robyn
04-08-2005, 02:17 PM
a thread was put up about your SO pushing your fem side. Maybe my situatuion is unique. I have posted some of my days. My wife allows my dressing. Except she has rules. Dress anytime I am home. My office is in my home. She tells me what I will wear. Flat and slacks are out. Heels, stockings and makeup are a must. I must act as a women would. No bending the rules.
I enjoy it, so far. Do I want it everyday with these conditions? She says all or nothing. She does get involved in my dressing and teaching me to act as a women. Many of you are married. What would you do if this situation was presented to you?
About 10 days ago I ceased posting for a reason. I have since recived several emails and private message to update.
The overall situation is about the same. Taking a shower in the morning. Putting on stockings, heels, bra, girdle, and my night gown and then going downstairs and have coffee with my wife. We then go upstairs. She picks out what I will wear that day and applies all my makeup.
The majority of the talk is fem. She has also been dressing each day. She says to suport me. She has now included press on nails for me. We tried the very long ones. Not practical so we use a normal length. They work fine. I am not used to having my entire body shaved. It does feel good. Way back when I went to CD bars I would wear flesh colored tights and panty hose over them. It worked fine. Having shaved legs feels a lot better. I did run into a problem with shaving my face twice a day. She insists I look fem and my makeup must be perfect. My face started to get sore. She has a number of creams and lotions. She gave me one and it helped quite a bit. She is quite concerned about friends finding out. This is one of her rules that we never leave the house dressed. I mentioned to her what she would do if one of her friends stopped by while she was dressed in heels, etc. during the day. She now keeps a pair of slacks, a sweater and flats downstairs for a quick change. As to makeup she can use the excuse the is going up town.
I mentioned I need new stockings. She wants anything puchased for me to be on line. Some days ago we went to consignment shop. That will the first and last time. Even though I was in male attire she was concerned about it.
On Sunday we met some friends in New Hope, PA. Oddly enough that is also were a very friendly CD bar is located. No that was not out destination. We went to dinner. During the trip there was never a mention of anything fem.
Monday was a regular day for me. She went shopping with friends. When she got home she had a beautiful new purse. I hoped. No, it was for her, not me.
Tues. I had to stop at business clients a good part of the day. I got home late afternoon. We said our hellos and she said just let me know as soon as your ready for makeup. I went up stairs and all my clothes were laid out for me. She admits she truly enjoys putting makeup on me and seeing me dressed. She enjoys out converations and everything that goes with it. I don't know if I have opened up something or she enjoys the control. I do not have any problem with her taking over this part of our life.
I also wonder if the control is a security blanket. Remember it's her control or nothing for now. Is this her way to make sure this is as far as it goes? She could be thinking of the other things that can come into our different type of lifestyle. Other CD's at the house, bars. You all know the list. I am content this way. No not everyday from now on. Keeping it contained yes. If I am correct then it will work. She has not suggested any change from what we are doing. I am quite pleased with being a women most of the time. I love acting like a women and her still teching me proper ways to move and act.
So thanks for the emails and messages. That is were we are right now.
I am not sure if the right move is to leave well enough alone for now or to start to dicuss that she does not have to worry about this going out of the house. I do not want her build up a fear about that and pull the plug on this.
All my love Robyn
I enjoy it, so far. Do I want it everyday with these conditions? She says all or nothing. She does get involved in my dressing and teaching me to act as a women. Many of you are married. What would you do if this situation was presented to you?
About 10 days ago I ceased posting for a reason. I have since recived several emails and private message to update.
The overall situation is about the same. Taking a shower in the morning. Putting on stockings, heels, bra, girdle, and my night gown and then going downstairs and have coffee with my wife. We then go upstairs. She picks out what I will wear that day and applies all my makeup.
The majority of the talk is fem. She has also been dressing each day. She says to suport me. She has now included press on nails for me. We tried the very long ones. Not practical so we use a normal length. They work fine. I am not used to having my entire body shaved. It does feel good. Way back when I went to CD bars I would wear flesh colored tights and panty hose over them. It worked fine. Having shaved legs feels a lot better. I did run into a problem with shaving my face twice a day. She insists I look fem and my makeup must be perfect. My face started to get sore. She has a number of creams and lotions. She gave me one and it helped quite a bit. She is quite concerned about friends finding out. This is one of her rules that we never leave the house dressed. I mentioned to her what she would do if one of her friends stopped by while she was dressed in heels, etc. during the day. She now keeps a pair of slacks, a sweater and flats downstairs for a quick change. As to makeup she can use the excuse the is going up town.
I mentioned I need new stockings. She wants anything puchased for me to be on line. Some days ago we went to consignment shop. That will the first and last time. Even though I was in male attire she was concerned about it.
On Sunday we met some friends in New Hope, PA. Oddly enough that is also were a very friendly CD bar is located. No that was not out destination. We went to dinner. During the trip there was never a mention of anything fem.
Monday was a regular day for me. She went shopping with friends. When she got home she had a beautiful new purse. I hoped. No, it was for her, not me.
Tues. I had to stop at business clients a good part of the day. I got home late afternoon. We said our hellos and she said just let me know as soon as your ready for makeup. I went up stairs and all my clothes were laid out for me. She admits she truly enjoys putting makeup on me and seeing me dressed. She enjoys out converations and everything that goes with it. I don't know if I have opened up something or she enjoys the control. I do not have any problem with her taking over this part of our life.
I also wonder if the control is a security blanket. Remember it's her control or nothing for now. Is this her way to make sure this is as far as it goes? She could be thinking of the other things that can come into our different type of lifestyle. Other CD's at the house, bars. You all know the list. I am content this way. No not everyday from now on. Keeping it contained yes. If I am correct then it will work. She has not suggested any change from what we are doing. I am quite pleased with being a women most of the time. I love acting like a women and her still teching me proper ways to move and act.
So thanks for the emails and messages. That is were we are right now.
I am not sure if the right move is to leave well enough alone for now or to start to dicuss that she does not have to worry about this going out of the house. I do not want her build up a fear about that and pull the plug on this.
All my love Robyn