A Question...what do you think???

[cdkelsi]

Ok As some of you know I am a very closeted CD who is still looking to step out. Well when I started my new job a while back I meet a girl in training and we hit it off. Well recently we started telling stories to each other for fun. Well somewhere along the line Kelsi came out only as a character. One night when she came down for a beer I don't know why but I said nice skirt....and she was like yes it is. Somehow her size came out a 10 and I was like oh I can wear that...then she bet me. So I did it and I won...now she is gonna be coming down and she sent me pics of a bra and panty set, a dress..jeans and a blouse that she said was for me...She says she is gonna get me to dress...what do I do...should i be concerned or scared...??? Any suggestions is welcomed.

[jeniinnylons]

Are you turned on by her?

If so hell yea do it!

[SandyR]

Enjoy the moment!

Hugs, and let u know how it goes.

SandyR

[Samantha B L]

Hi Kelsi, Your a lucky guy/girl. Stay with this relationship. Another relationship like it probably won't come again. Lots of crossdressers would love to be in your position. I had a very,very close relationship with a GG that lasted from Junior High up until about 3 years ago when she passed away after a long illness. You'll be a little scared once in awhile getting to know her. But that'll go away. Don't pass this up!

[MJ]

you outed yourself to her .. so now you pay the price Enjoy your time with her dress relax have fun .. she knows about you now so Just do it ...

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

its to late to put the cat back in the bag so enjoy the fact that she likes to have fun dressing u up after u loose/win bets,, and be cool about it all dont be nervious or she will think something is wrong and that will lead to troubles:2c:

[joann07]

Go for it girl!
You couldn't have found a better person than a GG to help you with your crossdressing.
I told a GG and not only is she one of my closest personal friends, but she's such an excellent fashion consultant and cosmetic advisor.
Use her to your advantage and maybe you'll develop more of a relationship if you're attracted to her.

Hugs!

[paulaN]

You had better not mess this up. I'd love to be in your heels.

[Joy Carter]

Just one question. Is she hot ? :D

[Janine cd]

I wish that I had a girl as understanding as yours about 50 years ago. I'm 68 and still looking for someone who could accpt my desire to crossdress as if it were a normal activity. I have been married 44 years and my wife still does not accept the fact that my desire to be feminine is something that is part of me.
Good Luck with your adventure.

[trannie T]

That is why I'm dieting. If I met a woman my size I would not be scared or concerned, I'd be terrified.

[alyssalove56]

don't mess up.
i couldn't have made it without my gg pals!

[HalloweenDragon]

Go for it, you only live once. I try to live with no regrets. I got lucky, but there are quite a few females that dig a CD. I usually find the Goth Girls are the funnest and seem to push you into being more brave and confident! But that is just my experience. Good luck, and have fun!

[xexoticx]

well u cant really screw it up, its out in the open and u were honest to her and she totally is excepting you for you. just tell her how it is that no one else really knows and it took a lot to come out to her and she will appreciate it in a special way. looks like its a great start of something ive been with my g/f for about 1 year and 1/2 and she more less stummbled upon it and didnt know what she would say but turns out she was so open about it and wants to help me out so looks like the start of a good year.

good luck hun

[Mercedes]

Kelsi, this sounds great and certainly can be a path to allowing you to be more comfortable as you step out. However, I am going to through out a word of caution for you as this is a new relationship and you said you are a very closeted CDer.

Just to be on the safe side, think about playing it a bit slow unless you feel you have a level of confidence in her and she can be trusted to not revel your secret world of crossdressing.

Having said that I really hope it works out for you.

Mercedes XOXOXO

[vivianann]

Sounds like you have a GG friend that clicks with you very well, you know the situation better than the rest of us, but I bet that she can be trusted with your secret and she wants to take it to a new level, be careful and have fun with her

[Marvina Martian]

Are you turned on by her?

If so hell yea do it!

I agree! Most of us would love to be in that situation. Just take it slow and be honest!

Oh and Jeni, I love your avatar!

[Laurelanne]

dont be afraid BUT be cautious if youre lucky (likeme now) shell be very supportive. Trust me it can also become a disaster. Laurellanne

[Denise Barrett]

Hi Kelsi, :hugs:

She seems to already know so you might as well go along with it. It is what most of us T-girls look for in a relationship, but often don't find, an understanding SO. I guess you always have to worry about if it doesn't work out, what would happen. But at age 59, I only wish I would have had the opportunity you have, because being alone, is worse to me, then the whole world knowing. Good luck on your decision.

Love ya, :love:
Denise

[faltenrock]

What a question.... Most girls here would go crazy if that happens to them. Go for it with no question.

[tanya3]

i say go for it , you never know this could be the start of a great relationship .

[erickka]

Sounds like you have the foundation for a great supporter. Enjoy her company and good luck!

[Michelle 51]

Well if i was 30 years younger and single i know what i would be doing justabit

[Kate Simmons]

Just be careful. It depends mostly on your confidence level. Secrets have the habit of "slipping out" with the most trusted people at the most inopportune times. Always be prepared to defend yourself in any case when it comes to those who would not understand.:happy:

[Dayna]

One word of caution, here:

The way I read this, you and the new GF were playing a game that ended up with you wearing her skirt (lucky dog!) and now she wants to dress you up even more, yes?

You need to understand her motive--this might be a turn on for her, or she might just be doing it because she thinks it's funny... maybe a bit of both. (Maybe she's a closeted Mistress!?) Did you "act" uncomfortable when she "made" you put on the skirt?

If she brings you an outfit and wants you to put it on, I say DO IT! However, before you do, look her in the eyes and tell her that it's not your first time dressing in women's clothes, and gauge her reaction. If you're lucky, she will offer to do your hair and makeup as well!

If she thinks she's getting you to do something that makes you uncomfortable (and that's her motivation--not that she's turned on by a CD), you'll have a difficult time later explaining that you were a crossdresser long before you met her. Then you've deceived her--not the best way to start a relationship.

Me thinks (hopes!) you've found a gem of a girl... play the game, but be smart about it!!

[cdkelsi]

Hey thanks everyone...Yes she is a great girl and yes good looking...I do think it is a turn on for her based on her stories and she it will be fun...she has made comments that she would b totally turned on by a guy getting dressed up...so we will see. Thanks again for your comments.. all the best to you all.

[Carly D.]

I would just.... ignore it.. when she brings the clothes in say you were just joking around.. and make her beg you to try other stuff on... see what happens.. then relent and try the bra on, but make her put it on you so it is on "right"... sort of a role playing game thing... might be fun...