Taking Turns Being the Girl Continued

[windycissy]

It's been quite a while since my last "date" with a CD'er who agreed to take turns being the girl with me...we've been engaged in quite the Internet affair, incuding a spat after he confessed that he wasn't really looking forward to being the guy, but we've made up and tonight we're having our next "date" which will be a real switcheroo: He's showing up as a guy (I've never seen him in drab, he makes an attractive woman so no doubt he'll be easy on the eyes) and I'm fixing dinner for him, then (after many Cosmos and much wine) he'll transform himself into a chick and we'll spend the rest of the evening as two lipstick lesbians! It will be fascinating to watch another crossdresser go through the feminizing routine (he's packing a suitcase with dress, makeup etc) and I told him I'll be like the understanding SO who digs it when her guy dresses up as a chick. He's not off the hook, though: our next "date" will be out to dinner with me in a dress. Stay tuned!

[Julie York]

If toilet seats could talk...





Up down up down wtf!


:D

[Amy Hepker]

Sorry not for me. I only want to be dated by Females. I want to go shopping with CD friends.

[DemonicDaughter]

Aw! That is wonderful! Must be quite exciting! Keep us posted on everything and DETAILS! DETAILS! DETAILS! I want to know how you feel while watching that transformation! :D

[vikki2020]

Windy, you sound very excited! Have fun:cheer:

[windycissy]

We had a great time, he showed up a little late but I had Cosmos and appetizers waiting for him, it felt so natural to be with him as the guy...I wore a clingy pink sweater and a sassy pleated skirt, and I was really into pleasing him if you know what I mean. Then he changed into a lovely woman and we had a long, chatty dinner as girls, I really put on a show for him/her with a five course meal, we have so much in common!

[DemonicDaughter]

That is sssssssssssooooooooooo awesome! I'm so happy for you hun. Its difficult finding that connection with someone and I'm happy you two have. :)

[Princess29]

That's really cool, congratulations

[carolinewalker_2000]

Sounds exciting!

[Angie G]

Don't you let him off the hook Windy a deal is a deal hun enjoy :hugs:
Angie

[DonnaT]

take turns being the girl

Why? Why the need, if it is a need, for one of you to be the guy and the other the girl?

Why can't you both be who you want to be all the time?

[O2B Barbara]

Have fun. sounds like a treat for you both. Let us know all the juicy details!

[windycissy]

Why? Why the need, if it is a need, for one of you to be the guy and the other the girl?

Why can't you both be who you want to be all the time?

That's a very good question. The answer is in part superficial: when we go out, it's much easier for the one dressed as a girl to pass when she's with a guy, who can do all the talking at restaurants, etc. Whenever two or more crossdressers go out, the rule of the lowest common denominator applies:...

The other part of the answer is deep: I want to know what it's like to experience life as a woman, and interacting with a man is a big part of that. It's scary and dangerous to interact with a man who doesn't know that you're not what you seem to be...another crossdresser who understands exactly what I'm going through makes a wonderful escort.

The final part of the answer is that we enjoy each others' company, whether one or both of us is dressed as a chick. We would probably even enjoy going to a hockey game as guys! But being a girl is much more fun....

[O2B Barbara]

Isn't the ultimate feeling of passing to dress as a woman and to be totally treated as a woman? I can understand the desire to go out and have a man treat me as if I were someone he were interested in, even to the piont of the goodnight kiss. I would think that most crossdressers have had this thought a time or two.

[bEEb]

Role play is fun. Be it choreographed or spontaneous. I kinda enjoy the girl with gurl scenario.

[DonnaT]

That's cool, Windy, and I hope y'all can continue to enjoy taking turns.

I'd be concerned of some resentment creeping in, where one of us started resenting having to play the man's part, as it could drive a wedge in the relationship.

Hopefully, y'all do talk about such things, should they occur.

[windycissy]

That's cool, Windy, and I hope y'all can continue to enjoy taking turns.

I'd be concerned of some resentment creeping in, where one of us started resenting having to play the man's part, as it could drive a wedge in the relationship.

Hopefully, y'all do talk about such things, should they occur.

We talk about that all the time! Both of us like to be the girl of course, which is why the "lipstick lesbian" scenario is the default choice...but I think he's getting a little more intrigued about being my boyfriend, I am much more affectionate and I work hard to dream up little things to pamper him, what guy doesn't dig that?