Woo Hoo

[Mya Summers]

OMG my wife and I were at Wal-Mart on Saturday and she seen a dress that she really liked, but didn't get it. Well we went back on Sunday b/c we gorgot to get something while we were there and I told her that if she wanted the dress she could get it, she looked at me and said why so you can wear to, and she had this smile on her face,:confused2: and I said no, well we got it and I looked at her and said that I needed new nylons and w/out hesitation we went to the nylon section and wouldn't you know it there was a woman standing there looking at purses dang the luck, but my wife picked some up that were my size and looked at me and said should I 'meaning her' go w/black or tan, I told her tan, she done some quick thinking on that one. Well we checked out and loaded up the van and pulled out. I decided ok since she is in a good mood I'm going to bring up this CD thing one more time and I looked at her and said you know sometimes I don't get you about me wanting to CD sometimes you are against it and sometimes you aren't. Her answer to this was I 'meaning her again' do things that you don't like and you 'meaning me' do things that I 'meaning her' don't like but I still love you no matter what. She also said that she doesn't want our kids to see me like that. I was going to say something to her about that but just kept my mouth shut while I was still ahead..lol. I also said something to her about ordering myself a pair of heels on-line on the way home and she said ok. Wow I'm still in sort of a state of shock over the whole thing. I just hope that she is starting to be a little more understanding and supportive of me. But I'm gonna take it w/baby steps for a while and see how things go, but like I said b4 somewhere in a thread on here she ha known about this for 7 years now.
Sorry so long girls but I just had to tell you this..:happy:

[Joy Carter]

Just go at her pace for a while. And don't go weired on her, and it just might work out for ya. :D

[Mya Summers]

thats what I plan on doing..lol don't want to spoil it

[carolinewalker_2000]

Great news Mya; take it gently and who knows where you might end up!

[Suzie S.]

Mya, slow and easy, like everyone here says! :happy: I'm happy things are looking up for you! Perhaps when you order those heels online you could ask her if there's anything she'd like (in her size) when you place an order. I bet she would like that. :happy: Best wishes!

[carolyn todd]

Well done mya, small steps, take it slow and wait for the next time
which i am sure you want to happen 2 second ago.
best of luck

carolyn xx

[Mya Summers]

Mya, slow and easy, like everyone here says! :happy: I'm happy things are looking up for you! Perhaps when you order those heels online you could ask her if there's anything she'd like (in her size) when you place an order. I bet she would like that. :happy: Best wishes!

trust me I am definitely taking itsy bitsy baby steps, for I don't want to hit a brick wall b/c of my stupidity and loose what I have accomplished thus far.
I didn't have to ask her what she wanted I all ready new what she wanted.:heehee: She wanted 3 inch sling back open toed pumps, b/c we were looking at shoes on e-bay together and I made sure to take in every little detail that she mentioned. After she went to bed I done some searching and found hers and ordered them, but it took me forever to find just what I wanted in my size but I finally found them. I can't wait to see the look on her face when they get here..lol And I definitely can't wait for mine to get here.
Thank you for the good words..muah x's and o's to all:happy:

[Angie G]

That's good news lets hope she keeps progressing in that. :hugs:
Angie

[Mya Summers]

yeah lets hope so:praying: