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Veronica 1
05-26-2008, 08:54 PM
Yesterday afternoon I get a call from a buddy that I have not seen since Christmas and who knows nothing about my hobby. He was in town and trying to find his wife who had just left him due to his Nazi attitudes, and figured that as she was a close friend of mine that I would know where to find her. He was hinting about some rumors that he had heard and read in her private e-mails (Like I said, he is a real Nazi), and would be by in an hour or two to talk to me. I was dressed at the time but thought that I had a bit of time to relax before he got there but I did remove my makeup and changed into a pair of fem jeans and t-shirt so that all I had to remove when he showed up would be my bra and forms. As luck would have it, just about the time I sat down again, about 20-30 minutes after he called, I hear stomping coming down the stairs to my room. I frantically ducked around the corner and was standing there frantically trying to get my bra and forms off when he appeared. "Dude, you're for real!" was his comment as he turned and went back upstairs again for, as luck would have it, his ex-wife had just arrived at my house at the same time that he and his entourage did. When I got finished changing and went upstairs he and his wife were outside talking and his cousin asked me outside to talk. She brought up the rumors and that there were people telling all sorts of transgendered stories about me. As I had been caught bare breasted, there was no sense in trying to deny it. She took it well when I told her that the rumors were true and that I had been doing it for years but just in the past couple years had expanded my feminine feelings and dressing. All she asked was why and so I told her that the clothing felt so much better than male attire and that deep down I had a very wide feminine streak. She just smiled, shook her head and went off to the rest of the group that had came with them. After they had left, I sat down and contemplated the events for a bit and then got dressed again. They are not people that I know, except for the Nazi, and I realized just how little their opinions of me matter. Over the past year I have become so much more comfortable with myself that these little setbacks don't seem to matter anymore. I am not embarrassed by it nor do I feel that I have to try and make amends to him as he came charging down into my private sanctum unannounced. I realize that this is my true self and if they cannot accept me as I am, cest la vie. If he still wants to come and visit me I am sure that he will phone first and I will not force him to see me dressed unless he expresses a willingness to do so. I see this as growth on my part as a year ago this event would have destroyed me. Just another unfolding tale of my life.

melisss2u
05-26-2008, 10:39 PM
How many times have you been caught

And if worried about it why didnt you just change before they came over since you knoew they were

JoAnnDallas
05-27-2008, 10:48 AM
Good for you sis.

cosmolovesph
05-27-2008, 11:54 AM
good for you, but curious how he just came inside your home?

CD Susan
05-27-2008, 06:29 PM
I have no time for inconsiderate jerks who just barge into someone elses home unannounced. On the other hand he called ahead to let you know he was coming and you had plenty of time to get yourself ready. Also do you always leave your home unlocked when you are dressed knowing full well that someone was on thier way over? It sounds to me like you subconciously wanted to get caught or at the very least showed extremely poor judgement.

suzy
05-27-2008, 06:41 PM
Good attitude Ronni!

I think for me I am more and more of a risk taker with time. It is almost like I am intentionally trying to get caught, because as I sit here and type I am waiting on a man to come and give me an extimate on building a fence. We don't know each other but I still live in a small community. He is late, several hours now. I wasn't dressed at the time he was supposed to be here, but since, I have got dressed and it's almost like I am daring him....although....if the door bell rings I'll certainly run upstairs while my wife gets the door....and hope I'm not seen.

Anyway....you have got the right attitude... who cares what people think!:love:

Veronica 1
05-27-2008, 07:37 PM
My son and daughter in law were upstairs to answer the door and I was expecting them to give me a minutes notice to lose my bra and forms, not to have him just barge in.
I have been caught about six times in the last year and a half and each time it is more, "So what." Almost all of the people in my private life know now and they are accepting if not supportive and the people that I work with have probably figured it out by now but so far no one has said anything. For that matter, what could they say? Even if they do say something I do not care as my skin is thicker than elephant hide and my grouchy male attitude would keep most of their mouths shut anyways. Actually the worst that I would expect from them would be laughter and joking and I would just laugh along with them and steal the wind from their sails. I just find it amazing how I have grown so indifferent to peoples attitudes where it comes to my personal comfort. Still, the thought of going out clubbing in this redneck town has me scared still but as my makeup skills keep getting better and my feminine persona develops I could see myself out having fun. Here's hoping.