Got my panties in a bunch over a stupid note...

[CharleneT]

Hey, I belong to a dating site. On there I am shown "enfemme" and make my preferences known. I receive quite a variety of emails... this one really twisted my panties though, no kidding at all, this is exactly what he wrote:

"well itravel alot there ? do you have tits are not a dumb ? is it looks like you do but i,am game for anything as long as it,s agreed on but let me know pic is me and sisters boy they live with me for now"

AND there is little doubt in my mind that he thinks this might just work !!! ARRRRrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggggggggggggggggg.... As well, there was an attached image of him with a baby in his lap. GEESH !

My GG friends tell me that this is just the tip of the great iceberg of bad messages from men. But wow, it is the worst I've gotten. By FAR !!!

This may be a bit far off the mark for discussions here, but have others had similar messages on dating sites ??

Charlene T.

[Sophia KT]

Wow!

That takes some beating. I can't help wondering what your reply was.

Sophia

[CD Susan]

Thanks for posting that one Charlene. I can relate to your experience as I get similar crap sent to me all the time. It is actually scary to know there are so many morons like him out there. I hope you don't mind that I am telling you I got a good laugh out of that one. Not for what you experienced but over that jerks stupidity.

[Stargirl]

I had an ad in a newspaper with a PO Box for doing astrology charts, and I got a message from a guy in prison. I was about 27. He wrote :

" I am in prison for life, but maybe you and I can "click" together"

[Janet Nicola]

Hi Charlene!

There's a lot of crap out there girl on the webb!

I prefer the face to face approach in TG friendly bars. You get your ass tweaked by admirers, but later in the night the real guys come out to play.

Janet Nicola

[docrobbysherry]

U should read some of the flirts I get at another CD dating site! Their English is proper, but their topics r rude and discusting!

I heard that most of the children these days, r being produced by the poor and stupid! So, maybe in a hundred years, his note to u mite appear to be brilliant!

[sterling12]

Hmmm, obviously not an English Major. And, he probably won't be taking you to The Opera. Obviously you need to do more fishing in The Genetic Pool!

Remember that famous phrase I've often heard from a lot of GG's. "You have to kiss a lot of frogs, before you find a prince." Pass on this "frog," and when you least expect it, when your not looking, something comes along.

Peace and Love, Joanie

[Nicole Erin]

All he wants to do is for you to take him to the crack house.
You know, in the part of town that even the police won't go?

[CharleneT]

thanks all... the note doesn't interest me in the least, in fact, more than anything, it frightens me to think that he believes it will work !

Yeah, I've gotten many like it, not sure why it bugged me today but it did. Part of using public dating sites. Few messages are worth reading ... just seems they are getting more desperate now. As well, since I am presenting as a Tgurl, I am getting a different type of "suitor" ... ick covers it for most of them.

Charlene


susan: no worries, I liked your comments!! and the msg did make me laugh too

[trannie T]

So I gues that mens that you wont go oot with me.

[Amy Hepker]

GGs get all kinds of strange and unwanted responses, and remarks from guys trying to get you in bed.

[battybattybats]

The scary thing is that sometimes this kind of thing works.

I watched as week after week at fencing an annoying git behaved obnoxiously towards an attactive and intelligent woman. And week after week I saw her slowly clearly growing to like him and his obnoxious and sometimes creepy and offensive behaviour.

I have no idea how or why it worked but it did. For a while at least.

I just had fun beating him left-handed :)
But she, she was a challenge. Very good with a sword.

[Annette_boy]

Hi All I have been on several dating sites and the most common one is he sends a pic of his boy bits and says something along the lines of Hi B****h wanna (insert one of several crude names for intimate acts here) this.
I have had GG friends say they get the same sort of stuff as well. What makes these guys think that will work. No one Gay Straight or Transgendered likes this sort of behavior. No wonder they do not get much action
Hugs Annette

[DemonicDaughter]

And now you know why I made this thread (http://crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=80118)! The things people feel are "OK", "appropriate" or some sort of turn on is just plain scary.

[CharleneT]

Hey DD -- you are sooo right. Normally I just erase the msg and forget it.

Batty bats, I love your story :) I used to fence, never great at it , but I sure enjoyed the sport.

Charlene

[AmberTG]

OK, here I go getting off topic, but in my defence, I didn't start it!:D I took fencing in college, it was a lot of fun and I wasn't half bad either.
As far as dating sites, never used them, so I don't have any experience in that.

[Seville]

OK, here I go getting off topic, but in my defence, I didn't start it!:D I took fencing in college, it was a lot of fun and I wasn't half bad either...

Sabre or Foil?

Great fun!

[DemonicDaughter]

Hey DD -- you are sooo right. Normally I just erase the msg and forget it.

For the most part, so do I but then there are some people that just irk me with their stupidity. lol

[CharleneT]

Actually... Foil and Epee', never got the hang of the saber.

:thumbup: