sides to fight it out when they can both live in harmony within one very cool and fabulous person....which you are, babe.:hugs::love::chained::daydreaming::kissing:

[CaptLex]

But I'm thinking I should sit down sometime and write up lists of what personality trait belongs to whom.
I'd be curious to read that, Tiergan, and don't be surprised if that changes too. :happy:

[Tobie]

Well, now that I've had two lovely guys ask to see the list, I suppose I'll have to post it here at some point. ;)

Thanks everyone, guys and gals. :hugs: I just feel a little lost while floating in the androgynous world.

[CaptLex]

Well, now that I've had two lovely guys ask to see the list, I suppose I'll have to post it here at some point. ;)
I'm lovely? :D


Thanks everyone, guys and gals. :hugs: I just feel a little lost while floating in the androgynous world.
But the advantage of it is that androgynous people have the best of both worlds and can see from both sides of the fence. :hugs:

[Tobie]

Definitely lovely, Captain! :D And I'll tell you a secret, I was probably too shy to catch your notice, but I was a devoted cabin boy, quietly, and then Trey snatched me up before you did.

Did I just say that?

[SirTrey]

Definitely lovely, Captain! And I'll tell you a secret, I was probably too shy to catch your notice, but I was a devoted cabin boy, quietly, and then Trey snatched me up before you did.
Did I just say that?
Yes, you sure did....hmmm....Trey did snatch you up....Just remember whose cabin boy you ARE, Tiergan...or you could be a very SORRY Cabin Boy...LOL :)

[Tobie]

Tiergan understands, gallant Sir Trey.

But Melissa blurted it out, she does that.

[SirTrey]

Tiergan understands, gallant Sir Trey.
But Melissa blurted it out, she does that.
Unfortunately for Tiergan, he still feels it when Melissa gets spanked! :):spank:

[Tobie]

*grouses* Yeah, they know.

[Cai]

Tiergan understands, gallant Sir Trey.

But Melissa blurted it out, she does that.

Somehow I doubt that's going to get you anywhere...

[Tobie]

Ah, but see, it wasn't meant to get me anywhere. It's the snippets of the personalities, to go on above mentioned list. ;)

[SirTrey]

Ah, but see, it wasn't meant to get me anywhere. It's the snippets of the personalities, to go on above mentioned list.
Yes, that is true....I know you don't try to alibi out of things....you take what you have coming...Now I just have to decide what that IS...if anything....Hmmmmm....pondering.....:)

[CaptLex]

I'll tell you a secret, I was probably too shy to catch your notice, but I was a devoted cabin boy, quietly, and then Trey snatched me up before you did.
Serves me right for not paying closer attention at the time. Just as long as he's happy with the two he has and doesn't try to beg, borrow, steal or buy any more. :p

[SirTrey]

Serves me right for not paying closer attention at the time. Just as long as he's happy with the two he has and doesn't try to beg, borrow, steal or buy any more.
I've been a good boy, haven't I? I believe I have earned your trust by THIS point....hey, I can't even BORROW???? I just caught that....:tongueout:devil::drink::tongue:

[ZenFrost]

Don't just write a list, draw a Zen diagram, remember? :winkp:

Okay, but seriously... I'm glad you're finding your balance. :smilep:

[bi_weird]

That's awesome that you're figuring things out. I'd be really curious to see that list, and see how similar my breakdown is, though I dont' think I'm as clear cut as you are.

[caderemington]

Serves me right for not paying closer attention at the time. Just as long as he's happy with the two he has and doesn't try to beg, borrow, steal or buy any more. :p

I hope he's happy with the two he's got, or else I'm not doing my job.

[Tobie]

I'm pretty sure Trey's content with me.. not like he hides from me online or anything. *ducks and giggles*

So I'm trying to figure out how I'll strike that balance. Probably end up bouncing back and forth between clothing, often mixing, stuff like that.

[CaptLex]

I hope he's happy with the two he's got, or else I'm not doing my job.
I'm sure he's thrilled (who wouldn't be?), but he's a pirate and we do tend to get obsessed with treasure and . . . "not all treasure is silver and gold, mate". :winkp:

[CaptLex]

I suppose I'll have to post it here at some point. ;)
:waiting:

[Ann D Bluebird]

Hello to the inbetweenies......I know where you're at too! HIM/HER=me and I'm happy swinging back and forth...a little GIDdy maybe, but that's ok! :hugs:

[Tobie]

:waiting:

Shhhhh, you'll get Trey on my case too!

[Kieron Andrew]

Shhhhh, you'll get Trey on my case too!
*cough!!*