I need hair tips.desperately!

[shellytv]

I am an active tv who practises her craft daily..after work of course.
But...I hate wearing wigs all the time..they're all so...flowing?u know?
I have naturally very long hair,which I keep up in a ponytail at work..
and then release it later at home or out and about.The PROBLEM is...
I would LOVE to be able to swirl my long hair around into all the varied
convolutions that gg's do.They put their hair up SOOO many ways.with and
without clips etc...I would love to learn all the different ways hair can be
piled up,swirled up,cascaded..da da da da da.Are there vids for this?
I think mothers show their daughters this as rites of passage..but oddly enough..my mother spent time showing my sister these skills.Alas....
I would really appreciate some help in this respect.
I sat behind a woman in a restaurant recently who was coiffed very
naturaly ,and I tried to follow all the permutations she must have made
to arrange her hair that way.I wanted to ask her how she did it...and can you please show me too ma'am?...forget it.
HELP!!

[Nicole Erin]

First figure out what kind of texture your hair is and work from there.
Look online or fashion magazines and see what women with your same hair texture are doing with it. If you can find even one style you like it is a start cause you can figure out others later but at least you will have a style to wear en femme.

Maybe getting your hair cut a little shorter would render more and easier possibilities for styles. Cause if your hair is too long, it might be hard to work with.

[vikki2020]

Maybe just go to a stylist,and have them cut your hair in a way that looks femme, but can be put in a ponytail when you want to hide it.