I guess it's about time

[Bobbie Jo]

Hi Girls,
My name is Bobbie Jo and i'm probably not very well known, but i've been a member for a couple of years now. I get on just about every day and I just love all you girls. You've helped me through some trying times. Now that i'm done with my second divorse and living by myself, I thought i'd be dressing all the time. I would really like to know how many of you girls are in the same boat that I am in, and would like to know how often you do dress. I found myself not having the desire as much as I thought I would. I might dress a couple of times a month. I do keep my legs shaved because I just love the feeling of freshly shaved legs, and i'm always got a bid on a cute outfit or a pair of heels on ebay. Even though i've always been in the closet all of my life I really have a feeling to get out and live a little. I'm 55 now and I think it's about time.

[Angie G]

It is about time so you go girl live it up hun :hugs:
Angie

[O2B Barbara]

When I was between marriages I dressed as often as possible. Now that I have a wife that understands and supports, I dress quite frequently and am never in drab under the drab!

[DonnaKG]

Hi Bobbie Jo Prior to losing my wife to cancer we were married for thirty two years. No I didn't tell her before we were married and no she wasn't real happy about the CD when she found out. In those days all I had to see was a woman in a dress and I was on my way home to change. I had no other hobbies and spent too many nights sitting on the couch with my wife watching TV and pouting because I couldn't dress. After the staggering pain of my wifes passing began to lesson I moved to the back country of NC where I could dress 24/7 if I wanted to. Now that I can dress it's not as important to me. Some days I wear jeans and some days I wear skirts. Now it's just a case of what's more prctical for the task at hand. All the NEED and the buzz is gone. Go figure. Donna

[Jilmac]

Hi Bobbie, I became single in August 2007 when My wife of 26 years passed away from cancer. I have been dressing since age 15, (Wore first panties and dress at 7), and now can dress any time I want. The desire is still with me and I take advantage of dressing as often as I can. I still have one son living at home with me so I have to be discreet but I try to dress every day. Even if it's undredressing with just panties and bra, I enjoy it too much to ever lose the desire or urge.

I have a new SO who knows all about my dressing and has not discouraged me in any way, but she is not ready to see me dressed, and I won't force the issue. I intend to wait until she is ready to handle the femme side of me before coming out to her. If she is never ready, that's ok too, as long as she doesn't try to change me. If it ever comes to the decision of keeping my relationship with her, or continuing my dressing, I would have to tell her goodbye. Now that I'm single again (and a senior citizen to boot) I intend to dress whenever I can, and fully enjoy being a girl no matter how old I am.

Luv and:hugs: Jill

[bimini1]

..beacuse of a job situation I have had to be apart from my supportive wife for over a year now. Even though she is supportive its not like I was gonna be walking around the house most of the time en femme. On my own I thought that is what it would be but guess what. Its not. In fact the desire to do it has started to balance out.

Its like when I did not have the chance to do it, I wanted to do it more. Now that I have the chance to do it any time I want, I don't want to do it as much. Which shocked me but led me into a learning process about just how much a part of me it really is. We are moving back in together this summer so it'll be interesting to see if my wants/desires change any.
But to be honest when we parted she was the one who usually initiated the dressing.