Experiences getting caught?

[Rayna]

I had plenty of experiences where i *MUST* have been caught but there were no conversations or confrontations. SO many times that my mother had opened the door to my room and started to walk in while i was on the bed wearing tights and a bodysuit or something to the effect. I usually kept a BIG shirt on over them in case someone came in. I dunno, maybe she just assumed i was wearing sweatpants or something. maybe she has really bad eyesight.


What are your experiences. When you got caught (i'm sure plenty of you have been), what transpired. I always wonder what would have happened if i had actually opened up to my mom when i was a kid. I can't count the number of times she said she wished she had had a girl

[Wendy me]

rayna ok listen to me your mom knows i am a 40 something young crossdresser that has not lived in mom's house from age 16...some 30 odd yearsjust a short while ago she (my mom) let me know that she knew. ask any of the gg's out there mom's just know theies things....

now do you come out to her????well not if your not comfy with that (she might not know,,, but my money is that she dose) go slow go easy ....your stash well mom's know every inch of there house.....too late..... don't panic..just be carfull....a lock or chain on the door works as well....

[Rayna]

rayna ok listen to me your mom knows i am a 40 something young crossdresser that has not lived in mom's house from age 16...some 30 odd yearsjust a short while ago she (my mom) let me know that she knew. ask any of the gg's out there mom's just know theies things....

now do you come out to her????well not if your not comfy with that (she might not know,,, but my money is that she dose) go slow go easy ....your stash well mom's know every inch of there house.....too late..... don't panic..just be carfull....a lock or chain on the door works as well....

Well that was all years in the past.. I'm married now. My wife knows, and loves it. She knows where my stash is because she goes shopping with me :)

[Nyx]

I've been caught wearing a little dress in preschool when I was about 7. I was with a girl, trying on disguises. The other kids made fun of me for a week, but it was quickly forgotten... Thats about it, my mom knows about my crossdressing now so its not a problem.

[Donna Delite]

I was fully dressed head to heal, it was 2 in the am on a Fri night. Everyone was asleep and my daughter was at a sleep over. All of a sudden someone's knocking at the front door. I peek out the window and it's my daughter. Holy shit, someone has to unlock the door and she's calling for me because she see's the den light on. Should I get it and if I do will someone else get up. I quickly tear off all my clothes and unlock the door and quickly run back to the den and lock the door. Ahh, that was close, but wait, some idiot locked the screen door and now she's crying, I once again run out and unlock the sceen door and sprint back to the safety of the locked den. I hope it never gets that close again :eek:

[DonnaT]

My mother caught me in one of her bras. My parent tried to ask me about it, but I fluffed it off mainly because my brothers were in ear shot. I don't know why they didn't sit me down and talk. Maybe they didn't know what to they would say if I gave them an answer they couldn't handle.

[Cassandra Marie]

I got caught once by the neighbor woman that lived across the street from the house I owned when I was about 25-years-old. She pulled out of her driveway leaving for work one morning and I was dressed in a full bridal ensamble. I was staring out of my front door across the street at something. I forget what it was now but I got lost in a daze and forgot where the hell I was and the next thing I know when I came back to reality is my neighbor, who was a total hottie by the way, is literally stopped dead in front of my house in the middle of the road just looking at me, her mouth was dropped wide open and the look on her face said, "Oh my God he's a little sissy." Nothing was ever said about it from her or any of my other neighbors which I'm sure she must have told at some point. :o

I got caught another time when I was living in an apartment with my fiance. She supported and encouraged me to dress feminine so it was almost natural to be wearing something femme when I was home. One day when I wasn't thinking there was a knock on the door and me like an idiot went downstairs to answer it. I pull open the door and there's the UPS man with a delivery. He looks at me and loses his battle of holding back his laugh and at that point I realize that I am at the door dressed in a very feminine, black, triple tiered, knee length skirt and a hunter green blouse. I had on full makeup and everything and I must have turned every shade of red from embarassment. Like a trooper however I signed for the package and went back upstairs and wondered how I could have been such an idiot. I sat there just thinking about whether or not that had really just happened to me or not. When my fiance came home and I told her about it she too had a pretty good laugh about it. :o

I got caught 3 other times as well but that was on purpose so they don't really count. :)

Yours,

Cassandra

[derminator]

When I was a youngish teenager.... me and a friend found an abandoned pair of lace panties.... I dared him to try them on... he eventually did so over his jeans..... but when he dared me... he told me to actually wear them against my skin..... I didn't know what to do! I knew if i put them on I would get an erection... so laughingly i put them on my head instead and chased after him..... eventually, we got tired of the game and i pretended to throw them away.... but sneakingly I stuffed them inside my pocket.

I was really excited at the prospect of getting these georgous panties home... but alas... when i got home..... as usual, the house was full with Mum, dad and my 3 bro's... so I had to wait before i could play........................unfortunately, I stupidly forgot abotu the panties in myt pockets when i threw my shorts in the wash...... even more unfortunate when my mother found them............. and happen to blurt out to me (in fornt of 2 of my bro's) 'what the hell are therse doing in your pants???????'... I just shrugged my shoulders and explained that me an my mate found them and we were mucking around with them and that I absent-mindedly left them in my pocket.

Mum just didn't know whether to laugh. cry or yell.............. in the end - she said nothing (and hasn't done so to this day)... nor have i. I'm sure she (like most mums) knew alot more about me than i ever gave her credit for.

[stephanie1000]

well ladies many years ago I was caught and not with any articles stuck on me, just that the mother truely was a neat freak about her clothing. She kept all her lingerie and intimates so neat she new i was in them by the mess i made. After that believe me I was much better at putting things back were they belonged. Love to you all.

[nicau]

hi,i used to walk around the house in mums pantyhose,strappy heels walking like a sissy,thinking back i could so easily been caught but thankfully not.
hugs nicau

[black leotards]

... I can recall asking my mother to buy me a pair of tights for boys from a catalog. She must have wondered about me then, and she certainly found out when my large collection of tights and other clothing was found in my room later. Not much was ever said, but i often wonder what she thought.

[Jennacd]

My mother found my panties when I was twelve. She took me to a psychiatrist and they told me this was wrong and got me to quit...for all of about 3 months.

Hugs
Jenna

[Anna]

God! i dont ever want to ge caught! its fine for our sisters out there who want to go the whole nine yards but for me most of the fun is in the deceipt, that clandestine alter-ego which we choose to exist within, an escapist other world where there is neither male nor female....a third world, a third option. if C/D's ever become the norm then that will be the saddest day of my life....fun is hard to come by in this cynical old world.Lets have some fun ladies!!! :p

[azure]

I was at a friends house, hse'd gone downm stairs to grab some cans of coke, so I was left alone in her room. it was afternoon , and her door was open. So, my attention was drawn to the drawers and wardrobe in her room. I wandered over and let my fingers trace a line over all the skirts and dresses hanging up. I turned and open a drawer, and lifted out her swimming costume,feeling its material in my finger tips. I heard a sound behind me, and there in the doorway was her big brother, he could clearly see was I was holding(just the costume, no sniggering in the cheap seats please!)
He told me that my freind was watching telly downstairs, I made a weak excuse about what I was doing, and left quick. I think many in the CD/ TV/TS spectrum would probably be naturals working for the CIA or MI5 because we're adept at living covertly(keep that to yourself of course!)

[AbbyLee]

It was horrible. I had on a Ball gown red, wearing earings, make-up, the whole nine yards. My wife came home early. After the initial shock, the trite but understandable questions. Are you gay, are you a woman trapped in a mans body, are you bisexual. I tried to explain to her about crossdressing. After the anger was crying then the silent treatment. Finally she reconciled herself to the fact about my dressing and made me promise to never do it when she was around. She also said that if she would be home early she would phone.

[Deelite]

When i lived with my parents, i was VERY careful when i dressed, always made sure how long they were out for, so i could get dressed back into my drab before they got home.

I was about 15ish i think and i had been wearing stockings along with a suspender belt and some boots my mum had, unfortunately when i got dressed back into normal drab, i had left one of the stockings out and it was just under my bed for my mum to see, when she was cleaning my room.

She confronted me, and asked where it had come from, i could of died! i just panicked and told her "i don't know" and denied all knowledge of it, she gave me a funny look and walked out of my room (my heart was pounding big time!) after that nothing else was said, and i made sure i was double careful next time.

I've had some close calls being dressed, usually running into the bathroom to change (where i would leave my drab stuff). The bath had a panel i would remove with a screwdriver and hide my stash under the bath.

Dee.

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

i got caught when i was 12 in my sisters pantyhose by my mom sis and dad didnt say anything or seem to care only mom did, she being old school catholic freaked out and sent me to the parish priest then to shrinks its been 30 yrs and im still dealing with the shame and guilt it embedded in my brain,, thanks mom :( but i didnt stop me,, everyone who knows me knows i dress in some form or another but its only because i got tired of hiding,,the first week we met i showed my wife i dress and she luvs it :D

i used to wear pantyhose to school,, yup u guessed it i went to catholic schools,, i never got cought there even tho it made changing for gym class interesting,,

a couple of my g/fs knew i wore pantyhose and they wer fine with it,, wish i they all would have known,, and i wish i knew then what i know now. :(

[stefanie]

when i was in my early teens, I recall my sister noticed i had clear toenail polish on. She didn't say anything but I could tell by here double take. Though I have not come out in front of my family, my same sister (of a family of 6 siblings) many years later started staring at me. She kept on giving me the funny look and pointing to her own eyebrows...yes, she obviously noticed that not only did I shape my brows but at least at that time a few years ago, they were probably very near Pam Anderson thin and arched. I have since grown them back to be more Ashley Judd (still arched, still thin, still very femme), but not soooooo avert. I am surprised there are not more of my colleagues not saying anything. I also keep my legs shaved even during summer and like using the Nivea Shimmerring lotion. I have seen many look at me, but no one has said anything....yet! Its strange because when I am in drab mode, i am very boyish in personality even though I am very femme under my clothes. Its gotta freak people out. I better start thinking of my responses for this summer also.

stefanie

[DonnaT]

Its gotta freak people out. I better start thinking of my responses for this summer also.

Most people don't care. If you need to respond, just tell them you hate a hairy body.

Saw an older gentleman the other evening when my wife and I went out for supper. He was wearing shorts, and his legs were shaved. He didn't give a hoot what anyone may have been thinking, no one else probably even noticed. I know my wife didn't.

[Wendy me]

experiences in getting caught????? hell yes got that manny times ... i am getting real good at getting caught..........

[Christine Hanes]

I would love to shave my legs again. I did in college all the time. But I wore pants all the time in male mode so it didnt show. I wear shorts to much now to get away with it. I have very dark hair so it would be very noticible if I didnt have any hair I fear. I have been thinking of doing it in the winter though.

As far as getting caught. I'll have to write that up in a bit when I have more time.

[Lady Jayne]

Christine
This may put your mind at rest somewhat, I shaved all over about four weeks ago, about two weeks later a freind asked if I wanted to take the place of someone who had dropped out of a holiday, I have been away with this group of male freinds several times before so I said yes sure when is it,the reply.... saturday this was tuesday, needless to say there were a few days of pure panic, what would all my streight and quite "macho" mates say when they saw me with no chest hair,no underarm hair and very little hair on my legs(about two weeks growth) I put off wearing shorts for about a day and a half then I just thought sod it, and you know what nobody even noticed, I don't think men look at men very closely, so now with the panic over I have been back a week shaved my legs again, and have a nice bit of colour on my legs fantastic!

[Jill]

I was caught by my sister when I was about 17. I was wearing her dress, I heard her coming in and so I ran through the front room and up the stairs to my room. For a second I thought I may have eluded whoever was coming in the door, I didn't even stop to see who it was. Next thing I knew she was yelling up after me, "What are you doing my dress?!?!" I have had many many narrow escapes but that was the only time I was caught.

[Elysia]

Morph… What a horrible thing for that guy to do. I know I'm stating the obvious, but it’s just not right. Worse than that, it's appalling. I read your post and thought I must say it out loud. What he did was simply atrocious. Words fail me. I’m sorry that happened to you.

[Susan Smith]

Wow - this is no where near as touching as Morph's experience, but it seems like the right thread.

I just got caught!

I work from home a lot so can spend a lot of time dressed en femme. My wife called from her office this morning and asked me to put a load of washing in for her. Now I'm much happier doing housework when I'm Susan so I nipped upstairs and put on panties, opaque tights, black miniskirt and a jersey knit top. A bit of a fuss for one load of washing, but I feel kinda cute in it.

Wearing my girly clothes such a lot I often have to do a double check before I get out of the car at the shops just in case I've forgotten to change back to drabs before I left the house. Fortunately, I haven't made a mistake yet.... until this morning.

I put the washing in, cleared away the breakfast things, fed the cat and pretty much forgot what I was wearing. Then, you guessed... a knock at the door, which I answered without thinking. It wasn't until the postman said 'love the skirt' that I realised what I'd done. Bright red doesn't begin to describe it. From the look on his face I don't know if he was just surprised or shocked or what, but I don't think I'll be going anywhere near the sorting office for a while.