So I'm curious.

[sillyfish]

So i understand a lot of you want to actually be LIKE girls, but me on the other hand just love their clothes and dont actually want to be a girl.

I'm just wondering if anyone out there is like me who just enjoy's the clothes.

Theres just too many things about being a man that i wouldnt be able to give up >.<

[dianarg]

I dunno, sometimes I just enjoy the clothes, sometimes I want more...

[charlie]

I love to be like a girl for the time that I'm dressing only. I love the clothes, the mannerisms, skirts and silky nylons! I never really want to be a girl though.

[Phyliss]

So i understand a lot of you want to actually be LIKE girls, but me on the other hand just love their clothes and dont actually want to be a girl.

I'm just wondering if anyone out there is like me who just enjoy's the clothes.

Theres just too many things about being a man that i wouldnt be able to give up >.<


Dress LIKE, act LIKE and sometimes be LIKE a girl is enjoyable to me. Occasionally even going so far as to think I WANT to BE a girl.
However, the reality of my situation is such that I can wear the clothes and have some of the mannerisms. At rare times, I can actually "be LIKE" a girl.

Yes I do enjoy the clothes, to the point of having changed my wardrobe enough so that I can wear "girl clothes" everyday. Not dresses and skirts, but rather pants and "shirt" style blouses that blend into a "man" cut.

Thinking about the "ideal" girl thing ie sitting at home being pretty and doing my nails and makeup all day is a nice thought, but again, reality strikes and I have to be the "guy of the house" So, might as well make the best of what is and enjoy it.

[skirtsuit]

Sillyfish-

I'm with you. For me, it's all about the clothes. I'm comfortable with my masculinity and dress because I love the look and feel of womans clothes. There seems to be a near infinite variety and tons of quality clothes at the local thrift stores. I don't have the desire to really look and act like a woman, but do feel envious that they have so many more choices than us men.

When I see a sexy, well dressed woman on the street I feel a weird combination of being sexually attracted and also wanting to try on her clothes. Part of the appeal of used clothing is knowing that it came out of somebodies closest...

All the Best,
Skirt Suit

[mykhelee]

I enjoy being a girl!:gorgeous:

When I am dresses "Michelle", just takes over. I don't have to think about it. Do I want to actually be a woman? NO!:liar:, o.k. maybe sometimes. I have been with men, but never as Michelle. The most I ever dressed was with Tracey, she used me as her woman:D:chained::dom: She just wanted to go farther than jurisprudence would allow.
For some dressing is more about the emotional comfort, not because we want to change gender.:heehee:

[SandyR]

Would not trade my guy in for a girl, but I love the cloths, the hose, shoes.....

Guess Im with you on this one.

SandyR

[JenniferMBlack]

For me it is the clothes. Not even so much the look for me but the comfort and feel of them especially skirts.

[DonnaT]

I don't dress because I want to BE a woman, either.

I do wish I had breasts at times, but that's about it as far as being a woman.

[Angie G]

At times I'd like to be a GG. If only I could go back and forth :hugs:
Angie

[MarciManseau]

I dress because I am a woman inside, so I have to make the outside match :happy: I'm never never never going back to drab!


Hugs, Marci :hugs:

[laura.lapinski]

I love more than just the close. Its a profound, psycological experience and fantasy. For those times when dressed, I act like a woman, love pretending, and somewhat obsessing about wanting to be a woman, but as soon as I release my tensions, the clothes come off and I enjoy being a man.

Laura

[Christine Kelly]

I have to agree with you, sillyfish.

I now believe that a man can look pretty and feminine without having to think that he has to be a girl to do so. The more I dress and interact with others dressed, the more I realize I am still the same person. :happy:

[MarinaTwelve200]

I do it to "escape" my male identity for a while, sorta like "take a vacation from myself" if for only a few hours. Its very relaxing and releves the worries and stresses associated with my true male self.

The "woman " part is just an auto-erotic bonus that likely triggered my initial forray into CD when I was 12, and is still a lot of fun. Also, as my identity "escape" is but "symbolic/psychological" "becomming" a "woman" provides the greater "distance" from my real male identity than simply dressing as another "male" persona, such as George Washington or Mark Twain would, and works much better in this respect.

[Brenda's Friend]

I don't want to be a girl, I don't act like one when dressed, I haven't even given myself a girl name, yet. I dress because I have an almost uncontrollable urge to dress, plus the dressing part is extreamly fun. When dressed, I don't think of myself as anything other than John.

BF

[NatalieBliss]

I love getting dressed and while i do have a female moniker I go by I am still me, just in heels. Don't want to be a woman, just feminine at times.

[Lidia_tv]

I would actually like to be a girl for a while, say a couple of months, and then be able to decide which I preferred more, being a guy or a gal.

[Ruth]

Like most of the replies here, I dress because I like the clothes, but I guess I also try to look feminine in the clothes. But I think it's the feminine ME that I am trying to become, rather than a woman which I am not.
Sometimes I wish I had the body to do justice to the clothes, but that just is not going to be. And I remain a heterosexual male inside my head, so having a woman's body would create a whole new contradiction.

[Holly]

Well, leave it to me to throw in a twist. As it says in my signature line, I am a full-time gurl on the inside. For me, it's not all about the clothes (although I love them)... it is about my everyday attitude and the person I am. To thine own self, be true.

[Sheila A. Faulkner]

Hi All -- I love the clothes, makeup and all the things that go to making me
look like the woman I really think lies deep within me. So, yes, all things being equal,
I would really love to _be_ a woman.

-- Warmest Regards, Sheila :happy:

[sissystephanie]

At one point in my life I did want to be a girl, totally. My darling GGF talked me out of it, and I could not be happier. Just wearing the clothes is all I care to do now. When I return home from making sales calls, I quickly slip into feminine outer clothes. I am already wearing panties, and often also a bra. So I just slip on a skirt or skort and a nice feminine top. Oftn I go out to eat dressed that way. No wig, and very little makeup. Just a guy in a skirt!:happy: Get looks, but who cares?:heehee:

Sissy/Stephanie

Girl on the outside, man underneath!

[VtVicky]

For me it's stricktly the look and feel of the clothes. I have no fantasy of being a woman.

I have noticed something that may give a clue to our unconscious desires. I am lucky enough to be able to work at home quite frequently. And often must make business phone calls. I have noticed that I have a full range of masculine emotions/presentations regardless of what I am wearing. I recall more than once being suprised/amused at how I sound on the phone compared to what I was wearing.

[soccervixen]

Sillyfish -

Yes, I am like you. I don't wear a wig, shave my face, or try to be a woman. I dress at home when I can, and enjoy it very much. Just began about 14 months ago, now have a wardrobe in my closet of about 6 skirts, 5 pair of slacks, 9 pair of shoes, LOTS of panties, and growing intimates. My wife knows and is OK with it as long as I keep it private, and that's OK with me. I underdress at work with male clothes on, but since I began dressing, I have much better style - nicer trousers, shirts, more color, and wearing ankle boots with 2" heels - as close as I can get to wearing pumps at work! :p

I think you'll find there is a wide spectrum of dressers on this site and that's a good thing. Enjoy it for what it is for you!

[Chiana]

I do like the clothes and I really want to be a girl, some times. Ah.... the escape clause, "some times". But there is a reason that I have never seriously considered taking those extra steps to completely rid myself of the guy parts and the reason is that I do not want to give up some of my maleness. Male and female. They are both me. I know of a post-op TS that once upon a time said she would never have any surgery below the waist. But after taking hormones for years she lost interest in that thing. The rest is history. But my fear is that if I went that far would I still get the joy and excitement out of dressing and playing with woman's clothes, etc. Or would it just become ordinary and no longer special. Would I loose my passion for the game?

[docrobbysherry]

I love more than just the close. Its a profound, psycological experience and fantasy. For those times when dressed, I act like a woman, love pretending, and somewhat obsessing about wanting to be a woman, but as soon as I release my tensions, the clothes come off and I enjoy being a man.

Laura

Maybe it's a bit more for me. It's about the COMPLETE FEMALE LOOK. Becoming the pretty young women of my fantasies, is like having the best of both worlds, (male and female)!

If a could flip a switch between male and female, YES! If I could switch to female and could never go back, NO!
RS