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Marvina Martian
01-21-2008, 12:32 AM
Hey all,
The other day I was very down all day for some reason. I just could not figure it out but just didn't feel like doing anything or being my usual happy self. So just before bed my best friend in Hawaii calls, it's like 15 to midnight my time but I answered anyways, because it's him!
So we are talking and he can tell I am not myself and keeps pestering me on what is wrong. So in my usual way I beat around the bush, drooped hints and the like, but he didn't get it. For some reason I just felt an uncontrollable urge to come out to him that the time had come!
So, I did it! I still can't believe that I did it but I did!
We ended up talking until 4am about it and other stuff. It was just such a relief to have told him. I can't describe it but it just feels so right now. He was so very understanding and cool with it. I told him that I thought that if he was really my friend that it would not matter one bit and he told me that was totally right, if anything it has made us closer.
I just felt like this next stage of evolution has been attained. We were yakking and looking up videos on youtube and trying to start them at the same time so the sound would be in sync over the phone, silly stuff like that.
When we were getting off the phone he told me that he was really glad that I trusted him to open up to him as much as I had. He also said that we could really have some fun with this!
I'm so grateful to have such a good friend! :hugs:

I just had to share! :kiss:

Brenda1423
01-21-2008, 12:37 AM
Thats great. Not all guys are jerks about it. Many are very supportive.

thatgirl
01-21-2008, 12:41 AM
aww im so glad that you and your friend are doing great and that he accepted you. dont you just love that feeling when you told someone that very supportive. i do. i happy for you.

NatalieBliss
01-21-2008, 12:43 AM
Congrats! Glad it was such a positive experience for you!

Miss Petra
01-21-2008, 12:48 AM
Thats great Bre.:hugs:

I am out to all my friends who are close and love me.

It is fun to share things with them. Some are very excepting and want to take me out to dinner. Others just say well you are not hurting anyone but dont really want to hear about Petra's Perils:heehee:

One friend I am very close to is a professional portrait photographer. One day while viewing my latest pics of my makeover his assistant came in and saw the picture of Petra. She asked I dont remember that lady in any of our sittings? My friend started to giggle and responded thats a guy and is a good friend of mine from Los Angeles. Needless to say she was dumbfounded and took several more looks at the picture. She responded "Well it is a beautiful woman even if it is a guy".

Associating our fem selves with the ones we love and other civilians can give great joy and is a wonderful addition to our femininity.

Petra

Bobbie Jo
01-21-2008, 01:12 AM
I just told one of my buddy's too. It would've been better on the phone than the computer because it took a little longer to get through,but,,He also said that it was probably felt great telling him. He did say that he felt so proud being the friend that I told. He also told me that my crossdressing wasn't going any further and that I didn't have to worry. It does feel good to tell people and you will find out who your good friends are. I'm really glad it went good for you...