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Raquel June
01-14-2008, 03:58 AM
The only people who know about my little hobby are members of the local CD/queen/gay scene. I've got plenty good friends I spend a lot of time with doing typical manly things, and I think it's actually pretty funny when they catch something that doesn't make sense to them.

I guess it's that, while I might be a little weird, I'm plenty masculine when it comes to the ladies and none of my friends think there's actually anything gay or femme about me... enough so that they're comfortable with the standard quasi-homophobic banter you get with immature guys.



At the gym, lifting with Brian...

Brian: What's that on your shirt?

me: Sweat. I didn't wash this shirt last time.

Brian: It looks like foundation.

me: Foundation?

(I look down and notice that somehow I actually did get foundation all over the collar of an Under Armour shirt that I don't remember ever wearing outside the gym)

me: Yeah, I use it to cover up that big swastika tattoo I got on my neck in prison.

Brian: You're using it to cover up your Adam's apple, aren't you?

(Brian has commented before that I have no Adam's apple)



At my apartment, watching a movie with Matt...

(Matt is coming out of the bathroom)

Matt: You use a women's razor?

(There's a pink women's razor on the top of the trash in the bathroom)

me: Huh? No. Beth left all kinds of stuff in there. I just threw away her razor and bath puff that had been sitting in the shower for a year.

Matt: OK...

me: Dude, look in the closet.



...That was actually true, except that I threw the razor away because I had just shaved my legs with it. The closet still has a bunch of stuff my ex left -- two packages of Venus razors, a box of tampons, some shampoo/conditioner for color treated hair (mine isn't), and some clips and things for hair much longer than mine.



At a Chinese buffet with Matt last weekend ... Matt is kinda stoned, I only had a two small hits...

(Matt is a little paranoid, and keeps talking about a redneck with a huge beard who keeps telling racist jokes to his wife. Matt keeps spacing out and staring at them accidentally.)

Matt: I think that guy over there called us a couple faggots.

me: That ZZ Top guy?

Matt: Yeah.

me: Well, from there he can only see my right earring. He probably thinks that means we're gay. That and my pretty blouse.

(I'm wearing a T-shirt under a fairly masculine unbuttoned black surfer shirt that has palm leaves and lillies in a few spots on it)

Matt: You got your ears pierced?

me: What, are you blind?

(I have small gold hoops in each ear. I had just gotten my ears pierced that afternoon on my lunch break. Matt kinda spaces out again staring at me)

Matt: You look pretty... feminine.

me: Well, I am pretty, unlike your mom. Am I turning you on?

(another weird pause)

Matt: Do I come off as gay?

me: I told you I'm never getting high with you again if you act gay or start crying. Stop being creepy.

Kate Simmons
01-14-2008, 05:25 AM
Too funny Racquel, I love it.:happy:

Billijo49504
01-14-2008, 06:01 AM
It sounds to me, that you and Matt should give up what ever you've been smoking or drinking. :drink:Or atleast change the brand...:tongueout...BJ

obsessedwithpantyhose
01-14-2008, 08:01 AM
sounds like Matt is a trip to hang around with LOL

Tamara Croft
01-14-2008, 08:04 AM
I think you should share whatever you 2 have been smoking :bs:

Angie G
01-14-2008, 10:05 AM
Cool and I with Tamara :hugs:
Angie

Jennaie
01-14-2008, 11:48 AM
Very funny! Personally, I think Brian is a little more aware and perhaps has some personal knowledge of dressing himself. I would question a man who saw foundation on my collar and actually called it foundation. If he had said something like, dude, that looks like chicks makeup or something on your shirt, that would be different, but using the word foundation?

Rut-Row. Scooby-do

jessikasummerfox
01-14-2008, 04:53 PM
I think this comes with the double life we have to sometimes lead, and like all things, perhaps it gets better with practice. Although, I am positive that there are some things which are more of a challenge to explain away than others. (An earring found laying on the floor of your living room would be easier to explain than if someone accidentally discovered your breastforms hidden in your closet).

As for myself, I'm terrible are playing things off. I think that, with me, it is the open secret that no-one really talks about. If I'm lucky, they chalk it up to my general awkward manner and keep their thoughts to themselves.

On a totally separate note: you should absolutely write plays! These dialogues are so great! I'd simply love to hear more :)

Tina Dixon
01-14-2008, 04:55 PM
Now how would Brian know what foundation is?

Linda C
01-14-2008, 05:12 PM
Last post - ^^^^^^ - Exactly what I was thinking - LOL :eek:

Victoria Anne
01-14-2008, 05:21 PM
I would get in trouble like that , I have been told I'm to honest for my own good so if called on it I would spill

Lois1234
01-14-2008, 06:18 PM
I used to try and come up with all types of answers to those questions but latley things are a bit too obvious i guess. Take for example last weekend. I was at a good friends place (a GG who knows I CD) and she had her cousin and husband over for a few drinks, well I had just put a fresh coat of clear nail polish on that day and they were very shiney (i also keep them quite long). She had commented to her hubby that they looked better than hers. Needless to say he started checking out my ear rings, shag type haircut and plucked eye brows and i guess he put 2 and 2 together because after i left they really started talking about my looks and femme mannerisms....to the point he even mentioned it to his father in law when they went to his place later on. My GG friend called me up at work and said that the cat was out of the bag! I simply told her that if they ask me, i'll tell them the truth as i'm not going to change who i am to satisfy everybody else. I'll probably see them again next weekend and i'll take it from there. Life does go on.....

Lois

Raquel June
01-14-2008, 06:49 PM
Very funny! Personally, I think Brian is a little more aware and perhaps has some personal knowledge of dressing himself. I would question a man who saw foundation on my collar and actually called it foundation. If he had said something like, dude, that looks like chicks makeup or something on your shirt, that would be different, but using the word foundation?

Rut-Row. Scooby-do


Well, I dunno... He's never even had his own place. He pretty much went directly from living with his parents to getting a house with his wife. His wife is really beautiful but has a bad complexion (some acne and a generally splotchy uneven skin tone). They've been married about 8 years. It struck me as odd him using the word foundation, but I can buy that he knows what foundation and concealer are after being with her so long.

I actually work out with both of them twice a week. She keeps track of all the finances, she's smarter than he is, and she's all about really masculine guys. He's 5'11" 212 lbs, while she is 5'6" 123 lbs (tiny waist, probably a 34DD or 36D, and she doesn't have much of a butt), so he's not fitting into any of her stuff. I just don't think there's much chance of him exploring anything femme...

Geneva Lake
01-14-2008, 06:55 PM
Funny stuff, Racquel. YOU must be a total howl to hang out with.

Hugs
:D
Gen