The calming effect of panties…

[Elysia]

Here’s an interest phenomena. Perhaps you have experienced something similar.

I was at home one afternoon, dressed in drab male clothes, except underneath I was wearing panties. An incident occurred which angered me and required, I felt, that I speak with a troublesome neighbor in a strongly confrontational way; I had no intension of being as polite as I try to be in this forum of friends. To do this I had to change into male underwear. Why?

We of all people, appreciate the powerful effect that clothes can have on a person’s mood. Still, I was struck by this need of mine to change before a fight. I believe that the inverse of this effect is equally powerful. In panties I’m calmer and less likely to be strongly confrontational.

Has anyone else experienced something like this?

[Marianne]

I'm certainly less aggressive when 'en femme'.

As for fights, I don't fight.

Although I *have* defused the occasional 'situation' by saying "Don't piss me off, if I have to give you an ass-whupping while I'm wearing a mini-skirt and heels, you'll never live it down!". :D

[Elysia]

Of course, I meant calming (thanks Sigrid) not claming and now even though I’ve changed the post title I can’t change the thread title. Oh, I hate that… I’m certainly not perfect but I do like to pretend. I’m actually a terrible speller. I don’t look much like a girl either. I could spiral down here... but I won’t let the claming effect of this blunder get me down. Think I'll put some panties on and put my ego aside.

Thanks for your reply Marianne. I can't imagine why anyone would pick a fight with such a pretty girl... come to think of it, maybe that’s one of the reasons I dress. Tried of violence, I think it's less likely if I’m a girl.

[Tristen Cox]

Title changed:)

[Tiffy]

I will not fight if I have panties on. But there have been times that I have went home and changed or simply got out of sight and took my panties off just so I could fight.

April

[Milla]

Hehe
Funny thing I read your post about 3 hours ago, got on my bike and toured around town for a bit

Finally I went to a drug store a bought a sports bra, undi top and panties. It was also my first major purchase. Scared kinda, but I kept telling my self, technically I am shopping for a girl, my other half. Plus I`ve been oppressing this for sooo freeking long time to live. I’m not into the kinky Lingerie. Got some regular cotton undies very comfy and yes very calming ;)

[Victoria Pink]

For me it is definitely calming. At the same time I feel "energized" in that I seem to get more things done and in general feel happier.

Victoria

[susan ondine]

I'm certainly less aggressive when 'en femme'.

As for fights, I don't fight.

Although I *have* defused the occasional 'situation' by saying "Don't piss me off, if I have to give you an ass-whupping while I'm wearing a mini-skirt and heels, you'll never live it down!". :D

Girls you may feel less aggressive when dressed as a female but there's nothing lI like better than challenging another girl to fight female as in a catfight. It's good if you can see your breasts heaving and seeing hers too as you first argue and then slap and hairpull. I don't want to actually hurt anyone but its one more step in being really female, if you can fight that way too. For that reason I like to meet another girl for lunch then go home and dress up together seeing the others' undies and displaying mine in a real competition. It's unfortunate that sometimes the lovely clothes get ripped but that is what female fighting is all about. The staggering around on high heels while pulling hair is thrilling too, dropping onto a bed and rolling off it ,all the time gripped together with nyloned legs . You may be exhausted at the end but it's a real release and something to remember until the next time.

[Elysia]

...and thanks for all you do to make this site possible.

[Kimberly]

Whilst in drab, I have a short fuse, and anger easily - especially with computers :p But whilst en femme, I'm calmer and more collected. And much more fun!! :D

[Rossie]

I really love panties, and feel so calm, free and human

[AnnaMaria]

I don't have the option of changing out of my panties so that I can fight or get mad, as I don't have any male undies left. Though I have noticed that I don't get mad as often as I use to. But when I do watch out cause I stay mad for several days before I finally calm down.

huggs
anna