My first time...

[Sylvia.iluv2dressup]

Hi Girls,
Well, yesterday I did it. I went to a trans meeting dressed up. I am new to all this so for me it was a big thing. In August of this year , I finally admitted that I am a crossdresser. I thought it was a fetish thing, but this has been going on for years. All in secrecy and behind closed doors. For the past 4 months I have been building up the courage to go out. I attended fully dressed and drove home fully dressed. I even bought gas fully dressed. I didn't care about what others thought anymore and I knew I had to do this for myself. It felt great!!! The wind blowing on my legs, the feel of the skirt and the hair blowing in my face. It was a great experience, I even had some looks my way, not that I was interested. Anyhow, it was a milestone and now I am confident enough to do it again. Alot of pressure has been lifted from me. So to all the new CD's my advice is to give it a shot, whether at night or to a simple errand, go out dressed and enjoy!

[heidi99]

Thanks for the words of encouragement, Sylvia! Together we all have far greater strength!

[Kate Simmons]

When you said that it made me get this thought in my head. Being a crossdresser is kind of like being a pirate. We go, pursue the adventure and get the treasure. Doesn't get any better than that really.:thumbsup::happy:

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

:thumbsup::hugs:

[Jenna_whalen]

I know how it fells, I came out to one of my friends and to m better half and they all support it. I am still not ready to go out. I try but I cant convence myself to leave. I will go out side and like get the mail but thats it. I cant get out past my house for some reason but I can tell all of my friends that I want to know. But I cant get in my truck a drive somewere in a skirt or a dress. But hey I only 20yr and trying to push change.

[Bethany_Anne_Fae]

All I can say is... that once you finally get out that door and realize just how much of a non-issue it is to be in public..
You will LOVE it!

Take your time
Be confident in who you are

and take those steps, baby!

*hugs*
Zara

[Eugenie]

Thats great... It is indeed a fantastic experience, and it remains marvelous to be free to go out like that...

I just wish I could have done it when I was as young as you... When I finaly started to go out, my own daughter was your age...

Better late than never :D

Enjoy yourself.

:hugs:
Eugenie

[JoAnnDallas]

Congrads........I know what it feels like to go out fully dressed. It's a little scary at first, but then it gets better. Soon you too will be shopping, going out to eat, movies, and etc.

[Jilmac]

:happy:That's great! good for you girl! I know the feeling. I attended a meeting in September, it wasn't my first, but it had been over 12 years since I attended a meeting that it seemed like the first one. When I went to mine, I dressed at home, went as far as I could on the freeway (because of construction), drove through downtown, and when I walked into the meeting feeling the most feminine I had ever felt in my life. I was elated:jumping: and really jumping for joy. This may have been your first meeting, but you know now that it won't be your last. Luv and :hugs: Jill

[sterling12]

Damn! This is a very good thing for you. So many never take that first step, and they never know how wonderful it feels to be set free.

Congrats and remember, from here it will only get better!

peace and Love, Joanie

[DonnaT]

Congratulations Sylvia!

[Angie G]

Hay you go girl get out there and enjoy hun :hugs:
Angie

[Mitch23]

Well done Sylvia - you'll never look back. However many times you do it that first time is a little bit special

Mitch

[Michelle-NC]

Congratulations! That is a huge step!

[Melissa A.]

One taste is all it takes. Now you won't be able to stop, sweetie. One more of us out there in the world can only make it a better place.

Congratulations, Sylvia. Don't stop now!

Hugs,

Melissa:happy: