i think

[slamddoger]

that if built your mail self up it carr over to the femil side

[Julie York]

Sorry, I don't understand the question.

[deja true]

I think slamddoger is talking about confidence, girls!

And I agree. We've talked about this before.

The more confient you are as a person, the more confident you will be in either femme or male mode.

Stop being embarrassed (I should talk!), self depracating and timid...

Boy or girl!

[docrobbysherry]

I think this site has built up my confidence to be a better CD. I don't see as it carries over to my "regular" male drab life.

In that drab life, I'm reasonably successful. Does that carry over into my CD life?

Let me put it this way. Do think David Beckham's soccer confidence would help HIM, if he decided to play in the Wimbledon tennis championships?