curious feelings

[Christinedreamer]

As you can see from my avatar I am a big unpassable guy. I adore the most feminie of outfits and lingerie. One thing has puzzled me for years and i was wondering if any others felt the same. I am straight (?) althouugh I have had a few dalliances early in life with female impersonators. I do not find men sexually attractive. When I am en femme I still am not attracted to men, however when I am not en femme and see an attractive TG I get very interested. I have known some that made me weak in the knees from just a glance from them in my direction. I know full well that the plumbing is male but the overall image just makes me say to myself " oh well, we all have a few minor body issues"

Anyone else find this array of emotions is a part of your personality?

[Tamara Croft]

There are some really gorgeous T-Girls out there, enough to make anyone turn their heads a few times ;) I don't think you should worry about it in the slightest, just go with what you feel is right :hugs: nothing wrong with thinking a T-Girl is attractive or anyone else for that matter :)

[brit_cd]

I find myself atracted to them also!! I just like pretty gurls no matter what parts they have!!

[TGMarla]

Why would you not find a CD attractive? We work really hard at it. I sure hope somebody thinks I'm pretty! I think we all find a certain attraction to pretty T-girls. And there's the "kindred souls" element to it as well.

[MJ]

my god yes i find many t-girls sexy . and gg too . theres nothing wrong with that ..

[Angie G]

I have wondered what it would be like buyt for that to happen I'd have to be a GG. hun.:hugs:
Angie

[docrobbysherry]

Basically, it means you're attracted to THAT person. Nothing more, as Tamara said.

I was in Thailand a few years ago. I was close enough to a few Katoi, to touch them. :o They were COMPLETELY convincing. Was I turned on? By two gorgeous ones, yes. Did I sleep with them? Altho I could have, I didn't. I'm straight.

But, I don't think being ATTRACTED to them, or some of the CDs here, (which I'll admit to), makes me gay. Or anyone else, either.

I think if u want to SLEEP with them, that's another matter completely.

[Jean Marie]

Well I am not curious as I have been there done that. AS most others have said I am not attracted to a man, however when enfemme I do find myself desiring the feminine sexual experience, Biggest problem is finding a man that is not the typical male who is a lousy selfish lover. On the other hand my boy side [David] who also is not attracted to a man has grown to prefer dating accomplished CD/TG ladies, he has become very discontent with GGs that turn away from being feminine and try and act like men.

[gagirl1]

AS most others have said I am not attracted to a man, however when enfemme I do find myself desiring the feminine sexual experience, Biggest problem is finding a man that is not the typical male who is a lousy selfish lover.

i know exactly what you mean by that. i feel the same way. it's terrifying though. how did you get the courage to try it?

[CaptLex]

my boy side [David] who also is not attracted to a man has grown to prefer dating accomplished CD/TG ladies, he has become very discontent with GGs that turn away from being feminine and try and act like men.
Isn't that a bit of the pot calling the kettle black? How would you feel about women that would say the same in reverse, "discontent with men that turn away from being masculine and try to act like women"? :raisedeyebrow:

Seems to me you managed to insult men and women in the same post as you also feel that most men are lousy lovers.

You like CD/TG ladies, that's cool, but live and let live, hon.

[Kayla_CD]

Basically, it means you're attracted to THAT person. Nothing more, as Tamara said.

I was in Thailand a few years ago. I was close enough to a few Katoi, to touch them. :o They were COMPLETELY convincing. Was I turned on? By two gorgeous ones, yes. Did I sleep with them? Altho I could have, I didn't. I'm straight.

But, I don't think being ATTRACTED to them, or some of the CDs here, (which I'll admit to), makes me gay. Or anyone else, either.

I think if u want to SLEEP with them, that's another matter completely.

Now this is where it gets tricky. I'm attracted to crossdressers and would like to sleep with them. I would not like to have that experience with a man (but never say never). Does this make me gay? Does it make me straight? bi? Hell, it just makes me, me!

[LilSissyStevie]

I used to be confused by all this, but at some point I realized that I wasn't attracted to males. I just thought I should be because I liked to dress like a girl and needed to have sex like a girl. I can still be attracted to the image that a crossdresser presents. But its just the image I'm attracted to. Sexually, there is nothing a guy can do to you that a properly accessorized woman can't do better and their real bits are a lot more interesting.
:love:

[CD Susan]

Sometimes I will feel a sexual attraction towards a sexy and beautiful looking cd. The feeling is one of curiosity more than anything else. I have never acted on these feelings as I consider myself to be straight. I get curious to the point that I will start to fantasize about this and then reality will set in and the feeling will go away. This is a strange feeling for me to experience.

[Deborah Jane]

Some of the gurls here are gorgeous and i have to admit, though i,ve always considered myself straight, sometimes i do wonder about it!!

[SandiBluffs]

I am not attracted to men at all But fantasize about being with another T girl....go figure

[27th Jennifer]

Hey, a hot chick is a hot chick!

[Sylviatg]

Honey, do whatever you're comfortable with. Nothing wrong with being attracted to gurls, GGs or men for that matter

[MsJanessa]

Well I'm not particularly attracted to the bois but a pretty CD is another matter. The hottest relationships I've had have been with TGs:dom:

[Kate Simmons]

Beauty is beauty my friend. The idea is to be comfortable with being yourself and being in touch with your feelings.:)

[deja true]

What you find attractive in T-girls is what you find attractive in GG's,right?

If our genitals had anything to do with real attraction, we'd all be naked all the time in order to show them off.

What we all love is the appearance, the attitude, the mindset, the disposition, that compliment what we have in our hearts.

Go with the heart, Christine, that's where love lives....

[Suzy Harrison]

I should think so too ~ it takes me ages to look like this :heehee:

[georgeous]

Wheter or not i'm dressed en femme i find myself attracted by t-girls and would like to have that experience if my SO would join. I would not act on these feelings without her. I'm not attracted to men even though i know the plumbing on t-girls are the same.

[Syndi]

As you can see from my avatar I am a big unpassable guy. I adore the most feminie of outfits and lingerie. One thing has puzzled me for years and i was wondering if any others felt the same. I am straight (?) althouugh I have had a few dalliances early in life with female impersonators. I do not find men sexually attractive. When I am en femme I still am not attracted to men, however when I am not en femme and see an attractive TG I get very interested. I have known some that made me weak in the knees from just a glance from them in my direction. I know full well that the plumbing is male but the overall image just makes me say to myself " oh well, we all have a few minor body issues"

Anyone else find this array of emotions is a part of your personality?

Yeah me too.

[Bonnie D]

I am attracted to women in a different way than I am attracted to men, if that makes any sense. I also enjoy sex with both genders but in different ways and for different reasons, well not everything is different. I like CDs as friends, although I have also had sex with a number of them too but it is not something I am looking for. Whether or not I am crossdressed does not matter when it comes to sex, my mental frame of mind does.

Bonnie

[Emily Anderson]

I find it quite obvious that guys that are into GG's would also find CD's and T-girls attractive too. After all, a lot of us MtF's are trying to imitate that feminine beauty which we find so attractive in the first place.

[morgan pure]

Part of wanting to look like a girl is love of the form. Most trannies I know love women, too, and often sexually.
I've always been loved by young women and girls, because they know that I love them and won't touch them. They don't suspect that I'm identifying with them.

[Jean Marie]

Dear Christine, I feel exactly the same way. David my boy side has just about stopped dating GGs in favor of accomplished CD or TG ladies. To him it makes no difference waht ever physical feature are in a ladies panties. It is kind of like the duck story, if it looks and acts like a duck [Lady] then it must be a lady. Dear one if you ever get the desire to be in the strong arms of a man that truly understands, let me know and I'll pass the word on to david.

[Traci_Ann CD]

Sometimes I will feel a sexual attraction towards a sexy and beautiful looking cd. The feeling is one of curiosity more than anything else. I have never acted on these feelings as I consider myself to be straight. I get curious to the point that I will start to fantasize about this and then reality will set in and the feeling will go away. This is a strange feeling for me to experience.
Susan, I have had the same feelings. For example, I find Deborah Jane...extremely sexy but I am one who would welcome a chance to explore a relationship with a sexy Tgirl or CD'er such as Deborah and I've always considered myself straight as well.

As the old saying goes..."First time for everything" :)

[Nicole Erin]

There are some really gorgeous T-Girls out there, enough to make anyone turn their heads a few times ;)

Oh shucks folks, Tamara is talking about me again. :heehee:

ANYways, yeah no harm in finding another CD/TS attractive.
Christine, just try not to forget that it is still some guy under all that pretty. I mean like if you get a chance to be with a CD, don't be too shocked when you discover that the nasty bodily smells, stubble and skin feel, and all that is still masculine.

Unless it were me, no part of my body ever smells funky and my skin is smooth all the time. Cause I am gorgeous, just like Tamara was implying.

[darla_g]

as for Drag Queens i've seen some that look fine up on stage but when you seem 'em up close just not that attractive.

Marla is right there are some CDs who are knockouts.

[kaitlin]

I fully understand the feeling! Although I have never been with another male, there is something about the look of a female and the plumming of a male! Such a turn on!!! Oh well, :daydreaming:maybe one day I'll know! Kaitlin