I went out again today. I am so excited.

[SaraD]

I am so happy today. I went out fully dressed yesterday and today. I went shopping for the first time fully dressed and went to K-Mart, Fashion Bug and Wal-Mart. I had so much fun, and all of the SO were wonderful. Especially in K-Mart. I found a pair of jeans I just had to have and asked to try them on. She was wonderful, cause I asked witch dressing room she proffered my to go in. She said. "What ever makes you feel comfortable Hun?" She's my new hero of the day. This outing also consisted of my first time using the ladies room. Unfortunately I had drank to much soda and had to use the facilities in K-Mart and the excitement did not help the situation either.

All of the posts I have been quietly reading here over the last months has help me find my true self as a straight cross dresser. I just wish I could find understanding women to be with. Thank you to all who have posted and made me understand my feelings and desires.

Kisses


SaraD

[jenniferwhite]

You Go Girl !!!! Have fun an enjoy the ride.

[Melissa-M]

Good for you and Ill be joining you soon if all go,s well. Each day I come out a little more to people at work and family:battingeyelashes:

[DeeAnn]

Awesome! I wish I had your courage. I'll keep working toward it. I'm so happy that you had a great day.

[Amy Hepker]

I am sure with time you will find someone to share your life with. Just be nice and considerate of the Ladies you are around and sooner or later one may let you know she is interested. But be careful, you don't want to force yourself on any other Ladies that are not interested, or young girls, that could be real trouble.

[sarah_burst]

finding an understanding woman to share your self completely with is no easy task....my ex was just that way...she only "dealt" with me dressing up so she could have and excuse to buy more clothes for herself...

but after all but giving up on finding someone the most perfect woman just fell in my lap.....and has been more than supportive she actually suggests that we go shopping for pretty things....so just keep your head up and when the time is right good things will happen :)

[Mary Lee]

You go girl.

[SaraD]

Good for you and Ill be joining you soon if all go,s well. Each day I come out a little more to people at work and family:battingeyelashes:

I had so many fears. Just as you must. What will people think? What if someone recognizes me?

A few tips of a few things I have learned since I started this adventure.
Think like a lady. 99.9999% of women do not travel alone at night.
park under a light at night. If you must use the restroom get in, get out.
Shopping is the greatest. Why you ask? Because no women buy clothes without trying them on first. Oh yah, 80% of those you run into don't care, the rest, just walk by with your head high, smile and say hello. This happened to me. Some man was staring at me then I smilled, walked by with no problems. No I go out with confidence and respect for myself.
I hope this helps you find the courage you are seaking.

SaraD

[JoAnnDallas]

It's a little funny, the first time I went out fully dressed in the daylight was just for a walk. I was scared to death that someone would see that I was not a real GG. later when I went to HEF2006, I was not nervious at all and it was the first time meeting others like ourselves.
Once I got over being scaried, I discovered how wonderful it felt going out, enteracting with others, and having others treat me with respect and like another GG.

[jennCD]

Very cool, Sara!

:)
jenn

[Farrah]

Sounds like you had a great time girl!!

[LA CINDY LOVE]

Sara I have to say that is so good to hear that you had a great time out and also shopping, I see that you did your home work by reading a lot of post here and getting your self ready to go out and it paid off.

I have read many times where a CD goes out for the first time and has a very bad time, I feel they had a bad time because they did not do any home work to get them self ready.

Sara you have to build on this and keep doing your home work, one day you may not have a great day out and you need to know how to deal with a bad day out.

And just to let you know, I am a straight CD and they are lots of woman out here who love a CD.


LA CINDY LOVE

[shirley1]

hi sara

well i am just being pushed further and further towards this experience every time i real posts from girls saying how little problems they encounter - it must be the ultimate experience for most of us - having recently been out of a nite time in public and gettin away with it it certainly makes you want to push towards the shoppin en femme experience - yeh good on ya girl go for it !

[paulaN]

Way to go girl!!! there is no turning back now.
Every time I read a post like yours I sigh and say to myself, I have got to go on another GNO. (girls night out).

[vikki2020]

Fantastic, Sara!! The key word here is FUN.I think when your out, and truly enjoying the day,others you meet will follow your lead, and be more receptive to you.Certain people make others smile, and usually they are the ones who are enjoying life.

[marny]

:hugs: My first experience to go a buy a bra was at Zellers. What is it that as males we want to go to these big chains for our first buying. I suppose we feel anonymous.

But I must say the lady was very nice. I have gone back and I'm pretty sure she knew it was for me.

[vivianann]

Good for you Sara, it is a wonderful time when everybody treats you with respect and decency, I spent the whole weekend enfemme, went to k mart, convenience stores, restaurants, gift shops, and the mall, and borders then barnes and noble book stores. met some friends at the barnes and noble, we had a very nice visit there, I have been out in public many times now, however it is still exciting, and it gets easier the more you go out. Just keep up going out and act and dress accordingly and you will have a good time and everybody you encounter will treat you with respect. I hope you can find an accepting GG, the more you go out the greater your chance of meeting a woman that will take a liking to you as a cder, just make sure you are attracted to her. I am so happy for you.

[Sandi jo]

Just get out there be honest and someone will find you

[bgirl]

You make me smile!
I think of times I go out and people treat me wonderfull. It makes it a worth while when someone shows you acceptance and respect. I have a hero SA I like to visit sometimes. In femme or in drab. She is supportive and my constructive critic. (She reminds me that I am still a work in progress.)

Target has unisex bathrooms buy the way! I have had that bathroom panic and found out how long I could really hold it!

Many more good times to come!! Have fun!!