Not sure what to do

[Danielle Hyatt]

Because I only cross dress when I want to and in private and I'm not gay! I like it here but don't want to get in tuoble do you want me to go?

Your Friend
Dan:D

[GypsyKaren]

Why would anyone want you to go, and why do you feel the need to keep announcing that you're not gay? You can dress whenever you want, and nobody cares what you do in bed, so stick around and make new friends, no one will bite you.

Karen Starlene :star:

[Daintre]

Oh my goodness Dan, why would we want you to go? There are so many different reasons to cross dress, it does not mean you need to go all the way.

Dan, if you feel that this Forum is beneficial to you then please, please stay. There are members here who want only friendship and hang out in the lounge. Relax my friend, if you would like to PM or e-mail or even yahoo, please contact me, I am always looking for new friends

[Barb Valentine]

Hi there Dan
Why would we want you to go
Your a crossdresser right
Then your welcome here
(to tell the truth it wouldn't matter even if your not)
This is a great place to meet new friends
And to talk about crossdressing openly

[trannie T]

As I have posted many times before, we are all unique individuals and each has unique needs and desires. If you want to go out then go out, if you wish to stay home then stay home. Make your own decisions, do what makes you happy.

[Sandra]

Dan

You're welcome here as much as any body else. If you think this forum will help then don't leave we're not a bad bunch really. :)

[Kathleengurl]

Dan,

I think the most important value that this forum brings to us gurls is acceptance. Spend some time reading posts here and you'll find that there is the widest possible spectrum of people from all walks... all opinions... all knowledge levels.

You'll find a very modest amount of sniping here and it's quelled quickly by peers and moderators. This board is one of the most friendly supporting boards I've found on any subject. --just extra-special that happens to be about what's in my closet.

I for one, and I'm sure I'm not alone --welcome you here.

V/R -- Kathleen

[christid66]

Because I only cross dress when I want to and in private and I'm not gay! I like it here but don't want to get in tuoble do you want me to go?

Your Friend
Dan:D

Dan,
That is what this site is for.

There's a few of us just like you - although as I'm married and in the closet (my fault, I know), I can't cross dress when I want to:heehee:

Please stay around & visit often......You'll enjoy it!

[Shelly Preston]

Hi Dan

You are most welcome here :D

A lot of the people here crossdress in private and will never go out

No one here cares if your straight gay lesbian bisexual We are all individuals

So your not getting in trouble

:hugs:

[Kate Simmons]

Sure Dan, we are happy to have you here. :happy:

[Dalece]

Welcome Dan We are here to support each other. I haven't been here long but have made friends here and got some great advice.

[Kathy Renee]

Hey Dan. This is a very supportive site. I have only been a member a couple of months but have received so much from this forum and the members. We are here for you and don't want you to go.

[Kieron Andrew]

being gay and being a cd'er have nothing to do with each other, they are totally separate things that CAN be entwined.....you are a private at home straight cd'er you will find many like you here

[Amanduhrob]

Psst, Dan...

Most of us are not gay, and we welcome the ones that are, so it really dosen't matter here.

[susan2010]

Welcome, Dan. I'm new here myself. I've been reading the forum since July. There is an incredible range of personalities and behaviors on this site and in the community in general and most of us seem to have a good sense of humor about ourselves. I'm 55 years old, liked my sister's petticoats when I was 4, didn't put on a dress until I was in my 40's, married with 4 kids, and completely straight (well, as straight as as I can be wearing pink panties).
Welcome, stick around, and I'd suggest you find a local group like Renaissance or Tri-ess. Meeting other people like myself was a huge help.

[MJ]

hi Dan welcome , hey i am full time . and i am not gay and i am welcome here relax look around and get to know people

[Angie G]

Why would we want you to go. You are as welcome here as anyone Dan this site isn't about being Gay or not. you so stay and enjoy the forums and stay involved :hugs:
Angie

[MarinaTwelve200]

Because I only cross dress when I want to and in private and I'm not gay! I like it here but don't want to get in tuoble do you want me to go?

Your Friend
Dan:D

Hey, I'm a Private and ocasional CDer myself. Lots of us here are. But there are different KINDS of Crossdressers. Sure, many here are "Classic" CDers, usualy hetro, who CD often and go out in public, but others Are "Escapist" CDers, like me, who do it only ever so often as a private "psychological release" to relax. And there are also "Fetish" and "thrill seeker" types too, each with different behaviour patterns.
There are also Some here ARE Transexual, Gay or BI, but sexuality usually has nothing to do with CDing , despite the public Mythology.

This is a good place to learn about ourselves and others who share a common act often misunderstood by "outsiders" and to find understanding friends.

[deja true]

Gosh, don't sweat it Danny boy. Nobody here is gonna hit on you or try to turn you into something you obviously fear. In fact, some of the 20,000(!) members here might even be your twins! If you're scared, we can help. If you're lonely, we can help. If you just wanna ask questions- any kind of questions- we can help in a totally non-judgemental and sympathetic way.

So talk to us boy! We'll learn from you while you're learning from us . ( Unless your abusive, then your toast!)

Respect (and I really mean it) & Love

deja

[switcheralso]

Well your trapped in the fine print you can never leave. Just lay back and read what we post and be nice.

[Juanita O]

hi Dan

welcome, you don't need to leave, this is a very good forum and very helpful with many question that you might have. What difference does it make if you are gay or not. We are here because we enjoy this sight.

[TGMarla]

Hey Dan! No worries, g'friend. No one here cares one way or the other if you're gay or not. I'm not gay either. Do you like my dress?

[Jennifer Giovannetta]

Dan, nobody wants you to leave. In my experience, the transgendered community are some of the most accepting and supportive people I have ever met. In life, that is a rare commodity.

[Lidia_tv]

Just enjoy yourself and enjoy the company here, OK?

[Deborah Jane]

Hi Dan, lots of us only dress when we want too and in private. I,m not gay either, but some of my friends are. Just live and let live. You,ll find a lot of great people here [and a very, very few not so nice, but they tend to "crash and burn"]. Just stick around, get to know everyone and make some great friends.:happy:

[CatAttack]

dude, I am the same way. I am a heterosexual private cder and i only dress occasionally when I am overcome by the Thirst.

I think a pretty good determining factor as to whether you're gay or not is probably if you are turned on by other men.

[Jennaie]

Do what you're comfortable with. If you think there is something here that you can gain knowledge from, then stay. You don't have to have a female name, you don't have to submit to peer pressure and most of all, you don't have to worry about not being gay, statistics show that most cd's are not.

Just don't touch me man, you're not gay and I'm not a woman. If you touch me it would be awkward for both of us, I mean, me, not being a woman, and you, not being gay would make me wonder what the hell you have your hands on me for, Even if the lights were out and it felt good, I would be thinking, he's not gay and I am not a woman, why is he touching me? Just don't touch me.

Besides, I have a crush on Tamara, don't even think about it.

[Ruth]

Dan, it's been said already but let me repeat, sexuality is an issue for us all, but it's a different one from what we like to wear. We are united here by our enjoyment of wearing women's clothing, so you are welcome and you are probably in the right place, but being here is nothing to do with being gay or bi or straight, or into goats, or whatever.
(My apologies to the goat lovers, didn't mean to single you out :happy:)

[Jennaie]

Dan, it's been said already but let me repeat, sexuality is an issue for us all, but it's a different one from what we like to wear. We are united here by our enjoyment of wearing women's clothing, so you are welcome and you are probably in the right place, but being here is nothing to do with being gay or bi or straight, or into goats, or whatever.
(My apologies to the goat lovers, didn't mean to single you out :happy:)

Just stay away from my sheep, Do what you want with the goats, I never understood how a person could find a goat more attractive than a sheep.

[Danielle Hyatt]

WOW thank you everyone for your surport I apruese it!!!

You don't have to worry Jennaie I won't hit on you, and I don't know anything about a goat or a sheep but do you have a daughter:tongueout


Your Friend
Dan

[darla_g]

Dan,

Only you yourself can dictate what you do and how you feel when you dress. Don't want to go out? Don't! Don't feel obligated especially when you read about gurlz here who have all kind of adventures. It's whatever you want to do. This web site is intended for support.

As for feelings about being gay there may be some here that are and others that are purely hetero. Its up to you again and your concerns are not unique. If you go back just a few weeks there are threads about latent homosexual feelings when gay. Not a problem. I suggest you just go through a number of old threads and you will see your questions and your feelings are in no way unique.

darla

[Chari]

Dan, You have to do what is most comfortable for you and hopefully this forum will give you some comfort! This is a very friendly forum where you can get great advice. Enjoy your stay.

[Jennaie]

WOW thank you everyone for your surport I apruese it!!!

You don't have to worry Jennaie I won't hit on you, and I don't know anything about a goat or a sheep but do you have a daughter:tongueout


Your Friend
Dan

As a matter of fact I do have a daughter. What is your annual income?:tongueout

[Carly D.]

You know crossdressing can be a form of insanity.. you don't think you belong anywhere in the known universe and yet there really is nothing wrong with doing it.. why feel guilty?? I do feel some guilt, I can't help it.. like when I spend any money on anything woman clothing related and think will I need that money for something essential such as food, or porn... or whatever... porn as essential.. right, well you know what I mean.. food, water, transportation, porn... it all rates there somewhere...

[Danielle Hyatt]

I make 1000,000,0000,00001247886748547785

Life is like a baseball game you may make home runs and you may strike out but at lest you know you always will go up to bat!!!!

Your Friend
Dan:D