Naughty Idea

[christinac]

Most of you who have gotten to know me by comments in threads know that at the moment I cannot go femme at all because of my present living arrangement. For those who don't know me, because of reasons basically beyond my control I am boarding in the home of an evangelical Christian, so I have to keep everything government like top secret and well below the radar inorder to keep a roof over my head at the moment. If you ever want a vision of hell, just move in with an evangelical and life will become a living hell.:chained:
I so can't wait until I get back out on my own and in my own place so I can be who I am.:daydreaming:
Anyway I was day dreaming about the outfits that I'm doing to buy when I'm back out in my own place when the most devilish thought hit my head:devil: Even though I would never do it because I'm not that type of a person, it couldn't help but think that I should get a picture made of me (once I have my wig and other accessories) in a nice bright fire engine red thong bikini and white strippers boots and send it to the master of the house.:naughty
Has anyone else ever had a get back at someone photo in mind, but like me you are just too lady to do such a thing even though it may be very funny?:D:devil:

[AmberTG]

My ex father in law would be just soooo thrilled to see me like that! He puts the fun in fundamentalism...or is it mental?:heehee:

[christinac]

I know a few people like that. I hope people don't think that I'm against Christians or the church because I'm not. It is just the one group here, they are quite rude to be polite about the situation.

[Holly]

Once again, the intolerance of people looking for acceptance just amazes me <walks away shaking head in disbelief>

[Julie York]

Once again, the intolerance of people looking for acceptance just amazes me <walks away shaking head in disbelief>


I don't think that's a very fair comment Holly. Just because someone is looking for acceptance doesn't mean they have to like every dickhead in the world.

[moses]

To follow on Holly and Julie's comments, I think it might just be easier for everyone to swallow if you had just left it at..."The person/people I'm living with is/are very intolerant", rather than labeling the group. Obviously you have not met every member of their organization/faith. That would be like me saying that all CDs like to wear miniskirts, **** me heels and have D cups.

a) it's not true
b) how would I possibly ever know since I can't meet everyone

Anyway...back to your question. I had a particularly close relationship a couple of years ago and it ended really awkwardly; we were on the verge of moving in together and one day he just told me over the phone that he never wanted to see or talk to me again. Since then I have made a lot of improvements (lost weight, new wardrobe, happier being me, etc.), but rather than sending him a picture I had mused about sending him a wedding invitation. But finally it dawned on me that I'm not really trying to get back at him, I'm still trying to prove something and that means he still has power over me. Don't let this intolerant jerk you are living with have that kind of power over you, but also don't label him and for goodness sake at least be glad he's putting a roof over your head. Good luck getting out of there soon.

PS--I have a house for rent in Orlando if you don't mind the 2 1/2 hour commute to work ;)

[Diane Douglas]

Let me se if I understand this.

You needed a place to stay
This person opened his home to you
You moved in knowing what his beliefs are
You have chosen to lie to him about what you are, so you can keep living in his home
When you move out, yu want to "thank" him by sending him a picture of you in a bikini


I understand why Holly walked away.

Post the picture here where we can all enjoy it; but let this person be. He doesn't want know this about anymore then you want to know about his religious beliefs.

This is why Baskin Robbins hs so many diffferent flavors of ice cream. Let them enjoy there favorites.

[JennyS.]

I agree with Diane. I once had to live with conservative Christians because of some awful things that happened in my life. They invited me to stay with them which I did for a few months. Instead of being ungrateful, I was very grateful for their kindness. They would not have approved of my CD'ing, so I didn't disrespect their beliefs in their home.
Be grateful that you have a roof over your head. Once you leave give that person a huge hug for allowing you to stay there. Then, go buy a new dress!

[Emily Anderson]

Yada yada yada... more of the same...

Why be a vengeful bitch when you could be putting your life to better purposes?

[Toni_Lynn]

Whoa -- I don't think that Christina is really going to do this -- its just those things that run through your mind as a 'what if'. For example, when you get really p.o.'d at a company or boss or person, sitting down and writing it all out in letter to them, and then destroying the letter before sending it. Sometimes just contemplating the actions makes it all better.

I do agree that It would be wrong to actually do the whatever.

I've done vengeful things like this. I had a cousin (who has passed away R.I.P.) who was a fundamental agnostic yuppie type who, when I moved to Texas, phoned my mum and dad and told them that I was gay because:

a) I went to a Halloween dance dressed as Madonna. The dance sponsored by the Catholic Young Adults group at my church. (BTW -- I had a great time and danced all night with a girl in three piece men's suit!)

b) I got my right ear pierced.

c) I had my hair luminised in the front. It was a nice blondish streak.

So what did I do when I moved out -- in a fit of drunken stupidity, I signed him up for the newsletter from American Gay Atheists. He was only the first of those 3 words! It was a stupid thing to do.

Many years passed -- literally almost 20. We reconciled, and forgave each other. He passed away about 2 years ago after losing both legs and contracting a deadly staph infection. I'm happy that we had a chance for forgiveness.

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[Amy Hepker]

Just leave it a thought and go your own way and be happy it is over with when it is over with. It really maybe a blessing in desguise really as you have had a chance to really think about not dressing and you are about to make a real decission in your life. Now you know what to do with it.

[Laura_Stephens]

Don't mean to pile on, but I agree with Diane. Sorry!

[christinac]

Whoa -- I don't think that Christina is really going to do this -- its just those things that run through your mind as a 'what if'. For example, when you get really p.o.'d at a company or boss or person, sitting down and writing it all out in letter to them, and then destroying the letter before sending it. Sometimes just contemplating the actions makes it all better.

I do agree that It would be wrong to actually do the whatever.

I've done vengeful things like this. I had a cousin (who has passed away R.I.P.) who was a fundamental agnostic yuppie type who, when I moved to Texas, phoned my mum and dad and told them that I was gay because:

a) I went to a Halloween dance dressed as Madonna. The dance sponsored by the Catholic Young Adults group at my church. (BTW -- I had a great time and danced all night with a girl in three piece men's suit!)

b) I got my right ear pierced.

c) I had my hair luminised in the front. It was a nice blondish streak.

So what did I do when I moved out -- in a fit of drunken stupidity, I signed him up for the newsletter from American Gay Atheists. He was only the first of those 3 words! It was a stupid thing to do.

Many years passed -- literally almost 20. We reconciled, and forgave each other. He passed away about 2 years ago after losing both legs and contracting a deadly staph infection. I'm happy that we had a chance for forgiveness.

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

Toni is right. It is not something that I'm going to do because I really do not believe in repaying evil for evil. It was just a though that ran through my mind. This man I'm talking about is not even one tenth the Christian he claims to be. How I ended up there was that he needed about $6,000 worth of repairs done to his house and we made a deal for a room I would do the work for free. He charges $250 a month for a room. Everything was great and he had no problems with me at all until the work started to get completed. Then it has been one thing right after the other and one straight out lie after the other. I could write a book on the situation and his lies.
He making it out to be that I'm living there rent free and doing nothing even though he's getting $6,000 worth of work done as agreed. I could write a book on this man and his lies.

[MentalMercury]

I don't think that's a very fair comment Holly. Just because someone is looking for acceptance doesn't mean they have to like every dickhead in the world.

:heehee:

Fundamentalists are truely a lost cause.

[erickka]

Christina, IMO, this is one of those times that "less is more" If I were in your shoes, I would be thankful for their kindness, leave graciously,(when it is time) , and accept those folks and their beliefs. A dastardly deed like that will have Karma kicking you right in the A** !!

[christinac]

Christina, IMO, this is one of those times that "less is more" If I were in your shoes, I would be thankful for their kindness, leave graciously,(when it is time) , and accept those folks and their beliefs. A dastardly deed like that will have Karma kicking you right in the A** !!

My post was written in a fit of anger. I have never been nor will I ever be the type to repay evil for evil. It would take three days to read the post if I told the whole story, but to sum it up I basically have been used by this person for about 6 to 8 thousand dollars worth of work he could not afford to have done and every was great no problems at all until the work started nearing completion, then all hell cut loose. I'm just going to finish the job that was agreed on and then leave even if I have to sleep under a bridge or in the woods in a cardboard box.

[monika_esteves]

Cheers, Chistina!

I am glad that you wouldnt to that - to pay a kindness with a rude action is not really the best way to go. In Brasil (my country) we have a phrase that says that do this kind of thing is like "to spit in the plate where you just ate".

Also, we never should forget that is not written anywhere that we will need someone help just ONCE in life. Who knows if you will need this person again? Or a person that is friend of this one?

Congratulations to think twice before to do something that you could regreat later!

:)

[Heather_Marie]

Today 05:53 AM
christinac

Originally Posted by erickka
Christina, IMO, this is one of those times that "less is more" If I were in your shoes, I would be thankful for their kindness, leave graciously,(when it is time) , and accept those folks and their beliefs. A dastardly deed like that will have Karma kicking you right in the A** !!

My post was written in a fit of anger. I have never been nor will I ever be the type to repay evil for evil. It would take three days to read the post if I told the whole story, but to sum it up I basically have been used by this person for about 6 to 8 thousand dollars worth of work he could not afford to have done and every was great no problems at all until the work started nearing completion, then all hell cut loose. I'm just going to finish the job that was agreed on and then leave even if I have to sleep under a bridge or in the woods in a cardboard box.

I am so glad you do not repay evil with evil that is not a good thing at all. There are people out there like that and they will get their own in time. You are the better person.

[christinac]

Thank you, Heather, He is already getting his own. As we speak, he was fired from his job today. You reap what you sew. He chose to take advantage of people having a hard time and now it's him having the hard time and two of us are moving out.

[trannie T]

It seems to me that there are some people around here who are as intolerant as those they criticise for being prejudiced.

[rosepowder]

hello??? is anyone really listening to to christina? yes this man gave her a place to stay, but by doing the thousands of dollars worth of repair work for this man, he should also be grateful to her.

as far as repaying evil with evil, come on! if christina really sent the pic, which she clearly stated she had no intention of doing, it is far from an evil act. the worst that could happen is that he would recieve the pic be offended by it and throw it away. or if he liked it he would keep it. is this something i would do? maybe, maybe not , but if christina did it, or anyone else for that matter i would think it very funny.

i also think that christina is not intolerant or slamming christrian fundamentalists. rude people come from all walks of life. the fact that this guy is a fundamentalist is entirely incidental.

let's lighten up girls

[christinac]

Thank you rosepowder!