Making Love En Fem

[docrobbysherry]

I have read a number of posts regarding CDs, either making love dressed, or fantasizing about doing that. It just occurred to me that that thot has never entered my mind!
I find Sherry so hot, I don't want to share her with anyone! Maybe that's just a stage I'm going thru. So, I'm asking all of u if u do, or have, felt that way about your female creation. Not wanting her to make love to anyone but u.
RS

[Angie G]

I've made love to my wife 2 time once in the living room when I was wearing a skirt and once in the bedroom wearing a nightie both times I really enjoyed it :hugs:
Angie

[MJ]

if i ever get lucky I'll let you know . at the moment i am a rookie

[Ashlee]

I had gone to a Halloween party this past Oct. en femme. I was a big hit with the people there. I was dressed to the nines and had Jamie Austin do the makeup on me so I looked good. When we finally left I was feeling a little (ok, a lot randy) so while still dressed completely head to toe we did it. I was totally made up with a corset, skirt, blouse, pantyhose, panties, bra, breast forms and 3 inch heels. As I said, completely head to toe woman. It was awesome!! I stole a glance or 2 of me in the mirror too. If you get the chance to someday - go for it!!

[Nicki B]

Don't knock making love when you're both wearing stockings and suspenders until you've tried it... :D

[KeriB]

Sexual activity as Selene with my wife enters the "no-fly zone;" while she has told me I can dress as much as I want, this actually has no interest for me anymore and I would respect her wishes in any case...

[gearbox]

hi i dont dress all the time but when i do my girlfriend helps me dress and we alway make love like it... i must just be lucky

[Kayla_CD]

When I am with my girlfriend my femme side is out of the equation. I have fantasized about being with someone when I'm dressed, but for me that someone would have to be a man. So, unless this relationship ends it will remain a fantasy.

[Joannne]

I'm really lucky as well. My GF gets really turned on by my female side.

[Shelly67]

I must be another girl with a lot of luck too .......without being too personal , lets just say things have progressed in a marvellous way with my sexy wife ....violently even sometimes and rather sweaty when wearing a wig ....giggle:o

[Butterfly Bill]

If by "making love" you mean having sex, every time I've done that we both have been completely nude.

[tricia_uktv]

Sherry, but its wonderful because he is treating you as a woman - probably as you wish to be treated. And the nicest bit I find is afterwards; when you lay your head on his chest, he holds you and you fall asleep together. Wow, way to erotic ha-ha

[Dragster]

I love to make love to my wife when she's wearing lingerie, but it hasn't happened often, she's not really interested. I've really enjoyed it when I've been dressed in lingerie, but she insisted I blindfolded her while I was dressed. The best times were when we were both dressed, but sadly, it's only been once or twice. I agree Nicky B, making love with both wearing stockings and suspenders is fantastic. Even better if one, or better both, are wearing opera length satin gloves too! I've also read, in an article on corsets, that making love with both wearing tight corsets is even better! I hope we get to try it one day.

Tony

[Pauline53]

I've been wearing panties 24/7 since December. Really enjoy making love to my SO whle I'm wearing them. Don't think I could do without having panties on now LOL.

Pauline.

[VtVicky]

My first time having sex while crossdressed was about 20 years ago after a costume party in England. My girlfriend didn't know I was a CDer. But she seemed OK with the situation. I guess she thought I just didn't bother getting completely undressed after the party. The experience was not particularly sexier than our regular sex life. (Which was routinely great!) But, I thoroughly enjoyed it.

During my last marriage, my wife and I would set up "girlfriend" dates. Where we would both wear approximately the same stuff. Usually some form of lingerie set. We both had a great time, and seldom left the bedroom.

My current GF knows I CD but does not want to be involved. However, just talking with her about CDing turns me on more than she knows.

I think my point is that mearly having sex while CDed is less arousing than having sex with someone who participates in the CDing experience, or, at least acknowledges my "hobby" and doesn't reject the rest of me.

[Rachel Morley]

I answered yes .... it happens fairly often, and obviously, only with my wife. Making love en femme tends to be with just me or both of us, in lingerie rather than fully dressed. We did try it once when I was corseted but it was too uncomfortable as the corset rubbed against her too much.

[Michelle 51]

Yes I,ll asked my wife if i could make love to her fully dressed a couple of times.I,m talking 4" heels,skirt, etc.I,ll tell you this there ain,t no shortage of traction with 4"heels and if you have to ask you haul your panties and hose down and skirt and slip up nough said see ya

[Carrie]

The only times that I've made love to My Girl is while she was fully dressed (lingerie, breast forms, makeup, wig...). She is the only CD that I've been with and I am so hooked now - I don't think I'll ever go back to vanilla even though I may not see My Girl again. BTW, I am not gay or Bi. The added dimension of being with her en femme was fantastic! Having our stockings rub together, oooooo....I get goose bumps!

I'm hoping that my next b/f has a femme side. :happy:

~C

[angelfire]

I never have, but would definitely like to try it at some point in the future.

[O2B Barbara]

It is a wonderfull feeling, also one of total acceptance. Have to agree, nylons rubbing, garterbelt to hold them..............

[Rachel Morley]

..... She is the only CD that I've been with and I am so hooked now - I don't think I'll ever go back to vanilla
That's exactly what my wife Marla says! .... regular guys just don't do it for her. I better make sure I keep her happy ... right? :happy:

[LilSissyStevie]

We've done this often. Obviously it's a lot more fun for me than it is for her but she seems to enjoy it, too. She's naturally aggressive and I'm her little subbie so there is nothing "normal" or "vanilla" about our sexual relationship even when I'm not dressed. But, when I am dressed it's just heaven from my point of view. Still, I try not to wear her patience thin by needing to have my silly fetishes satisfied all the time. I don't want to ruin a good thing.

[Amy07]

Trust is a big thing here, and an individual choice. If you and your partner are into it, adults, consenting, then go with the flow. Take it easy, and making love when dressed is really, dam...

[Alex!]

Never. Not in a million years.

[SarahHall]

I find having sex when I am dolled up, wether alone or with my boyfriend, to be very stimulating.

[nervousguy]

for those who have not tried, it is simply wonderful. My So (steph) loves me to get dressed up whenever she does and it nearly always ends in sex with both of us dressed. It is just a fantastic turn on for us both

[Valeries_Online]

My wife and I have great love making when I am dressed. We both enjoy it VERY much and she has been sure to express this to me more than once. It always seems more sensual and seductive. I try to balance it out so that she gets her man making love to her as much or more than Valerie. I try to read her and make sure she is feeling good about her self image before doing it. Sometimes I will come right out and ask. I like making love both ways however something about me dressing really excites us both if the time and mood is right.

[jenniferwhite]

Sherry I am happy to say im the lucky one when it comes to love making enfem. It was terrible with first wife but that lasted only a couple yrs. Whaty a monster, no nothing of eny thing . After a few yrs alone I met my new wife threw a dating service ... After I proposed to her I told her all about me ..... She feaked of course... She got over it but the love for me was greater. So threw the yrs she felt that when i was dressed I was a better natured person. Didnt take her to long to enjoy the sex while i was dressed... We keep it to ourselves and thats fine for now . She even buys me a new outfit so that night we have , or afternoon, which is better , sex so enjoyable... She sees me as hubby but come to realize that sex while im dressed is so much better.. It stimulates me more. Knowing her for 21 yrs now,she no regrets an wishes we were millionairs so she would get lucky alot .... Thank you jenny.

[silkenhose]

yes, i am dressed most of the time we make love. my wifes mood will determine who gets bend over and has their skirt :olifted

[yatista]

I have not had the nerve to tell my wife but would love to try all dressed up

[megan163]

Once a long time ago in Halloween costume I made out with my soon-to-be wife in my car. Since marriage and coming out to her we've had times where I'd wear pantyhose and teddy but not fully dressed. It definitely heightens the experience.

[MystiqueJohnson]

Guilty as charged!

[Cyndie]

My wife is aware of my cross dressing, but does not want to be a part of it now. She has in the past and we we did make love a few times and I felt that it was heavenly, but she didn't. Every now and then we make love wearing matching nightgowns and I enjoy it, but I don't think she does. She is just being nice because she knows how it makes me feel, and that's a good thing. :happy:

TTFN
Cyndie

[SandyR]

After reading this post Im like, "wow"! We have talked alot about it, but nothing to date. Might be time to push it up on the list.

SandyR

[KatrinaAshley]

Without a SO 'tis a fantasy and nothing more.

[amber 07]

It is the most marvelous feeling in the world. To lay in the arms of the person you love and have them treat you intimately as one of the opposite sex is extraordinary. My SO insists on me going the whole route on the weekends(female outfit, breastforms, underwear and make-up). We spend hours on the weekends to the exclusion of everything else. This has just happened in the last 12 months and I hope the "newness" never wears off. I just received a Valentine card from her that was addressed to both me and my alter-ego. She is a very special person who made my life-long dreams come true. Now, with a little, well, a lot of make-up we just might make it into the real world.

It is magnificent to be able to rub our various parts together wearing sexy lingerie. Cheers

[Lilly 40C]

I have done it several times. It starts out with both of us compleately dressed and we slowly peel away the layers until I only wearing my bra and panties and then!!!!!!!!!!!Wow!!!!!!!!!

Lilly

[Bexles]

My wife seems to enjoy Rebekah very much, but it's a case of communicating as sometimes when I want to be Rebekah she wants a husband to "snuggle" up to.

[annekathleen]

One night when I was still married, me and the wife had been out drinking. When we got home, feeling no pain, and feeling quite horny, somehow the conversation of me dressing up in her bra, panties, garter, stockings, and heels, came up, and she was going to dress up in a pair of my boxers and one of my tank tops. We did it, and it was exciting!

[Bev06 GG]

My wife is aware of my cross dressing, but does not want to be a part of it now. She has in the past and we we did make love a few times and I felt that it was heavenly, but she didn't. Every now and then we make love wearing matching nightgowns and I enjoy it, but I don't think she does. She is just being nice because she knows how it makes me feel, and that's a good thing. :happy:

TTFN
Cyndie

Worth her weight in Gold then Cyndie. Isn't that what a relationship is all about. Compromise and making your partner happy. I think thats wonderful
Bev

[rachellegsep]

Early on whilst courting I slept over unexpectantly :heehee: It was the middle of winter and my so suggested I wear one of her pairs of satin Pajama's to keep warm. Still love the feel of satin material on my skin to this day. The other was about a week ago on our wedding anniverasary (she has recently come to accept my cding with certain boundaries), where she said "you can wear a nighty and panties if you like" No second offer required :D.

Comprimise & consideration for each other's feelings and needs thats the key :love:

[Mya Summers]

this has happened to me 3 times now in the past 7 years of marriage, once after a halloween party, the second time her idea mini skirt heels garter and thigh higs I was her toy that night if you get my drift and it still boggles my mind what possed her to have me dress like that and take advantage of me:hmmm::confused: but I so enjoyed every minute of it, and just last week but I was only wearing thigh highs, I asked her to put some on after she got out of the shower which she did but while she was in the shower I put mine on and curled up in bed, when she got into the bed and I layed on top of her she done what she always does and slide her hand down my back to my thighs and she stopped I though crap she is going to have a come apart, but she said why are you wearing those, and I replied that I din't want to irritate my legs b/c I had just shaved them the day b4 that, and it saved me. But to fell stockinged legs against each other during intimacy was a big turn on for me and by the way she was acting it I think it was for her as well. Ok I'm done talking..lol

[Sandi jo]

Yes many times,it just feels so right to be 2 girls making love

[Rebecca03038]

one time i had sex with my then girlfriend while en femme. It was the most erotic sexperience we had ever had together

[annekathleen]

O.K., we're talking as men "dressed up" having sex with their
"significant other" ( wife or girlfriend ) who is obviously a woman.

There must also be men "dressed up" having sex with their
"significant other" ( boyfriend or lover ) who is obviously a male.

Just covering all the angles here!
I've done the first, but curious to try the second.

[Bev]

Hi there!

I have the best GG SO in the world.
We have been together for years.

She is all my dreams and all my fantasies come true.

The secret to our success, may be, that I let her into my head.
She enjoys the openness and the honesty, and that turns her on.

Simple as that.

She is my best friend, confidant, lover, my everything. I could not imagine life without her.:hugs:

Sigh,
Bev

[shauna 9]

My wife will tell me. She would love to make love to shauna tonight.

[RobertaFermina]

Haven't been there often. Splendid to be accepted and desired in this way. Still exploring all the feelings about it.

:rose: Roberta :rose:

[DemonicDaughter]

Without a doubt, I LOVE my girl in bed! Yes, there's the whole stockings, lacy things and erotic feeling of doing what so many consider "taboo" but its a lot more than that. I can't really say exactly what it is or maybe its just everything. When she's dressed, she looks happier, more beautiful (and she's gorgeous to begin with), she seems... freer. How could I not find that appealing?

[shellycd]

Interesting question. My wife knows of me dressing but wants no part of it. She is OK with me wearing panties and I wear them about 50% of the time (always thongs). We have had sex many times when I'm wearing thongs. And a couple of times wearing tight highs. It feels great. She knows that I gets more excited when wearing some female items. A couple of times she asked me if I want to put on a pair of thongs during the act. Couple of weeks ago, she even mentioned that we should get matching thongs and the idea drove me wild! However, when I try to bring up to her that I want to try doing it full en fem, she want not part of it. Oh well, I'm surprised that I spill the beans on my bedroom activities in a public forum.....

[shirley1]

never been lucky enough to make love en fem - still theres time yet - have certainly imagined i'm en fem while making love - but on second thoughts enough said !

[Glenda]

Foreplay while dressed is fun, but the clothes just seem to be removed during sex. I don't know about you girls, but even if it is just a wig and make-up, I still feel enfemme. There are certain advantages to being single.

[Niya W]

Hmm I got the T-shirt and lube :)

[akaCathy]

Yes I have and it was wonderful.

[Foxy]

my wife and I ALWAYS ensure that I am Foxy when we do the act. She adores me as Foxy and wouldnt want me any other way. Just lucky I guess!! :hugs:

[Amy Hepker]

I have made love to females while dressed and loved it, they were not so accepting later on, but at first they were.

[bibrian]

Yes I have made love while dressed en fem many times. It is quite wonderful. My gf likes me to dress up in a sarong, panties, garter belt and stockings. She dresses similarly. Of course the sarongs and panties are removed eventually and we make love while we are both wearing our garters and stockings. It is very erotic and highly stimulating for both of us.

[AmandaM]

I have it exclusively enfemme. Now, if I could just get her to be more aggressive. :)

[brandi141]

My last girlfriend always wanted me to dress up in her lingerie before and during sex. she always wanted me to wear her clothes everytime i came to her house.i had no problem with it what so ever.loved it and i think thats why she always wanted me to do it.:hugs:

[Michelle_Blue]

I would love to try this but have not had the courage to bring it up with any of the ladies I have dated. I sometimes fantasize about having sex with a woman while wearing a bra, panties, garter belt and thigh high stockings. I would like to have a woman help dress me up in lingerie, put my makeup on, etc, and then, perhaps, lounge around the house for a while. Afterwards, we would have passionate sex while both of us are clad in frilly lingerie.

[pinklilly211]

I had a girlfriend back a few years ago that loved to have me all femed-up. she really liked when I had my forms in a lacy underwire bra,She would rub and squize them and told me they feel so real. She prefured to have sex with me all dolled up
Lilly

[EllenTheWonderGirl]

and I was shaved/dressed to the hilt. It was an amazing time.

One of many memories!

[DonnaWanna]

I have always had the fantasy of having sex while I was 'en femme. My exwife of 30 plus years hated the whole idea of me crossdressing so sex was completely out of the question with her. Now since I have gotten divorced my new girlfriend seems to like my little escapades as much as I do. We have had sex twice while I was dressed and one of the times we were dressed in matching nighties. I loved the whole session and I think she enjoyed it as well. I hope this is a sign of good things to come,,

I love you Lu,,

[phoebe61]

I've often made love to my wife en-femme which is great BUT i often fantisise
we are a couple of lesbians.
but i must also make love as a man for my wife sake, which is quite understandable:hugs:

[donnadawn]

I have been dressed enfemme to some level when I have made love with my wife for many years now. She does not care for it when I am completely dressed up, especially with the makeup, but does not mind some undies and a night gown or baby doll outfit. I always feel so much more feminine when we do and I am especially turned on when she kisses my boobs. I am also much more amourous when dressed up fully.

[Carroll]

Many times with my wife....and she loves to play with my new breast forms:o

[Gisele]

When my girl and I make love I am pretty much dressed. It's the best feeling in the world.

To be blunt we love to do quickies where we just lift our skirts and pull the panties aside and go at it like we may get caught. :daydreaming:

I don't think I want to make love as a real man anymore.

[annekathleen]

IF....IF I was fully dressed as a female...I think there is a part of me that would want to experiment with bing with a man. i've always fantasized about being totally dressed s a woman and to be taken by a man, from the very beginning to the very end. (discrete enough???)

[Stormgirl]

Making love? Lmao :devil: Love does not exist, maybe having sex while dressed sure.

[Laurelanne]

My SO and I do it quite often and sometimes SHE even instigates it .As well we do spend time just 2 girls with no lovemaking :hugs:.

[Krystyn]

Dressed...sex...yes and yes again.

Sometimes I like to watch myself before,during and after...so far only with my wife.She likes to watch me...watch myself?
The whole issue of sex while dressed is a complex and confusing issue...maybe that's why it's so much fun!
I have been with other CD's...at a bar...after a few...while dancing...that almost pushed me over the line...strangest part about that feeling was...I didn't resist a whole lot...almost let it happen.

Krystyn

[Josey]

Have been fortuate here. Wife has no problem in this regard provided i'm wearing nite gown or such appropriate attire. She does not enjoy my being fully dressed in street attire while engaging in sex. This small stipulation in our relationship makes things aok with me...a small price to pay, so to speak.

[ladytrackrunner]

On halloween i was dressed as a southern belle and my ex (gf) at the time dressed up as a princess... she knew i liked to dress so we went to a party got a little drunk... and then at her house when her family was gone she was like i want to see u as Samantha which is my name so we made pastionate love as i was dressed as samantha it was so arousing and i knew she loved it!!

[VeronicaH]

It's wonderful. I have a very accepting wife. I always wear something...usually a bra and forms when we make love. :battingeyelashes:

Veronica

[dominique]

My ultimate fantasy with my S.O. of course

[Joan_CD]

We make love when I am dressed all the time. the other night, she brought home a new wig for me. Well, I tried it on with a jean skirt and top and she REALLY liked it... alot!

[pretty girl]

Yes I loved getting all dressed up to make love. I have only been with two guys before and that was at the same time . It was awesome!!!!!!! Havent been with another guy since I got married
AMBER

[MeraLehanga]

it is almost impossible now, addicted, must be dressed in skirts with petticoat much better to have great sex

[easy-writer]

We've had fun with me wearing panties (or thong), but whenever I've tried wearing anything even remotely feminine on my upper body it turns her off. She says it makes her feel like she's "making love to another woman."
In her defense, I guess it would seem pretty strange.

[Michelia]

About twenty per cent of the time with my wife only.

[Teddie]

When I'm all dolled up thing can, and do, get very interesting in the bedroom.

[Baley]

All the time. When i get home from work i take a shower slip my nighty and wig on.:love:

[stephanie B]

Yes, Stockings and suspenders are a big turn-on but better still I think, is both of us wearing stockings and suspenders in the shower. (and a slip usually), that Almost always ends up with one or both of us begging for sex.
Oh, the fun of experimenting !

[avery99]

it's a part of who i am, so yes, i express my sexuality in both a masculine and a feminine way.

[VeronicaH]

Yes...it's wonderful. We do it all the time. Guess I'm one of the lucky ones also.

[Melanie R]

My love making is 100% of the time with me dressed enfemme. My wife knows that I am a better lover when I am enfemme and she is able to share in my experience. There is nothing in the world for a CD as the experience of our nylon covered legs touching, her hands on my breasts and her running her hands over my legs.

[Stephenie]

Many year ago with wife, she thought we were just playing around were as I was thinking differently.

[me2]

I haven’t as of yet but I would really like to:daydreaming: Furthermore I hope you girls don’t think im to weird or going to far here but I would love to go to bed with a late 20’s to mid 30’s couple for as long a night of “love making” as I could stand:battingeyelashes: It may be just me but I would love to explore my feminine side totally.

[gagirl1]

the night i told my gf about it i surprised her by wearing some thigh-highs to bed. needless to say it worked. what a night.

[Corsetted Nikki]

For me, mostly a bedroom CD, I LOVE making love to my wife while dressed. For her part she actually really likes us being nude, but she is ok with us making love when most often I'm dressed.

I love moving my stocking clad legs across her legs and we both enjoy snapping my garters. Some of our lovemaking sessions are very intense and very different when I'm dressed up.

Dressing is a ritual with me. (Ie If I'm wearing seamed stockings, I always ask the wife if my seams are straight.) Fortunately, I don't go the full package, usually just stockings, garter belt and sometimes high heel boots. If I went all out, she'd be out of the mood by the time I was ready to go.

I have always been the conscientious lover trying to be sure to take care of her needs first, but my style really is different when I'm dressed. I'm much more touchy-feely and a much better cuddler. I drape my body against her and bring her very close so only my lingerie is between us. I'm definitely the femme when I'm en femme. I find it very special.

Very rarely we both dress up and I love that. I love roleplaying that we're two lesbian lovers. The only real difference is once we're done, she wants to take the clothes off but I'll sleep in mine.

I really think I wouldn't crossdress nearly as much if my wife wore sexy stuff all the time in bed. It's probably more a fetish
thing than a lifestyle thing with me. But since she won't wear all that often, I'm more than willing to do so.

I'm really blessed to have a partner that is quite fine with me dressing up. I hope all of you being as lucky!

[paulaluvssz8]

That is how I first introduced my desire to dress to my wife. I ask her to dress me and treat me like her B**** and she laughed and agreed. As we continued my desire to dress got even stronger. We havn't played that game in a long time. But hopefully it will happen again. Just don't want to push it.:daydreaming:

[harmony]

wow!i am sticking out like a sore thumb!i cant imagine keeping my wig straight -my forms from wandering-not hurting anyone with my spike heals-panties getting in the way and so on while in the throws of passion!!down right naked is it for me----now as to foreplay-thats a different story!

[cinderellaman]

We do about 10% of the time:daydreaming:Sometimes, my wife suggests I put on a pair of stockings & panties. Sometimes I just do it. Often, we go shopping together & my wife will look at a nice pair of undies & match them with a bra & stockings & tell me to wear them to bed that night. She's wonderful:hugs:

[Lara Smith]

I will never forget the day I came out to my wife after five years of marriage. After a long day of mutual soul searching, she said, “I knew there was something different about you from the day I met you. I just couldn't figure out what it was." Then she asked me to put a pair of panties on under my very cut off jeans. I did, and when I came back to her, she asked me to lie face down on her lap and proceeded to caress my pantied bottom under my cutoffs in a way she had never touched me before! I must have laid there for an hour while she caressed my pantied bottom. We barely spoke. I remember her asking me if it felt good..."oh God yes." was my reply. I had dreamed of having that moment my entire life. There was no way I thought it would ever happen with any female much less my wife, and no way on God's earth with this woman. After that day there were many where we made love with me in panties. Another twelve or so year s went by before she was willing to see me completely enfemme, and when she did we spent an entire week together at our timeshare that way. That happened only once, and may never again, but we had it. The whole cross-dressing thing has had its ups and downs depending on her moods (and she is VERY moody and mercurial) and it never interrupted our (normal) sex life which was always really great. It has run the gamut from regular guy/girl sex, to guy in panties sex to purely lesbian sex, to no sex for long periods of time. Sometimes she hates my girl side. Sometimes she wants her lesbian lover; sometimes she wants her guy in panties. It has been the proverbial "What a long strange trip it has been." at times, but wow!

[Amanda_Robinson]

My wife and I have a few times but only once was I all wigged out. :o

[melisss2u]

Im pretty sure mine will stay a fantacy

[PrettyToesLisa]

There is nothing like being treated like another girl in bed by your SO.

[Emily Anderson]

I think a lot of women like their hubby in lingerie but would not like their hubby to be a crossdresser.... Just a gut feeling, because in my experience, a lot of women like kinky and fun stuff. The issue comes when you get "too serious" about it.

[Karren H]

Hell.... being married forever.... I have't had sex period in decades!!! lol Let alone enfeme..... I should have been a nun!!! I look great in black and white!! :D

[azalea]

I have sex naked (wouldn't want to get any nasty juices on anything) but the few times I've been dressed immediately beforehand, it was nice to have my girlfriend undress me and take off MY bra...

[Angela-Russell]

Never done it fully dressed, but have worn knickers in bed(her suggestion).

[dove]

thats what it's all about for me - sex - totally sex - dress for sex - and dress for all the foreplay:)

[Dorisnycd]

I have had sex as a woman only for 3 yrs now . I am a cd and NOTHING is better for me than being made love to as a total woman. I always wear my corset, panties, bra, breasts, nails, makeup, hair, earrings, and stilettos during it and the men I am with seem to love it. Nothing makes me feel more femme and sexy!

[Amanda0208]

yes, i am dressed most of the time we make love. my wifes mood will determine who gets bend over and has their skirt :olifted

:)My wife and I are like this as well. I love the added dimension of her deciding to take or be taken.

[leslie ann]

doris you look stunning im sure they all like it :love:

[KarynDavis]

Have done it twice with my wife while en femme. I loved it - she barely tolerated it. But I'll keep trying.....

[VirginiaX23]

I had a g/f once who was really into role-playing and she dressed me up and had her way with me. My wife, on the other had, likes it when I make love to her as me. She doesn't have any lesbian fantasies and while she supports me wearing what I will, she reserves certain times for, as she puts it, her man.

[Eleanor]

many many times with my ex,she did`nt mind and made me dress as she said it was better.

[fempsyche]

I would absolutely die if I was given the oppurtunity to sleep with my wife while enfemme, not to mention if she played with me - say as two girls together do.

Anessa

[Dorisnycd]

I'm also confused by names though: What are the critical differences between a crossdresser. a transvestite, a drag queen. a *******, a t-girl. and a transsexual? I'm guessing that a crossdresser and a transvestite are the same, and can be in either 'boy-" or "girl mode”. However, drag queens, ********, t-girls, and transsexuals are always in "girl mode". Right, or is there more...

HMM interesting.

OK

transvestite....derives sexual pleasure from wearing the clothing of an opposit sex

crossdresser...enjoys wearing and being the opposite sex when dresed

drag queen...a person who wears the opposit sexes clothes and performs for the public. Rarely "always" in girl mode

transexual...A person who has gone through a surgical procedure to become a member of the opposite sex.

t-girl...this one is a bit open. BUT...usually anyone who identifies with being the opposit sex when dressed uses this phrase and it is accepted as such. NOT alwasy in girl mode necesarily.

*******...a phrase mostly used buy the porn industry describing...excuse my language here..."chicks with dicks"

hope that helps everyone.

[Marcie Sexton]

As a joke my wife set me up on a date with a friend of hers...He being Bi was all in for it and I was told to be prepared to be "all" woman...I was, I did, I loved it, just never been there since... :o

[Kelli Ann]

I have never made love to my wife while femmed up but when she wears lingerie, I wish I had them on to.
She jokingly asked me to put on her lingerie once and it took everything in me not to accept her offer. if the situation arises again I am definetely taking her up on it. Who knows, this may open the door to finally tell her that I crossdress.

[Sedona]

I have a few times. With an ex girlfriend who was cool with my CDing, and several times with my fiancee. Most recently, last fall, we were both a bit drunk, but it was WILD. Still, I love being a "guy" with her. But, every now and then. . .

[Toni_Lynn]

Most definitely -- it sooooo unbelievably fantastic. I never ever knew how wonderful and pleasurable it would be until Debbie and I shared our intimate times en femme. I think it because for once in my life, I am now totally free to give wings to all my fantasies.

Equally fun ... okay .. I'll say it ... is when we are both underdressed when being intimate -- my en femme and Debbie en homme.

Might not work at all for the rest of you, but it was number one on my hit parade of fantasies and lead to one fantastic night :D

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[zann]

If dressed in a night gown with out any other fem helps counts yes. Does this count?

[Laura_Stephens]

My wife and I haven't made love since our last child was born. Her reasoning was that if we weren't going to have any more, there was no need to be intimate. That was 10 years before she knew about my dressing.

To the point of the thread. Yes, I have made love whilst dressed. It was a professional lady who was very much into what I was looking for. If you are confused by this, think of the Governor of NY – very high end.

It might have been one of the best days of my life.

For the mods – if this post is out of bounds, I apologize and please feel free to delete my post. I am new here and want to fit in.

[susan2010]

My wife and I made love a few times while I was wearing panties and even nightgowns a couple of times, but those days are long gone now (along with sex of any kind with her.)
I'd love to start off totally dressed up and have sex with a women who was into that.
I can only hope.

[Toni_Lynn]

Susan and Laura

My heart goes out to you for I too found myself in similar circumstances over 10 years ago with my ex-wife. We didn't make love until 8 months after our wedding and then it was solely to conceive a child. My crossdressing was not even known to her at the time. I had a very difficult time of it and went through the motions. Later it was determined that I had a very low sperm count. At that point, we not only didn't make love ever again, she also moved out of our bedroom. Divorce was the result about 4 months later .. I asked for one.

I know the longing for an intimate touch of any kind. I understand. I'm sorry for you.

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[Nikki K]

I'm with you Kayla, for my SO this would completely out of the question and if Nikki was to have intimate relations then it would need to be with a man or a bi woman.

Discrete and accurate!
This is exactly how I feel; I really don't think I want to bring Nikki into the bedroom with my wife and I'm absolutely positive she doesn't want that either.
As Nikki my fantasy (longing) is to be taken by a man and to completely immerse myself into that experience. I have always wanted to experience making love from the femme point of view and this is often a source of my 'confusion' and anxiety. As a 'man' I have no interest in men; as Nikki, I have lots of interest.

[sfwarbonnet]

Hell.... being married forever.... I have't had sex period in decades!!! lol Let alone enfeme..... I should have been a nun!!! I look great in black and white!! :D

No sex is Habit forming? LOL

[abundantly_me]

I find my SO in sexy panties, rather hot at times, but with any type of love making, eventually they come off. (hehe)

can't say I would find him, attractive in that erotic sense when in total 'femme' mode

I think it has to do alot with the comfort zone you have with your partner

[pcpolitex]

Do it 2-3 times a week in femme. Lots of fun . Always wear 3-7 pettis at once. Wife only dislikes the breast forms. I think there is competition here. I always wear a full slip or camisole over my bra .

[Paige.]

I love it. I have found that find the sexual intensity of my lover is raised multifold and he seems to last longer when she knows there is no fear of being ridiculed. Ever since my first experience at college, I think the excitement of a man enfemme is contagious.

[PaulaMea]

Paige,
My wife agrees with you on this point. Especially the intensity issue.


I love it. I have found that find the sexual intensity of my lover is raised multifold and he seems to last longer when she knows there is no fear of being ridiculed. Ever since my first experience at college, I think the excitement of a man enfemme is contagious.

[Shelly67]

I agree totally . I think there is also the gorgeous tension that awaits . After dressing we normally sit, cuddle, watch a movie , perhaps share a drink or two. Then its almost like the brakes are off and the cars screaming out of control heading at great speed towards the fast lane of the sexual highway......:o

[marcy_Tgrl]

Thank you, being new it was very helpfull.

[Cristi]

Not to get too much into details, but yes.

The dress and slip go UP, the panties and pantyhose go DOWN (just far enough), the heels, forms and bra stay ON... then SHE takes off her jeans. :) Sometime she'll unbutton my blouse or dress just far enough so she can cup my bra and forms in her hands.

I love the feel of all the layers of slippery materials and the sight of all the lacy things I am wearing pushed up and out of the way around my waist. I also enjoy the feeling of long dangling earrings brushing against my cheek and neck as I move.

The only downside is that is IS a hot sweaty activity... and wearing pantyhose, dress, bra, forms, etc. doesn't help any! But it isn't anything any different than millions of other women have had to endure over the centuries.

By the end, I'm a mess. Bra straps are out of place, panties and slip are all bunched up and twisted around me... the pantyhose may even have a run or two. Laying on the bed afterward in the 'afterglow', my dress and various underthings tangled around me, is a feeling I'll always enjoy.

[Rikkicn]

My first wife thought the idea was perverted so I got a new wife who thrives on perversions and encourages full exploration of all our fetishes and fantasies. There are many! I'm 58 and worried that I'll run out of steam before tasting each and every one of them.
We have foundation wear night, French maid night, prissy sissy night, harness night and on and on. It's all just so much fun and playful. We've even started making movies! LOL. Fun!!
We also have many crossdressing friends and couples that make exploring and experiencing thecrossdressing fetish a central part of their sexual and intimate lives.
Our friend Rose will only have sex with men that are feminine and crossdressed. How about that! They may be few and far between but they are out there.

[Bev06 GG]

Don't knock making love when you're both wearing stockings and suspenders until you've tried it... :D

No but just be careful you dont get caught up in one anothers stays otherwise it could be abit more tricky than youde bargained for and a tad painful if the elastic pings back and catches you on your thighs.
Bev

[Dixie]

My wife and I used to do it alot while I was dressed, she would even play "the man" at times. Now we are seperated and divorcing so I think those good times are done forever:doh::sad:

[Sarah_GG]

Docrobbysherry said:

"I have read a number of posts regarding CDs, either making love dressed, or fantasizing about doing that. It just occurred to me that that thot has never entered my mind!
I find Sherry so hot, I don't want to share her with anyone! Maybe that's just a stage I'm going thru. So, I'm asking all of u if u do, or have, felt that way about your female creation. Not wanting her to make love to anyone but u."

Sorry, I may have misread this, but I think docrobbysherry is talking about making love to his own female creation and not wanting to share that with anyone other than himself? Or have I got that wrong? Confused?

[allisonrn06]

Since my wife came to accept my cd'ing,I believe we've made love with me dressed just about every time - there may have been one time that I wasn't dressed in the past year !!

[Jennifer Soames]

I have had the pleasure and love it when lingerie rubs together and being teased about being cute in panties. Overall its the intimate talk and teasing that amkes making love as a girl soooooooo hot.

[Cathytg]

Yes! And it is fabulous. My wife enjoys it, too. Sex while dressed is not something we do often but it is great when it happens. She understands that I get aroused to higher levels when dressed and she is a sensual lady who enjoys the intensity.

I am a very fortunate CD.

[Carol A]

Not so much now but in our early years of marriage my wife would get so worked up and hot during our evening out in public she couldn't wait to get me home and lets just say do things her way. Now in our older years it' a turn on for me to make Lesbian
love to her while dressed.:love:

[MsJanessa]

What do you think I do??

[kathtx]

making love en femme... the only way to fly ;-)

I'm en femme inside no matter how I'm dressed on the outside, and my wife (GG lesbian) sees me as Kath regardless of clothing. But hey, silk nightgowns and stockings and the works are soooo sensual to see, wear, and be touched through, so most of the time it's silk and perfume and jewelry for both of us while making love. We're both "butch in the streets, femme in the sheets," I guess ;-)

Kath

[DonnaT]

Most of the time, and if I don't have something fem on, like one of my nighties, my wife will ask me to do so.

[Jaclyn NM]

My wife and I have made love twice while I was wearing thigh high stockings, and it was very sensual, at least for me, and my wife didn't complain or object. Of course I had to take my stiletto heels off so no one got hurt.

[Heather_Marie]

My wife and I make love often while dressed. She really does not mind and it does turn her on, as for me I would do it all the time or at least most of the time it feels so great. The silky felling of all of the lingerie and other items like panties and bras feel great and give me a extra level of feeling feminine to love making. Also it's a very good fantasy. :)

[`Kayla`]

I envy all the "yeses" in here...