Nadia-Maria
04-06-2008, 12:10 PM
I came out to my SO less than 6 months ago, and she doesn't want to see me dressed.
My SO was abroad for the week, so I dressed everyday, and leaved my girl accessories at hand anywhere in the flat. Last thursday I had to undress quickly and go out for half an hour, and when I came back I was most surprised because SO's daughter (aged 25) was in !! She never comes home when her mother is traveling, and if she wants to see me, she calls me for an appointment before.
Nevertheless the truth was she was in, whereas all my woman things were dispersed throughout the flat. I knew I had left for instance, my wigs and high heels in her own room , and all my make-up obvious in the bathroom.
I felt a little nervous, and expected at any moment she told me something most disagreeable about what she had found about me !
So I was somewhat critic about her, sort of wanting to force her to tell first about the subject.
However she told nothing about the subject, and I believed she wanted to keep for herself what she had found.... I estimated the odds were lower than 5% that she had noticed nothing strange , so I decided to come out to her, and explain her why I preferred to come out. She was extremely surprised of what I taught her and told me she had noticed nothing in the flat !! Almost unbelievable ...
In fact I had already considered to come out to her, but had decided to do it in a distant future, since the present moment was not at all the best one to do that.
She was wholly astounded by what she learned, knew nothing at all about heterosexual crossdressing and would not especially mind I were gay or bi, but tended to think it was much more serious (sort of being mad) than being gay or bi ... !!
Finally, after a long and enlightning discussion, she asked me her to wear my blond wig (she is a brunette and she never wore a wig before) and we discussed woman clothes for a while ...
I don't know what she may think of all that, after the first shock will be away. Maybe it will be turning out rather good.
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After my SO came back, I told her all about the event and she was kind of satisfied that her daughter now know about it.
Love
Nadia
My SO was abroad for the week, so I dressed everyday, and leaved my girl accessories at hand anywhere in the flat. Last thursday I had to undress quickly and go out for half an hour, and when I came back I was most surprised because SO's daughter (aged 25) was in !! She never comes home when her mother is traveling, and if she wants to see me, she calls me for an appointment before.
Nevertheless the truth was she was in, whereas all my woman things were dispersed throughout the flat. I knew I had left for instance, my wigs and high heels in her own room , and all my make-up obvious in the bathroom.
I felt a little nervous, and expected at any moment she told me something most disagreeable about what she had found about me !
So I was somewhat critic about her, sort of wanting to force her to tell first about the subject.
However she told nothing about the subject, and I believed she wanted to keep for herself what she had found.... I estimated the odds were lower than 5% that she had noticed nothing strange , so I decided to come out to her, and explain her why I preferred to come out. She was extremely surprised of what I taught her and told me she had noticed nothing in the flat !! Almost unbelievable ...
In fact I had already considered to come out to her, but had decided to do it in a distant future, since the present moment was not at all the best one to do that.
She was wholly astounded by what she learned, knew nothing at all about heterosexual crossdressing and would not especially mind I were gay or bi, but tended to think it was much more serious (sort of being mad) than being gay or bi ... !!
Finally, after a long and enlightning discussion, she asked me her to wear my blond wig (she is a brunette and she never wore a wig before) and we discussed woman clothes for a while ...
I don't know what she may think of all that, after the first shock will be away. Maybe it will be turning out rather good.
----
After my SO came back, I told her all about the event and she was kind of satisfied that her daughter now know about it.
Love
Nadia