rickie121x
03-01-2008, 02:25 PM
For a reason, which is not relevant here, I spent recently spent some time with a lady who I have known for a couple of years. I have seen her regularly at a weekly get-together where I am in drab, and maybe once a month at parties where I "dressed".
She confided to me, preceded by a cautionary "I hope that this will not upset you.", and told me that when I am the normal male "Richard" I am pretty dull and not at all exciting. And that, when dressed, I am an "attention getter" with everyone in the room knowing who I am and "looking" at me. Then she said that I am "sexy" when I am dressed, and energetic, and "magnetic" for women!
Well, it was very nice to hear! Very nice! But of course I was wondering what it is that I was doing wrong, indifferently, or in error, in my normal life? I would so love to be attractive there. But I simply don't know what it is that allows me to be drab in in the background.... But that is the way it has been for all of my life - these 73 years - and is not likely to change.
But, hehe... I do love the attention that I get when I am dressed - and who can turn down a good thing?
Rickie :doll:
She confided to me, preceded by a cautionary "I hope that this will not upset you.", and told me that when I am the normal male "Richard" I am pretty dull and not at all exciting. And that, when dressed, I am an "attention getter" with everyone in the room knowing who I am and "looking" at me. Then she said that I am "sexy" when I am dressed, and energetic, and "magnetic" for women!
Well, it was very nice to hear! Very nice! But of course I was wondering what it is that I was doing wrong, indifferently, or in error, in my normal life? I would so love to be attractive there. But I simply don't know what it is that allows me to be drab in in the background.... But that is the way it has been for all of my life - these 73 years - and is not likely to change.
But, hehe... I do love the attention that I get when I am dressed - and who can turn down a good thing?
Rickie :doll: