tasha_cd
05-23-2008, 08:11 AM
I am writing this to see if anyone else has felt this way.
I am 38 married with 4 kids and just begining my transistion.
After years, 3 decades infact of denyal and excuses I'm now at a stage in my life that I can no longer stay the way I am and have taken steps to transistion (M2F) but I've been strugling for the last few days with my emotions. While I am in no doubt it is the right thing for me to do. I feel at a loss. I feel that a part of me is dying which saddens me. I feel that my children have been cheated out of a future with their dad and my wife has lost her husband.
Even while typing this the waterworks has started up again . omg I'm a basket case and I haven't even started on the Hormones
My wife and the oldest two children (teenagers) understand and are very supportive of my decision to change and I am hoping that they.. we .. will continue to be a family. But I still cant get past this over welming sense of guilt and now am questining weather I could remain the way I was for them.
I am 38 married with 4 kids and just begining my transistion.
After years, 3 decades infact of denyal and excuses I'm now at a stage in my life that I can no longer stay the way I am and have taken steps to transistion (M2F) but I've been strugling for the last few days with my emotions. While I am in no doubt it is the right thing for me to do. I feel at a loss. I feel that a part of me is dying which saddens me. I feel that my children have been cheated out of a future with their dad and my wife has lost her husband.
Even while typing this the waterworks has started up again . omg I'm a basket case and I haven't even started on the Hormones
My wife and the oldest two children (teenagers) understand and are very supportive of my decision to change and I am hoping that they.. we .. will continue to be a family. But I still cant get past this over welming sense of guilt and now am questining weather I could remain the way I was for them.