A question that needs to be asked

[MarciManseau]

If any of you have read my profile, you'll know that I'm bisexual, and since I've been full time, that only gets stronger. Do you feel that you're bi always, or tend to be more bi when you're all dressed up in pretty things and feeling very feminine?

If you're straight or gay, does that change at all when you're in girl mode?

Hugs, Marci :hugs:

[SiobhanW]

If you're straight or gay, does that change at all when you're in girl mode?

Not really. I'm afraid it's still women in general and my wife in particular (to paraphrase Bridget Jones out of Edge of Reason). But it definitely wouldn't be guys, if I did have leanings in that direction.

An attractive CD/TS/TG maybe? Well I refer you back you my one thread and the "perfect storm" statement within it. I'm not entirely sure what would constitute a perfect storm. It would definitely be that the said CD/TS/TG was very passable and cute, and that she had qualities I found otherwise charming. It would probably be that I was already well up for it (ie: horny) and there might also have been a bit of alcohol imbibed.

[Super_Jess]

I see myself as gay 24/7 in the aspect that I just dont see myself male, yes I have all the looks of male, but Im not. It doesnt change when Im dressed or drabbed.

[Marcie Sexton]

For me, I would look for the company of another woman...as odd as it may sound, there isn't anything appealing about the male gender...no offense, but just my personal view of things...and i have carried those tools around for over a half century...

That is one thing my wife and I have discussed many times when SRS comes up, one she loves me for who and what i am, but in no way shape, form, or fashion is she willing to have a lesbian relationship, should i go that route...

[Lizzie Kay]

That I have a tendency to tease. Nothing more, but being a gal, it sure is fun too! Have to be careful, and think you have to be really confident in your ability to control that kind of situation though... Does that make sense?

Liz

[KatrinaAshley]

This is one area where I'm confused. I'm not really attracted to anyone in either role. Am I curious? A little.

[Marissa Mae]

I am a lesbian, both dressed and not dressed as a woman :o ie.. I like only women.

[MJ]

I am a lesbian, both dressed and not dressed as a woman :o ie.. I like only women.

i feel the same way ...but i am full time

[MarciManseau]

That I have a tendency to tease. Nothing more, but being a gal, it sure is fun too! Have to be careful, and think you have to be really confident in your ability to control that kind of situation though... Does that make sense?

Liz

It does make sense, and flirting with men is fun. We both love it :D

Hugs, Marci :hugs:

[Iowagrown]

i know that i am curious sexually. i admit that i love sex. i love women, and i have never been with a guy. now if a very cute, femme guy came along and we hit it off, then i may explore that route. i try to keep a open mind.

i guess ideally i want a gg that accepts me and helps me to become a better lady. but i wouldn't write of a boyfriend either. now im more confused then ever.

[LilKimmiCD]

Hi Marci,
I'm glad you brought this subject up, this is my perspective on myself. I'm gay with a twist,lol! I had my first homosexual experience when i was 15. Most of my life i considered myself bisexual. I married, had kids, divorced, then remarried to a wonderful woman. I'm now 51, only been crossedressing for a couple of years, although I did sneak things as an adolescent. I love to flirt with men, and other TG's that I find attractive, and enjoy sex with them. My sexuality has not changed because of crossdressing, the crossdressing just adds spice to the sex. Just MHO.
Hugs, Kimmi

[Kate Simmons]

Don't think so Baba Louie. Just changing the wrapper doesn't change the product inside. Whoever really believes that is deceiving themself.

[charllote34]

Don't think so Baba Louie. Just changing the wrapper doesn't change the product inside. Whoever really believes that is deceiving themself.

Thats exactly what i was going to say , well put !! I love women and i am attracted to them , but a Ts would make me interesed if only for a scientififc point of view Ha ha !!:devil:

[Kari Lynn Franks]

I find that when dressed up i have this fantasy that i would have a guy lay me down on my back and make slow love to me .I have never acted on it but and dont even know if I could.

[wishonastar]

But I have fantasies making love to men if I was a women. I do not like men, I find male bodies disgusting. I do not like that thing or hairy body’s or muscles.

But I still have fantasies and have had dreams, about making love to men as a woman.

Now for the weird part, the idea of having lesbian sex turns me off as much or more than having sex with men. So I am not bi but I would be (sort of) if I became a women!

[LilKimmiCD]

I have no regrets about the sex that I have had with men. It was all pretty good, just wish some of them were bigger, longer, and lasted longer

[Kieroney]

I love the womens body, its intoxicating, when dressed as such, being with a male sounds scary, if the right situation presented itself, I might try something. Great question.:happy:

[Alex!]

Nope. Straight as an arrow. When I dress as a chick and see a beautiful woman I want to meet, I desperately want to change back into guy mode.

[brittanny]

well I amdefinatly in the bi camp I have never been with a guy when I wasn't dressed though but I think I could and I could enjoy it

[ericalynncd]

Gosh Marci.. thats a tough question. I think that if I were a GG, I would more likely be lesbian.. althogh a cute couple might also work...

[Bethany_Anne_Fae]

Nope. Straight as an arrow. When I dress as a chick and see a beautiful woman I want to meet, I desperately want to change back into guy mode.

Yepyep! Me too

[DawnRodgers]

As Dawn, I am only interested in being with men. I love what a man brings to my feminine side, how he brings out my feminine side, think they are sexy and very desirable, want to be held, kised and loved and only want to be with a man Have no sexual interest in a woman at all, just want to look and be like them.
As a man, I love both men and women and truly have no preference but tend to be rorally heterosexual in either appelation.

[Desiree2bababe]

Only bi when dressed although the thought of a man's equipment does get a rise out of me regardless. Something about pleasing a man makes me happy.

[Desiree2bababe]

I have no regrets about the sex that I have had with men. It was all pretty good, just wish some of them were bigger, longer, and lasted longer


AMEN:o

[goofus]

Nope. Straight as an arrow. When I dress as a chick and see a beautiful woman I want to meet, I desperately want to change back into guy mode.

I want to remain in girl mode, approach them, and see what happens :D

[SiobhanW]

I want to remain in girl mode, approach them, and see what happens

I want to remain in girl mode, and have them approach me saying "Gawd, you're hot! I would love to make love to you right now".

[Anne G]

I am more interested in a passable CD, TG TV when dressed as a woman, but do not have any interest in men dressed as men. I would want to meet a femine CD, TV,TG when I am dressed as either. Unfortunately I do not go out as a woman.

[Angie G]

I straight and there is no change when I dress up I don't want to be with a man but have thought what it would be like I think most of us have :hugs:
Angie

[Vivian Best]

Good question Marci! When I drab I'm attraced to women and when I'm dressed I'm still attracted to women. Don't know what that would make me so I'll just leave it at that.

[tricia_uktv]

For me it varies, and I've had to learn to be bisexual. But when I'm femme I am definately more attracted to men and go out of my way to be attractive to men. When I'm in drab however it doesn't cross my mind.

At all times though I am attracted to women, after all that's what I aspire to

[wannabie]

If you're straight or gay, does that change at all when you're in girl mode?

Hugs, Marci :hugs:

I've answered this question so many times on other threads.

In girl mode, I don't know what happens but the need to be with a guy is very strong that I would give it up for the right guy in girl mode.

In Guy mode I'm straight. no attraction... Nothing!!! and the thought of being with men makes me gagg..

Does that make me Bi; I don't know?
Does that make me Straight; I don't know?

I know that I'm a wannabie.

[phyllis47]

I prefer another CD/TV/GG....... I get turned on by the women's clothes, mine or others...

[flatlander_48]

If 1 is completely Hetero and 10 is completely Homo, then I'm real close to a 5.5! This is true regardless of what clothes I'm wearing...

[Wynter Skye]

For me it varies, and I've had to learn to be bisexual. But when I'm femme I am definately more attracted to men and go out of my way to be attractive to men. When I'm in drab however it doesn't cross my mind.

At all times though I am attracted to women, after all that's what I aspire to

likewise, I'm always attracted to women and always have been, but I also found myself incredibly attracted to TG's and have since been romantically and sexually involved with a few. From that point, lines began to disintegrate and I no longer confined myself to heterosexuality. In femme mode, I've found myself attracted to masculinity in a sexual sense, but not to the actual man. I've engaged in sex acts with m/f/t and while I'm exclusively drawn to the female form, (whether genetic or trans), I suppose the fact that I've had a **** in my mouth would make me bi or something if you were to label it.

I think the desire to be feminine can sometimes manifest in what would be a natural desire for masculinity to further enhance femininity. In my opinion, those "gay" moments have been those where I felt the most like a woman.

[Wynter Skye]

also meant to add, when dressed in drab, the thought of being with a man neither excites me or crosses my mind. A guy is just a guy nothing sexual for me.

[MarciManseau]

Good question Marci! When I drab I'm attraced to women and when I'm dressed I'm still attracted to women. Don't know what that would make me so I'll just leave it at that.

Thanks, sweetie :) And I think it would make you a fun girl wanting to experience life.

Hugs, Marci :hugs:

[Michellebej]

I am going to catch some flak for this, but; in Drab mode I have no interest in men.

In girl mode, I do, and have had relations with men.

There is something physically gratifiying about it. However; I found that I really have little interest in a long term relationship with a man. For emotional support I want a woman.

I think that one of the reasons that we have so many different trends is that there are many reasons for being who we are.

I mean we operate under the same umbrella,but; clearly we do so for different reasons.

Michelle

[Jilmac]

I'm straight and have been dressing for 47 years and have never felt the need to have sex with a male.Jill

[Stephanie Stephens]

24/7 bi, no matter what I am wearing.

Stephanie

[MsJanessa]

My bisexual side is much stronger when I'm dressed.

[MarciManseau]

I want to remain in girl mode, approach them, and see what happens :D

As cute as you are, you know what will happen :D

Hugs, Marci :hugs:

[annekathleen]

I still appear "straight" and every one of my friends and family think that I am 100% straight.
My "bi" activities and my crossdressing activities are still very very discrete.
When I'm dressed, my desire is to be with other men, not women. So I guess that makes me "bi"
Most of the times that I've been with another man, I was usually dressed in male clothing.
Sometimes I was wearing panties and only a few guys actually noticed.
And on a few rare occaisions when I was actually comfortable with the guy that I had been playing around with,
I was actually wearing a bra, fake breasts, and a womans top.