Farewell to all you great gals

[tricot gal]

This will be my last posting as I must reluctantly leave this site due to a major confrontation with my wife this morning. Unfortunately she found my wig, bras, dress and shoes and as to be expected she exploded. She knew that I wore lingerie but was unaware that my crossdressing had evolved to this extent. I don't know how many of you have experienced something similar but this kind of tension and stress is not only unhealthy but potentially divorce threatening. Hence, I am compelled to reverse the direction of my cd life and hope that something positive can emerge from this relationship crisis. Perhaps some kind of compromise can be worked out but that is unclear at this point.

I want to express my thanks to all of the moderators and the members of this excellent site. My experience here has been very rewarding and I have learned more about myself as a crossdresser than I had known all of the 60 some years of my entire life. It has enlightened me about my previous mistakes which could have been avoided. If I knew then what I know now perhaps I would not be compelled to depart from this group.

I certainly wish to extend to all of your lovely girls my best wishes and I hope that you find happiness and peace in your lives. I want you to know that I will dearly miss my daily visits here. I love you all. Goodbye and God bless you.

[Katie Ashe]

Hope all works out for you, best wishes. :) Hurry Back if you can.

Hugs, Katie

[Tristen Cox]

I'm so sorry, may this work out for you in some way and I do hope you can return. Take care of what you must, we'll be here when you need us. *big hugs*

So long :(

[DonnaT]

I've a feeling things can be worked out with your wife, since she knew of your wearing lingerie. If you've taken anything from this site, I hope it is the knowledge that honesty is very important to our SOs.

We'll be here when you're ready to come back. Take care.

[Priscilla1018]

Do what you have to do to resolve this,maybe things will work out once your wife has time to think about this,I hope so.Big Hugs and we'll leave a light on for you when you get back home.

Love and Hugs,
Priscilla

[Julie]

The girls have already said it all but I'd like to add my good wishes and hope that there'll be some quick resolution that will enable you to return here as soon as possible. Good Luck.

JJ

[AbbyLee]

I too think it has all been said, and Donna T made the very good point that there is a glimmer of hope because of knowledge of the lingere. I too hope you will be able to soon return to the family!

A great big hug

[Selina]

Sorry to hear about your troubles. I hope you don't have to completely lose contact with us all.

Best of luck, and a big girly hug from me.

Selina.

[Anita]

I echo the sentiments of the previous postings and hope things resolve themselves to your mutual satisfaction
Go forth with hope in your heart and hope you will soon return
love Anita xx

[Julie York]

Can I have your shoes then?



Seriously...good luck. And we'll see you in.....oooooh...a week then?

[ChristineRenee]

I sincerely hope that the two of you can work this out together and that we haven't seen the last of you. Best of luck...and remember that you will always have a home here to come back to.

Love,
Chrissie:)

[Dragster]

I don't know if you're still watching Tricot Gal, but you have my deepest sympathy. May you find a way out of the situation with your wife that saves your mariage and leaves you some room for your "hobby". I'm a similar age, and in a similar situation to where you were yesterday (but I don't have a big stash for her to find). You obviously love your wife dearly, or you'd be making a different decision on whether your CDing or your wife comes first, but it's a very different matter to convince her of that, and of the innocence of what you were doing. I'm part way to trying to get her to accept the feminine part of me through Helen Boyd's book "My Husband Betty", but first indications are that I'm fighting a losing battle.

See you in the dog-house soon, maybe! or certainly the closet. Don't ever give up, but you'll need to let things cool now, and then progress will be very very slow, if at all! Hope to see you back here sometime in the future.

Good luck,
Tony

[Wendy me]

huge wendy hugs to you sister ....when you can come back and see us.............
good luck sister...........

[linda glam]

This will be my last posting as I must reluctantly leave this site due to a major confrontation with my wife this morning. Unfortunately she found my wig, bras, dress and shoes and as to be expected she exploded. She knew that I wore lingerie but was unaware that my crossdressing had evolved to this extent. I don't know how many of you have experienced something similar but this kind of tension and stress is not only unhealthy but potentially divorce threatening. Hence, I am compelled to reverse the direction of my cd life and hope that something positive can emerge from this relationship crisis. Perhaps some kind of compromise can be worked out but that is unclear at this point.

I want to express my thanks to all of the moderators and the members of this excellent site. My experience here has been very rewarding and I have learned more about myself as a crossdresser than I had known all of the 60 some years of my entire life. It has enlightened me about my previous mistakes which could have been avoided. If I knew then what I know now perhaps I would not be compelled to depart from this group.

I certainly wish to extend to all of your lovely girls my best wishes and I hope that you find happiness and peace in your lives. I want you to know that I will dearly miss my daily visits here. I love you all. Goodbye and God bless you.i hope things work out .I think you will find no matter what you do these feelings tocrossdress will return .I hope you can come back at some time god bless you

[Fallen Angel]

honey hope it all works out il surely miss you here but mending a broken fence is importaint always luv and xx your friend for ever

[cdgirl]

honey hope it all works out il surely miss you here but mending a broken fence is importaint always luv and xx your friend for ever i hope everything works out for you and your wife and that you come to some of agreement,so you can continue to let your inner dreams comes true.love with hugs cdgirl.

[Kath]

She knew that I wore lingerie but was unaware that my crossdressing had evolved to this extent. I don't know how many of you have experienced something similar but this kind of tension and stress is not only unhealthy but potentially divorce threatening.

I am exactly the same boat but the stash hasn't been found. When she discovered my "hobby" I wanted to discuss it in more detail but she didn't seem to want to go there. She accepted the fact that I like lingerie as a facet of my being but I'm sure she doesn't know how far I go in my dressing. I live in mortal fear of being all the way in your boat.

Hope all works out for you. Also hope you get a chance to peek at all the responses from your gurl friends.

Hugs, Kath

[hidden]

Boy can I relate to your plight!!!! I've been going through the same thing since Feb. Good luck!

:(

[SilkenPrincess]

I'm so sorry! I really hope your departure isn't truly permanent. Been there before you, girl. I know what you're feeling. I'll be thinking of you.
Love,
SilkenPrincess

[Sharon]

Best wishes for you Tricot! :)

[PaulaJeanette]

Tricot,

With so many of us getting caught, I'm beginning to wonder if there is a curse or some sort of increased awareness on the part of our spouses. Or, maybe, we're getting careless.

Seriously though, we who are in the same situation feel your pain and and understand your dire concerns. Just know that we send our best wishes and thoughts during this time of crisis.

Be patient, be rational, and please take small, slow steps in whatever YOU decide to do. Remember, this too shall pass.

Best regards,

Paula J

[sarah]

What more can be said ....except we will be thinking of you and waiting your return..Good luck ,xoxo

[Wenda]

Can I have your shoes then?



Seriously...good luck. And we'll see you in.....oooooh...a week then?
Julie, shame on y.... good point...shoes..??!!... ok.. never mind....I have lots of shoes... take care Tricot... good luck, give her some time and space, hope she is ok with us. If you or your SO ever need/want to chat, call. luv, wenda.

[racquel]

Although I have never met you on line (due to an extended absence due to family problems), I wish you God's grace in the discussions you will be having with your s/o.

[azure]

i wish you happiness and peace between you, and the ability to negotiate sensibly. Good luck hun

[KarenXDR]

Whatever you do, reserve your remorse to your deceiving her - don't subscribe to crossdressing being wrong. Remind your wife there are MILLIONS of us in the USA alone.

You are not a freak - she may think so, and you are only going to make things worse if you do not stand your ground - about it being either evil or sinful.

My heart goes out to you..

Karen

[Holly]

Tricot, I can only add my support to that of all the other girls here. please try and keep in touch, for we all care about you AND your wife. My hopes and prayers are with you!

[Ophelia D'Void]

So sorry to see you go. My heart goes out to you, and I can only hope that with time things will be resolved between you and your wife. I can only repeat one some of our other members have said... marriage first, crossdressing second. I can only hope that this won't be the last we'll see of you. Love and Kisses... :(

[GypsyKaren]

I sure hope things work out between you and your wife, but speaking from experience you can't change who you are. I hope for the besr though; do what you gotta do to save your marriage. Maybe she'll calm down after awhile. Best of luck to you. GypsyKaren

[eileen1969]

I wish you well and God knows exactly what you are going through! he see's and knows all! There is so much I could say to you on this! Time is our true essance and in time even you will be free! I really feel empathy for you girl! I experienced what you are going through....Painful, and I pray for you sister! take care of you!...much love Eileenxoxo :(