To be treated like a lady

[daviolin]

I hope I'm not over stepping my bounds here. But how many of you lovelly lady's would like to go on a date with a man. And be wined and dined and go on a shopping trip. And just be pampered and treated like a lady. No sex envolved just a fun time. I personally would love it. But it probally will never happen in my life. Maybe my next life though.:thumbsup:Daviolin

[Vivian Best]

I'm sure this is a desire for some, but it just isn't one of mine.

[Dana Carlton]

I once had a male friend who did just that. And it was wonderful! He always treated me like a lady. He opened doors for me, got my coat, poured the wine ..... It was heaven. I have never felt so much of a woman than back in those days. Over time, it lead to sex and I think it ruined the relationship. I was questioning my own sexuality at the time, so it was a two way street.

Don't give up hope, you never know what might happen in life.

[SiobhanW]

Nope. I would want to do all that with a beautiful GG.

[Eugenie]

I would really love that. I wuold like that he first be as patient with me as I was when I courted my present wife... (Just for the sake of avoinding comments, I don't cheat on my wife, she knows... My wife and I have a very free life with regard to partners)

So back to the theme of the discussion, ye inded I would like a man to court me, invite me to a nice restaurant, have nice discussions. He would have to be delicate and attentionate.

Well, I can dream... Since I don't go out except for gong to the restaurant with CD sisters... Little chance to find a "gentleman"...

I've got e-mail messages from men, but none having the style and finesse that I'm looking for. We women are sentimental aren't we...:heehee:

:hugs:
Eugenie

[LilKimmiCD]

I love dating men, makes me feel so feminine.

[Stacye Rose]

To me it sounds like one of the ultimate ends to being a CD. I've never been interested in men while in drab, but the longer I crossdress the more dating a man seems like a good idea. I have a friend with whom such a thing might happen but it hasn't occured yet.:2c:

[jaina]

I personally would love it. But it probally will never happen in my life. Maybe my next life though.:thumbsup:Daviolin

Be a lady and it will happen.

[StacyCD]

Being treated like a lady is one thing. However, I have NO interest in attracting men.

[Jilmac]

Not me, what I would like would be to go out with a GG girlfriend or so and both of us be terated like ladies.
Jill

[EDNA]

I have dated all class of men and have been always treated as a Lady. By everyone of them. Even by the ones. That wanted sex and would subduse me. In which I had a great time. With and without sex. As I was taken to the best Shows, Night Clubs and Casinos.

[JoleneCDinPA]

I would love to be treated and pamered like a woman by a man, I think it would be very exciting!:love:

[charlie]

No, I feel funny if a guy at a TG bar even wants to buy my drink. Being some guys lady for the evening just wouldn't make it.

[Stephenie S]

Well let me tell you all of the reality.

I live and work as a woman 24/7 so I am "treated like a lady" often. You might find it a bit disconcerting to actually experience it. I am a woman of a "certain age" so I am not flitting around in minis and heels. I just present to the world as a woman at all times. Today, I bought a battery for my tractor at the auto parts store. The parts guys were SOO solicitous, and opened the doors for me all the way out to my truck. All that attention can make you a little uneasy.

Because of my age, most people just don't see me. But one group certainly does, and that's older gentlemen. I have been flirted with in stores, the bank, the post office, all by men who I would not normally think of as objects of attention.

Is it fun? Yes and no. When someone flirts with you, you need to be able to respond appropriately. Going all ga ga can make you look pretty stupid, ignoring it can make you look (and feel) like a snob, and flirting back can be inconvenient if not dangerous. GGs learn how to respond at an early age. We who have been raised as males may not have that response internalized.

Lovies,
Stephenie

[Lisa Renee]

It would be interesting to experience, at least I think so. I know its nice to have doors opened and held open for me.

[wannabie]

I hope I'm not over stepping my bounds here. But how many of you lovelly lady's would like to go on a date with a man. And be wined and dined and go on a shopping trip. And just be pampered and treated like a lady. No sex envolved just a fun time.


It's my dream and ultimately my goal. :battingeyelashes:

[jennifer41356]

I would enjoy that..I have had lunch with 2 guys ...they seemed to be relaxed as I can pass pretty well, thank god for a fem voice:D

[lawnmanmo]

Hi Girls
This is what I have been saying here on the forum for a long time. It does NOT have to be a sexual thing. Just to be out and about, walking in a mall, hand in hand, a lovely dinner or a simple drive is something that can make a CD women really feel the women in her to the nines. If anybody would like to talk about "the experience", please write me.
Jerry

[MarciManseau]

I've been out on dates with lots of men and, IMHO it's wonderful whether it results in intimcy or not. Just walking along the street and having him hold your hand while you both smile at each other is wonderful. Nothing, not even $200 panties :D, make you feel soooo feminine.

So try it and if you don't like it, don't do it again. It's a lil like sushi :) It's something worth trying.

Hugs, Marci :hugs:

[windycissy]

I've gone out with several guys, in fact some of them are members of this forum who have also gone out with me as girls...we've become great friends and there's nothing like a girls night out, but every once in a while it's so nice to be the girl on a "date", hard to describe how feminine it makes you feel, so much fun!

[erickka]

Sorry, I like to be the one doing the wining, dining, doorman thing. Even though I look and act ladylike when dressed, another man isn't my cup of tea .I'll stick to my drab and being gentlemanly to my lovely wife and her friends.

[Kate Simmons]

It's a nice fantasy I guess Hon but the reality for me is that Sal is definately no lady (in more ways than one :heehee:).:happy:

[Lora Olivia]

I for one would love to be treated like a lady on an evening out...it would be great to have a couple hunks take us girls out for the evening...I mean seriously you can't get much more affirming of your femininity than being out on the arm of a hunky guy:o

[Desiree2bababe]

I have many times and would love to again if I could get back my girlish shape and sex would be icing on the cake.

[Littlej10]

The ultimate dream, especially if there was no attempt at sex or flirting.

[Mitch23]

the ultimate reality of my femimity - not happened yet and dont tell the wife

mitch

[Julie York]

With a GG maybe.

And even then it's a maybe.

[Samantha43]

No. That would make me really uncomfortable.

[Bonnie D]

I would like that very much and I would want the sex afterwards if there was an attraction between the two of us.

Bonnie

[Nadia-Maria]

I certainly would not even dream of that.
Simply I cannot imagine being with whoever man when dressed.
It seems as if I would lose all my dignity.

I only would go out with my SO/GG, as 2 girls.
However, I could imagine being with my SO if she were dressed as the gentleman !

[Mitzi]

I posted this a couple of years ago...


This was back in the early 80's. I was dressed in a cute junior outfit, nursing a drink in a San Francisco drag bar, making small talk with the "girls" I'd met there. In walks a guy in a suit and tie. He walks over to me and asks me to go with him for a few drinks. I gave him my usual "I'm not interested in guys" bit, he says, no, no it's nothing like that. He's from out of town and just wants company. I kept refusing, but then the girls started saying "go with him Mitzi". So, what the heck, what can he do to me...

He hails a cab, and takes me to the Mark Hopkins, a landmark San Francisco hotel. The elevator to the the coctail lounge at the top took forever to arrive, and a few other couples join us to wait for the elevator. Talk about nervous... Eventually we reach the top, the lighting is subdued and nice. While we had a few drinks, he tells silly jokes, treating me like an airhead, but all the while groping me under the table.

We made one more stop for a couple more drinks, for which I got stuck...he disappeared on me when I went to the ladies' room. Guess he realized he couldn't get me drunk enough to...you know...

Was it exciting? Only as a different experience. The drinks and his attention did absolutely nothing to attract me to him. Not that he was repulsive or anything, he was just a guy, and that does nothing for me, even en femme.

Mitzi

[wannabie]

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He ditched you when he found out he wasn't going to get anywhere with you that night.

[Crissy Kay]

I have no interest in guys while in femm. On the other hand, I find some cds very attractive, and would consider a date with one!!!!

[Stormgirl]

I'm sure this is a desire for some, but it just isn't one of mine.

I concur with this, it's not a desire for me either.

[Dawn Marie]

I would mind being treated like a lady by a man, but I would much prefer being treated like a lady by a GG. Don't get me wrong, when I'm in femme mode I dream of it happening, but would still prefer the company of a GG.

[Jennifer Soames]

I love being treated like a lady by GG. I went out of town yesterday and walking through the place I was visiting came across a Lingerie Boutique. i went in and the sales lady, about 45, was helping me select a "present". She showed me styles first. When It came to sizing she asked the question, what size do you take? I was a little stunned and she said she was cool. Needless to say she made the sale. So my likes are a little different but its still about acceptance and being validated.

Jenn