Sexual experiences with women while you're CD?

[gueebster]

Sorry if this question has been asked many times before. I've looked through the forum and not found it, but feel free to get all angry at me if it is a common question, i'm just intereted.

So, what i'd like to know is, how many of you have had sexual (or sensual) experiences of any kind with women, whilst you have been dressed up? This is a fantasy of mine, so i'm keen to see your answers.

Sub-question: Do you think there are there enough adventurous, open minded women out there interested in sex with a CD in full regalia for this fantasy to be achieved in anything other than a lucky fluke?

[lisalove]

I had a girlfriend for a short while that loved for both of us to dress in our sexiest lingerie, and make love like two lesbians. There was never any penatration on my part. Quite frankly those times were the best sex I ever had.
As far as you 2nd question. I don't think there are that many open minded women out there. It is hard enough just trying to find a woman who can accept our dressing. At least that has been my experience.

[gueebster]

wow lisa you lucky girl. With most women's latent bi-sexual interests, you'd think more women would be keen to try the middle-man. mind the pun. anyone else?

[MarciManseau]

Daily, almost. I'm full time and I live with my gg gf Julie. We luv sex! :D


Hugs, Marci and Julie :hugs:

[Josephine 1941]

Hi Queebster, I don't know how old you are, but here in Fl there seems to be quite a few women in the over 60 group that love men who dress. I have had a least 4 different girl friends that loved to make love with me dressed as a women. I am now living with a women that realy gets off when we make love, I guess maybe I have been in the right place at the right time. My girl friend loves to shop with me an we buy matching outfit , but the best part is we are the same size in cloths and shoes We are a 16 in cloths an 10 1/2 in shoes my feet are a wide but she dosent mind. I just got home from a card game with the guys, got on here for a little bit. Now have to get my boobs, bra ,night gound because she loves me dressed when she wakes up,in the night some times an sex is great. My thing was to tell any women right up front that I was a CD, that way I found that i did not get my self all worked up. I wear panties all the time so if you are out and meet some one an know u are heading for the bed room there no surprize. I have found that most of these women really get off on a man in womens cloths. Good luc

Josephine :daydreaming:

[gueebster]

thats great josephine, thanks for your input! I should have said before but I didnt realise, I was referencing women around my own age, and I'm 21. Of course the more mature women would be more open minded. Women around my age are probably generally much less secure with doing something they see as 'kinky' or just plain 'wrong' in their mainstream sociological conformity. Do excuse me if I'm being pretensious.

[Laurelanne]

My wife and i do it alot she likes it too... i know im lucky. Also when I was in my 20s on the road i met a lady a little older who RREALLY luved it it was a fabulos week. Have fun.The truth IS out there.:doh:

[trannie T]

Does kissing a lesbian count?

[Dalece]

I have Lesbian friends and one night one of them said if you wern't a male I would take you up stairs with me. But on the other hand I was at a masquerade Ball two weekss a go and I had so many GGs come up to me a comment the way I looked and it was like I was one of the girls. I don't know if anything would have happened but waiting for that day.

[RikkiOfLA]

Too late, Gueebster, you mentioned that you were specifically asking about women in their early 20s. I'd already decided to chime in when I read that. May I still? :D

I'm not in my early 20s, far from them. And I'm really interested in women my own age.

In my lifetime I've found and married two wonderful women who've accepted and loved me dressed.

The first passed away in 2006 after we'd been married 28 wonderful years. We celebrated our 28th (and last) wedding anniversary as two brides and went on our last honeymoon to San Francisco (site of our 1st honeymoon, and many later ones) soon after. I'll never forget climbing hills with her, clamboring onto cable cars, worshiping at Grace Cathedral, and dining at Alioto's on Fisherman's Wharf, both of us looking our best in pretty skirted outfits! Yes, we often made love with me in "play clothes" of lingerie, pantyhose, heels, and so on. Nothing better! I'll especially remember the last time, with her dying of cancer, her hair lost to chemotherapy, her body grotesqued by her illness, hard for her to move, hard for me to find physically attractive, yet I still loved passionately the spirited woman inside her, and by golly, I proved it to her that day! It was the hardest and most beautiful thing I think I've ever done.

My second wife is an old friend, who's really never known me any other way than openly and unashamedly feminine. She came out to help take care of my first wife, and, as it turned out, to take care of me, because I had a triple bypass operation during that time! Our love was born in shared adversity, hers being the betrayal by an unfaithful and greedy spouse who finally divorced her during this time. The last time she saw me dressed male (my first wife's funeral) she saw how uncomfortable I was that way, and asked me not to, ever again. She has told me I'm the first person she has ever truly loved physically. Yes, my dressing feminine can be a turn on for her. Since someone raised the issue, I'm going to say that our lovemaking does involve penetration, but it also involves the slowness and gentleness that I believe we crossdressers can share with genetic women.

I have indeed been blessed in my life, far beyond my wildest dreams!

To those of you who are looking, sometimes fearing that women who like us are non-existent, I would share my vantage point of hope. After all, true love for anyone is nothing short of a miracle, much more a product of trust and the hard work of communication and agreement than dumb luck or settling for someone who's only "pretty good." Don't ever settle! Hold out for that miracle. After all, the Higher Power of the Universe, source of all miracles, loves us as much as anyone else. You deserve it. And if you believe that in your heart, you're more than half way to finding it. I believe that with all my heart! My loving wife, who's sitting right next to me as I type this, bawling my eyes out with sincerity (yeah, this is hard to write!), fully agrees.

Blessings,
Rikki

ps. One part of the world of women, not to be overlooked, is the community of transsexual women. After all, if we can accept ourselves, we can accept each other. Among my friends I count five CD+TS couples, whose relationships are among the strongest and most lasting I know. All started out as friends and discovered true love where they least expected it.

Where and when you least expect it, is where true love is most often found.

[Lilly 40C]

My gg SO and I are both bi and both crossdress. We love exploring all the possibilities. It is fun.

Lilly

[traceyanne]

my wife and i both love getting dressed in our lingerie when we have a bit of special time to ourselfs, other than that its normally just our nighties in bed, which is just as nice :)

[Jenny J]

In my lifetime I've found and married two wonderful women who've accepted and loved me dressed.

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Rikki

What a touching and enlightening post. You’ve had a unique experience finding two outstanding ladies in your time and loving both. If it was only that easy to find an understanding and accepting woman to share your life with.

I thought it was wonderful how you spoke of your first wife in such a compassionate way despite her torments. A person like that only comes around once in a great while. But lo and behold you find another loving soul to share your life with.

I grieve for your loss but rejoice in your fortuity and wish you well.

I wish more women were like the two you had enter your life.

Best wishes

Jennifer

[ladytrackrunner]

im 21, and i told my first girlfriend about my cding interest... and she wanted to dress me up and get me all beautiful and everything... and i guess it turned her on alot so then we both were turned on and then we went at it!! so just to tell u its an amazing time!! and some girls are very open as long as u are upfront and honest with them!!

[Francine & Frankie]

This probably doesn't count. Escort Service. Girl was my age and also a college student. I was so excited that I pulled a Forrest Gump in my panties.

[Dusk]

My gf loves it. And I love it when she's playing a man. There are plenty of women out there. it's just finding them that can be difficult.

[DemonicDaughter]

This GG prefers it! :D

[KimberlyS]

My wife found out pre-marriage and we both had the limited information we got from society. So my CDing had to be a fetish and that is how we both dealt with it the few times a year I CDed during the beginning of our marriage. I always felt there was more to it, but I began more and more to feel there was more to it. And in comes the internet information age. It is so great? My finding of the term cross dresser, information, and others. My CDing was never really a fetish, it was just the only way I could explain it with my limited knowledge of it. The relief and realization of who/what I was and I was not the only one. For my wife this moved my CDing from fetish and something she could deal with; to this is who I was and something new to deal with. It is no longer part of our intimate part of our relationship which I have no problems with. It actually explains the feeling of loss in the past when packing up after the deed.

[cinderellaman]

My wife loves it when we dress up in matching lingerie-stockings, undies, bras. It's very HOT for us.:o We don't do it all the time, maybe 1 or 2 times per month>

[melissacd]

...it's just finding them that can be difficult.

Agreed.

Also you must be ready to go out and find them, a hard lesson that I have learned. I have skinned my knees a few times now. I am painfully lonely and yet painfully not ready for a relationship and until I am ready I cannot proceed. The question is how do you know when you are ready?

[Deborah Jane]

So, what i'd like to know is, how many of you have had sexual (or sensual) experiences of any kind with women, whilst you have been dressed up?

I wish!!!!:daydreaming:

[Rikkicn]

I've met women of all ages that would love to be in a sexual relationship with a crossdresser. They think it would be fun and interesting and love the idea of being with a feminine man.
I've had sex with three different women in the last few weeks while dressed. They loved it and so did I!!!
Don't give up and find out where the alternative life style women go..and go there.

[ggtracy]

I also enjoy being intimate with my boyfriend when he is dressed in femme. but I have known about his dressing since we met and have been sexual with females before. so for me this is an extra special treat.

[Sweet Susan]

Some of the best sex I've ever had was while dressed and with an open minded woman. It has been my experience that there are far too few open minded women on this planet.

[Carroll]

Often with my wife. Its a big turn on for both of us

[annekathleen]

How about sexual experiences with a man while we're CD'd?

I'd like to be totally dressed as a woman, from my high heels right up to my wig, and enjoy a sexual experience with a man.

No more details...I don't want to get censored!:o

[serinalynn]

Yeah, my wife and I have done the her lingerie and my lingerie thing and its always the best sex we've had together, especially when she is undressing me.

[gueebster]

That is fantastic! Thankyou all for your incredibly informative replies! It gives me a lot of hope that I may soon live out my fantasy.

[heterocd]

i was lucky to be indulged by my ex, a couple of times, mostly lingerie to bed for sex. My current girlfriend has not built up the courage to be connected to me while fully dressed. I will tell you though that after several months on dating websites OKcupid and Tangowire, that i have only come across one gg who was willing to entertain the thought of dating me. I have profiles on both that clearly state who i am and what i'm looking for. The profiles also include my pictures as male and crossdressed. I decided 6 months ago i wasn't going to hide anymore. It has taken a lot of soul searching but i intend to find the one gg that can accept me for exactly who i am. in the mean time my current girlfriend accepts some lingerie play in the bedroom but i'm closetted otherwise with her because she has a crazy ex and 3 small children

[ConnieLove]

This is one of my fantasys,just timmid to ask my better half right now.

[Sugar]

Queebster,

What you are looking for is out there. If it's possible in your circumstances...when you meet someone that you are attracted to, just be honest about who you are and what you are into.

I've been lucky enough to find a GG or two that loved to play dress me up. Pardon me here but, with one, my request was that " I want to be

All I'm saying is that you be true to yourself and all the rest will come naturally.


Best of luck to you,

sugar

[gueebster]

well sugar i must say i like you too. I wouldnt mind being the 'bitch' with another girl. That would be so very hot.

[Dusk]

Agreed.

Also you must be ready to go out and find them, a hard lesson that I have learned. I have skinned my knees a few times now. I am painfully lonely and yet painfully not ready for a relationship and until I am ready I cannot proceed. The question is how do you know when you are ready?

When you're ready it hits you, but subtley I think. Not sure how to describe it but having had my heart broken many a time I think you just realise without knowing how or why. When the time is right, you'll know!

[TGMarla]

Nope. Never. I've always wondered about it, but it's not likely that I'll ever have that experience. Hmmm.....never say never, but I have my doubts.

[amber 07]

It had always been my fantasy and finally I met a GG online and we've been together for nearly 2 years now and she loves "her Amber". She helps "us" with make-up and she just purchased 2 wigs for "her". She insists that I put on something soft and silky when we are together and I dress totally on the weekends which makes it much to sensual. Its the only way we make love now. I couldn't be happier as it took me out of the lonely, dark closet and thrust me into a bright, shiney new world and to her, I'll be eternally grateful. My prayers go out to all of you, that you find what you are hoping for. Hugs, Amber

[Angie G]

Not yet but soon I hope. I think she's coming around. :hugs:
Angie

[Alex!]

Never, never, never. When I'm with a woman, I am 100% guy. I have no desire to be feminine around a woman I am attracted to.

[KatherinePaige]

Yes I have my wife absolutely loves having sex when I am all Girly she said sex is more enjoyable for her so who am I to argue :)


Sub-question: Do you think there are there enough adventurous, open minded women out there interested in sex with a CD in full regalia for this fantasy to be achieved in anything other than a lucky fluke?

IMO no I do not think there are allot of women who can have sex with a man all dressed out due to cultural taboos and religious beliefs it is rather hard to find a woman that is accepting of a CDer.

I guess I am blessed too have a wife that loves my CDing :o

[RobertaFermina]

My sweetheart is game to tumble with Roberta, as well as with Bob.

I am lucky, she asked for a Crossdresser, and I never had to ask for her, except to dream of what I wanted, and her request appeared ! :D

My heart goes out to all who must bare themselves in the quest for such a partner. :love:

I think I'll never know how many women are willing until I reveal myself to all women and ask them for what I wanted, or would want....if I didn't already have it :)

Whatever the odds are, even if it is 50/50, I will have to risk indifference or rejection in order to find out. I hope the sting of rejection decreases with each experience, so that you finally find what you need without serious emotional trauma.:hugs:

Fortunately, I only have to ask until I find (the) one.

How many do you want ? :daydreaming:


:rose: Roberta :rose:

[Julogden]

Back when I used to hang out in a lesbian bar all the time, I occasionally ran into women who were intrigued and we became "bar friends", occasionally leading to a bit of making out, but it never went beyond kissing, but even that was beyond wonderful.

Carol

[EnglishRose]

Yep, we experimented with that and honestly, nothing changed, for better or worse :)

Most of the time then dressing doesn't come into our lovemaking.

[Sally R.]

My wife and I have had sex many times while I'm dressed. However she decided about 2 years ago that I could not be femme during sex. I can dress and we can make out, but when it comes time for penetration, it all must go (however, Sat. night she let me keep my thigh highs on, go figure). I think she feels confused about her sexuality when I'm dressed during sex. But I agree it is the best sex ever, and she has had a great time in the past.

[Lara Smith]

Just my experience. I am 58. When I was your age, I missed many opportunities to be dressed with girls my age. Some were invitations; some were events that would surely have led to it. Young women are much more likely to want to experiment and see where it goes. I was asked many times in my youth to be allowed to be pantied or made up or dressed up. I was always afraid of being outed. In retrospect, maybe I should have been brave enough to allow my self to be outed, or simply outed myself. I could have been a completely different person and maybe even made a fabulous living from being a gender gifted person. Who knows?

The world is a very different place now. Trust your instincts and give yourself the freedom to truly be who you are. It might be painful. It might be wonderful. But I’m not sure there is anything more difficult than spending your life living a lie! There are many more females on this planet than one would imagine who would love to play with crossing gender lines than meet the eye. When they are young it is easy to pass off these explorations as experimentation for them. They are also really very curious. And much more playful and less serious. When you are young, there are also older women who want to dress you up and seduce you with their older, wiser, sexuality and who would love to dress you. Believe me. There is also a contingent of women who are not comfortable with their desire to have sex with another women. They will however allow themselves to have "lesbian" sex with a man dressed as a woman. Get my drift darling?

OOPS! Got carried away there. With the exception of the very first time my wife and I had sex shortly after we met, the very best sex I have ever had has always been with my wife in various stages of dress. First just panties, then more, and then years later, fully enfemme...wig, makeup, breasts...the whole enchilada. The other time was when I was in high school at a party and I wound up with a girl who asked me to wear her "spare" nylon panties and a very pretty bra and grind with her. There are many permutations I love being dressed with a GG, but the best is being a lesbian, and a pretty lesbian at that, better yet, a girly girl being seduced by a girly girl for the first time.

[Alison Anderson]

:cry:I`m So lonely!:cry:
I so badly want one of these wonderfull women!:daydreaming:

[StephanieH]

Yep, thank heaven my wife is okay with it and we've had some really interesting times! Hope to have many, many, more! Good luck! :)

[Emily Anderson]

Queebster,

Yes, there are women out there who are willing and even turned on by their partner in drag (whether it's for you, the fantasy, or both). A large part of the issue is going to be how well prepared you are in introducing this notion to her, how confident you are, how she feels about it, and whether you accept potential rejection.

As far as my experience goes, I have made love in full regalia, gone to bed with just panties on, worn a frilly nightdress when making love etc. etc., and all this with a few different women.

At the end of the day (I hate clichés, lol), it has to be right thing for both of you. If it feels right to both you, go ahead. If one of you is not feeling ok about it, then don't do it.

[kim85]

Queebster. Im an SO 23 years young :D. I have often had sex with my SO while dressed. In fact its mainly with her more than him. But for personally i wouldn't be able to all the time. I fell in love with a man and everyso often i like to have sex with him

Kim
xxx

[Billie Jean]

With my ex wife, she did my makeup and picked out my out fit. I also did it with a prostitute while wearing pantyhose with my toenails painted.

[adelle]

hi Alison me too seems it only happens in the movies and in our dreams:drink:

[DKA]

my fiance and i have been doing it all week with me in fem. she even uses my fem name

[Roxi Loh]

My wife and I for over 30 years dressed each other up and had hot lesbian sex.

[LoriTG]

I was wondering if anyone has ever found a girlfriend while dressed?

[Carla4Guage]

Oh youth!!
“We don't do it all the time, maybe 1 or 2 times per month.”
Just a social comment, for what it’s worth.

[MarciManseau]

I was wondering if anyone has ever found a girlfriend while dressed?

When I met Julie, I'd been full time for about 4 years. We were in a club that caters to gay and bi people.

Three years later, we're still together and in love :love:


Hugs, Marci :hugs:

[gwendy]

I was married for a little over 10 years and although it took a while for Dee to be comfortable with me dressing (she knew before we wed but thought I ‘would get over it).
However after a couple of years it was often at her instigation that I go and ‘dress’ before we had a lesbian’ kiss and cuddle in the lounge and then off to bed, both still in our underwear.
Dee wore only a pair of panties to bed but liked me to wear panties, bra and a soft nightdress. :hugs:

[KateSpade83]

I'm not into promiscusous sex. But if I had a wife I do straight, lesbian, and role reversal sex with her!

While out shopping women have licked their lips at me!

[Katie Lynn cd]

I wish as well! I don't ever see this happening. That is what I hate about Crossdressing...for me it is such a solitary thing. Those of you that have shared this experience with a GG are very lucky.

[MarciManseau]

I wish as well! I don't ever see this happening. That is what I hate about Crossdressing...for me it is such a solitary thing. Those of you that have shared this experience with a GG are very lucky.

We are VERY lucky to have found someone who loves us and accepts us for WHO we are, not WHAT we are.

[debbeelee1]

Yep, I'm one of the lucky ones who has an adventurous, open minded SO and I wouldn't think of leaving her for all of the tea in China!

[MarciManseau]

Yep, I'm one of the lucky ones who has an adventurous, open minded SO and I wouldn't think of leaving her for all of the tea in China!

Sounds just like us, perfectly matched! We love just about all the same things, and we're both totally bisexual - we're two lovers and adventurers! :D

[susan2010]

Once upon a time my wife indulged me, even some before we married, but that sure changed quickly. No sex at all now. She says she's sure I must really be gay because I want wear womens underwear.
How many have had this experience? once accepting, participating, and least tolerating, but suddenly 100% against it?
It's no fun.

[Yvonne York]

Well, I am new here, but my girl positively encourages me to dress up while we lay together. We have a great love life, are fully heterosexual, and she even buys me beautiful clothes.

I'm not even sure how she knew I enjoyed wearing sexy lingerie. She just dressed me in her bra one day, and it went from there. When we can have a long lie in, I dress in bra, panties, stockings or silky night dresses and we have the most fantastic sex. Sometimes like girl on girl, before the full thing.

It's fantastic - I realise I am soooooo lucky

[ManInBra]

I am 47 and have been CrossDressing since age 14, I have been married twice, never having the nerve to tell either about my CrossDressing, after both ended in Divorce and and we talked as adults I find out that BOTH of them were openminded enough to be accepting of CD'ing, not only accepting my 2nd wife remarried and he also is a crossdresser,
I have been divorced for 22 years, I have dated and some could accept it and some not,
This coming summer a very dear friend is moving back to our home state, we have known each other since she was an infant, I have loved her since before I knew I did, we are talking about being roommates and we will always be friends, but we have even made a comment or 2 about us getting married down the road, but the best part is she knows about me and my crossdressing and is openminded and accepting of it, She is just a sweetheart, a dear friend, and I have waited along time, but I really feel it is going to be well worth the wait, So what I am saying is it may take a few years, an accepting gg isnt going to come knocking on your door and say "Here I am for your enjoyment",, But also I know for a fact the very negative attitude shows in almost everything we do,, as hard as it is to live, think, eat, and breathe positive attitude it will make a real difference down the line,, and also - DONT be looking so hard, you will never find her, My friend moving back is a blessing that I can thank the good lord above for, he knows whats best for us,

Good Luck

[silkenhose]

my wife likes her guy and her "gurl", depending on her mood will determine whether i am in boxers or a teddy. i would say it is about 70% teddy, she says i am alot more attentive to her needs when i am dressed in fem.

i like both however think it is more fun when we are both in skirts and she.......... well guess i have to stop here again before i get censored

panty

[Leilani68]

Considering my wife is a pretty tomboy, and that I have always been more
feminine: Yes we do have sex while dressed & she picks out a lot of my outfits when we go shopping. We are like an Opposite Gender couple so it
works out perfectly (18yrs of bliss)...:love:

[KandisTX]

I was wondering if anyone has ever found a girlfriend while dressed?

I met my third wife while dressed... since I am now with wife #4 (GlitterGG here), you can guess what happened there.

Kandis:love::rose2:

[PrettyToesLisa]

Being treated as a girl in bed by your SO is the ultimate

[icequeen]

this gg loves it when I am not being insecure....the she side of him is much more sensual and it can be fun to play dressup. My so is amazing either way, but sometimes asking for her brings a thrill to the sexual experience.

[stellatoo]

I've had GF's who have been into a little crossdressing on my part. There were some suggestive pictures of me in a camisole taken by an American girl I met a long time ago and one ex used to ask me sometimes to dress and "please her" like a girl would. I of course would argue that I should be the man in the relationship and she was far to weird for me.
As if.



Stella

[bettysue6879]

My wife lets me dress sometimes. She acts as though she supports me dressing but I can feel/sense hesitation. I wonder if she just does it to keep us together/keep the peace.

[Carol A]

OK I need to put my $.02 worth in, now in our younger days my wife just loved to tie me to the bed and do things HER way.
Now after you raise 4 kids things change and today we still have sex but she feels uncomfortable when I'm dress and when I ask why she saids we were young then. I guess it has something to do with a women growing old and forgetting the fun of life and just being kids all over. So if I want a little it has to be the old fashion way, life ain't fun no more.:daydreaming:

[leslie ann]

guilty! my g/f and i allmost allways have matching panties on except hers are thong and mine are not

[Notbychoice]

OMG! Yes. It was one of the most fantastic things I have ever experienced to date. It only happened once though.