Sophie
04-11-2005, 04:17 PM
Ok I might seem a bit nuts here!.... but i just watched Smallville (super-man the early years!) and there was a quote i'd like to share with anyone who has a secret.
Chloe: If you knew about someone's secret, would you tell them that you knew?
Lois: Depends. Is the secret hurting anyone?
Chloe: No
Lois: Then, No. If they are ready then they will tell you in their own time. If it is right for them then they will tell you. Just let them know that you are there if they need you.
Doesn't look so good in writing but at the time seemes extreemly relevant to many of our situations, be it with loved ones or family.
For me, i know that my mother knew about me before i told her beacause she found my stash. She waited and we reached out to each other.
I would like to say that if you suspect that someone knows about you, then you should perhaps talk about it but, of course, that depends entierly on your situation. and you may like to be careful about how you approach the subject. i'd just like to think that if someone truly loves you then the will be able to cope with a harmless 'hobby' like dressing up as a girl. I know my best friend (male) did.
Sophie
Chloe: If you knew about someone's secret, would you tell them that you knew?
Lois: Depends. Is the secret hurting anyone?
Chloe: No
Lois: Then, No. If they are ready then they will tell you in their own time. If it is right for them then they will tell you. Just let them know that you are there if they need you.
Doesn't look so good in writing but at the time seemes extreemly relevant to many of our situations, be it with loved ones or family.
For me, i know that my mother knew about me before i told her beacause she found my stash. She waited and we reached out to each other.
I would like to say that if you suspect that someone knows about you, then you should perhaps talk about it but, of course, that depends entierly on your situation. and you may like to be careful about how you approach the subject. i'd just like to think that if someone truly loves you then the will be able to cope with a harmless 'hobby' like dressing up as a girl. I know my best friend (male) did.
Sophie