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susan2010
04-20-2008, 08:40 AM
Out last night for the first time in a semi-public setting. Before I had only gone to a few support group meetings, and changed to fem there and back before leaving. Last night I went out to a club for an event so I felt pretty safe with the other girls.
I waited in lot for a while, because I didn't want to walk in by myself. But I got up my nerve and went in. It was great. A real thrill to sit at a bar, talking to other girls, and feeling comfortable having a drink. Everybody said I looked great (liars). Had a geat time and even the short drive to the club and the ride later were a thrill. You know, I may try this again.

Michelle-NC
04-20-2008, 08:43 AM
Great for ou Susan! That is a huge step.

Sarah Doepner
04-20-2008, 10:45 AM
Great for you!
Those times where you wait and wait and wait to get out of the car or to leave the room or walk through the door will become less fequent and the time enjoying this part of your world will get longer. What a great reward we get when we finally step over that threshold!

ann stef
04-20-2008, 06:41 PM
2nd time is even better, your confidence is built up.

kiwimichelle
04-20-2008, 07:38 PM
Still avoiding talking to anyone when en-femme, guess that comes with confidence

Kiwi

TawnyCD
04-20-2008, 07:45 PM
I did the exact same thing last night!! I must say, first time out was quite exhilarating and very nerve racking at the same time. Didn't really know anyone so most of my time was spent watching others, but it was an enjoyable time none the less

Angie G
04-20-2008, 07:51 PM
Good for you Susan you go girl. :hugs:
Angie

Princess29
04-21-2008, 12:22 AM
that's great susan, congratulations. It gets easier the more times you do it

Megan (VA)
04-21-2008, 12:26 AM
The more you do it, the easier it becomes:) Congrats!

jessielee
04-21-2008, 12:26 AM
wish we had clubs like that out here in the rural wild west!
hats off to you Susan,
i look up to you,
jessie