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megan163
02-05-2008, 04:45 PM
My wife has known of my cding for years but it's been mostly a "don't ask, don't tell" policy until lately. We've been going to the thrifts and see just so many many gorgeous and pretty outfits for all occasions (must be closet-clearing donation season). A couple times I've bought something for myself and no problems. Today, though, she actually picked something out for me. I've also been shaving my legs regularly and underdressing. I love spandex tights to keep snug and warm. I don't want to push it but I'm feeling so much happier about it. I hated the sneaking around. Just wanted to share my excitement.

Nigella
02-05-2008, 04:50 PM
Just let your wife do things at her own pace. It may be a long time before she buys you anything else, or then again it could be tomorrow.

She may have changed to "Dont push it, but I may surprise you sometimes"

Good Wishes

Shelly Preston
02-05-2008, 05:01 PM
I hope you buy her a surprise in return

It will let her know how much you appreciated the gesture

Nigella is right just be careful and dont push it

Darla in Pa.
02-05-2008, 05:08 PM
My wife purged (no more room) gave them to me, now I have to make room *LOL* I might be able to manage it though, Darla