Carla
05-18-2008, 10:46 PM
I have gotten where I am now with crossdressng and my wife by going VERY slow. It's paying off. I have been wearing pantyhose or tights almost every day for over a year now. Mostly pantyhose on weekends, black tights at work. My wife and I both run and socks were giving my ankles fits. Loose socks would fall down and tight socks rubbed raw. So I found some tights on line made for men and have a fly. I bought some to try out. They worked! No more pain in the ankles and no more leg cramps. I then started shaving my legs so the hose would stay up easier. Now my wife buys all my pantyhose and tights whenever I run low. For the last two Halloweens, I dressed as a witch with her help. One very cheap costume wig, green makeup, big nose with a wart. I had the black tights but no shoes that were convincing. So off to Goodwill we went. We found two pair of heels, one high heels with straps and one pair of low pumps. I like the pumps the best. We also found a bra that would fit. I got some really nice breast forms on line WAY cheaper than retail. And so that is the way it has been over the last three years.
She had mentioned once that she did not care if I wore panties. I tactfully let that comment go not to show too much interest. Last night when we got home from date night (yes we have been married 5 years but we still go out on a date every Saturday night), we were both a little tipsy and somehow got on Halloween again. She said what will you do this year and I casually said that I was a little tired of the witch but had no ideas. She mentioned Cheerleader!!! I said calmly that I was not sure I could pull that off. She said she had a black pleated skirt that was too big for her but it would fit me. I said yeah?? Why don't you get it. She did. Since I already had tan pantyhose on, I slipped the skirt on, she found a black sweater to go with it and it fit too. I got out my bra and breast forms which she had not seen since last halloween, put them on and my pumps. No makeup and I have no wig. This is the way I was dressed the rest of the evening while we watched a little TV before bed. She said my legs looked awesome ( and I agree!!).
Now for the best part! Today, while we were both very sober and last night was a sweet memory, she said she needed some help. Her Mother had picked up three dresses from a rumage sale that she may want to wear to work. She wanted to try them on and ask if thought they looked OK for work. The first two fit her to a tee and both looked very nice and professional. The third, before she put it on, she said I think this one is too big and if it is I'll give it to you or Kelly (a girl where she works). My heart leap! Just as casual and non-chalant as can be, she was offering me a dress! Well, it was too big for her so she took it off and then started to help me in to it, but it was too small for me, so I guess Kelly will get it, but WOW. Here was my wife helping me try on a dress.
The hard part will be to continue down this little path at the same pace. Slow and easy. It will be hard, but patience has really paid off.
I just had to share this with someone.
Thanks
She had mentioned once that she did not care if I wore panties. I tactfully let that comment go not to show too much interest. Last night when we got home from date night (yes we have been married 5 years but we still go out on a date every Saturday night), we were both a little tipsy and somehow got on Halloween again. She said what will you do this year and I casually said that I was a little tired of the witch but had no ideas. She mentioned Cheerleader!!! I said calmly that I was not sure I could pull that off. She said she had a black pleated skirt that was too big for her but it would fit me. I said yeah?? Why don't you get it. She did. Since I already had tan pantyhose on, I slipped the skirt on, she found a black sweater to go with it and it fit too. I got out my bra and breast forms which she had not seen since last halloween, put them on and my pumps. No makeup and I have no wig. This is the way I was dressed the rest of the evening while we watched a little TV before bed. She said my legs looked awesome ( and I agree!!).
Now for the best part! Today, while we were both very sober and last night was a sweet memory, she said she needed some help. Her Mother had picked up three dresses from a rumage sale that she may want to wear to work. She wanted to try them on and ask if thought they looked OK for work. The first two fit her to a tee and both looked very nice and professional. The third, before she put it on, she said I think this one is too big and if it is I'll give it to you or Kelly (a girl where she works). My heart leap! Just as casual and non-chalant as can be, she was offering me a dress! Well, it was too big for her so she took it off and then started to help me in to it, but it was too small for me, so I guess Kelly will get it, but WOW. Here was my wife helping me try on a dress.
The hard part will be to continue down this little path at the same pace. Slow and easy. It will be hard, but patience has really paid off.
I just had to share this with someone.
Thanks