If you had one choice . . .

[abundantly_me]

Is there one particular ritual or article of clothing, that heightens the experience of becoming 'enfemme' for you?

[Carly D.]

PANTYHOSE ... Had to go all caps there, just the way I feel..

[Jilmac]

For me it's hooking up my bra, inserting my silicone breast forms, and watching my chest transform from flat to voluptous. Luv and :hugs: Jill

[sheerhot]

I agree with Carly: sheer, slinky, slippery silky hose.

[Jaydee]

:yt: I agree with Carly.

Jaydee

[kimberlyt221]

Me too! Although skirts and heels come a VERY close second.

[Ellen47]

Same here pantyhose all the way.

[Rayanna]

For me its my pantyhose and heels. I love the feel and sound of heels on a hard floor.

[KandisTX]

Cannot honestly answer this one.. it's not just one thing... it's EVERYTHING.. from the undermost panties, to the outermost blouse that creates/heightens, or increases the en femme experience. I must be dressed from the tips of my toes to the top of my head for it to "work" for me.

Kandis:love::rose2:

[adelle]

panty hose and heels with freshly painted toes

[Deborah Jane]

I can,t choose just one...I love it all!!
I just enjoy the whole experiance of becoming femme.:)

[CD Susan]

I can't single out any one particular item. All of it is stimulating to me. I think being completely dressed from head to toe including jewelry and perfume is the most stimulating. I particularly like trying on an article of clothing for the first time. The first time seems so much more exciting than subsequent times.

[Isis]

a bath and shave......... then sliding on my silkiest pantyhose. YUMMY!!!!!:o

[susan2010]

Nothing beats a slip as far as I'm concerned, especially a full slip with lots of lacy at top and bottom. that's the most feminine article there is.

[victoriamwilliams1]

Hose and heels, hair & make up.

[PheonaP]

HEELS, without a doubt.

[EnglishRose]

Well it's all very enjoyable putting on the panties, bra, hose etc, but I never feel happy until my dress or fem top, and heels, have gone on :daydreaming:

[Ruth]

As a man with very little left on top, I think a wig is probably the single most potent symbol of femininity for me. Doesn't matter what other slinky sexy clothing has gone on, no wig, no Ruth.

[abundantly_me]

Thanks to all that posted a reply.

I was a little surprised in one way by the pantyhose, because to me, it has always been after a day at work, I get home, shoes off first then immediately off goes the panty hose. I'm glad I no longer have to dress up at work for that very reason. But in the same breath I can totally understand, especially when getting dressed to go out for an evening.

[Joy Carter]

For me It's the whole package, dressing up in nice clothes, makeup, pretty jewlery, but it's not done untill I put some perfume on. Yeah, that's what makes me feel real girlie. :battingeyelashes:

[boy2girl31]

Cannot honestly answer this one.. it's not just one thing... it's EVERYTHING.. from the undermost panties, to the outermost blouse that creates/heightens, or increases the en femme experience. I must be dressed from the tips of my toes to the top of my head for it to "work" for me.

Kandis


I have to agree if I could only have 1 choice I just couldn't chose.

[finacarina]

Sexy heels for me!!!

[Angela Dressing]

Nothing beats a slip as far as I'm concerned, especially a full slip with lots of lacy at top and bottom. that's the most feminine article there is.

I love wearing a slip, bra, and hose. Its all I really need:daydreaming:

[dominique]

It's got to be putting on brand new pair of tights for me it's wonderful and sensous.

[Amy Hepker]

Satin Dress, Satin Corset. Satin Panties, Satin Slip, PINK!!!

[Lisa Rose]

Breast Forms. It's put me over the top for my experiences.

[Stacye Rose]

Maybe I'm a little bit OCD, but I always dress in the same order, lingerie,make-up then clothes etc. for me it's the last two things I do, put on my heels then put on my wig and look in the full lenth mirror and see Stacye for the first time. After 30 plus years I still get a feeling of peace and rightness when I see her for the first time.

[erickka]

It is the whole package for me too. From hose to boobs and everything in between.

[Karren H]

Nope.... One, I don't really get hightened.... and two.... it's the total package.... I'm not really enfemme till I've slung my purse over my sholder and headed out the door....

[Sarah...]

For me it's serious pampering before, during and after a bath. All that soft, smooth skin is ultra important to enjoy whatever I want to wear. After that there's no one thing that defines my femme appearance as it would depend on how I was feeling.

Sarah...

[TGMarla]

For me it really all starts with the pantyhose, too. But I don't want to take away from the rest of the experience. I find that when I'm dressed all the way, I'm not wearing one single thing that a man would wear, so I get a big feminine charge out of the whole package. Shoes, slips, dresses, boobs, bras, pretty hair, jewelry, perfume.... I love it all.

[Sarasometimes]

I will go with a bra. even when i can't wear more than that it gets me thinking femme. i would prefer not to be limited to just one article. Wig would be a close second followed by hose then heels (polished toes are a given, right?)

[tammysuetv]

I would vote for Pantyhose too. They just make it all feel right.

[Kimberly Marie Kelly]

What make me feel most feminine is wearing Thongs and a short Mini Skirt, especially a tight fitting mini. I feel that my legs and derriere are my best assets and when I am wearing a mini with a minimalist t-back thong, it makes me feel so feminine and sexy. :battingeyelashes:

[Megan70]

Black Nylon Stockings and garter belt... WOW!!!!!

[rexy]

I WILL VOTE FOR PANTYHOSE TOO !!!:love:

[jamie-upstate]

standing in front of the mirror in my high heels and panties while putting on my makeup is just the best feeling
:daydreaming:

[Slip Affinity]

Nothing beats a slip as far as I'm concerned, especially a full slip with lots of lacy at top and bottom. that's the most feminine article there is.

I agree wholeheartedly. :)

[Angela-Russell]

The usual ritual for me is to have a long hot bath, then spray myself with nice deodorant/body spray, & paint my toenails. Next put on some nice underwear. Then I do my make-up. Next I'll put on my wig, & then look in the full length mirror. I see a girl standing there in bra & knickers looking back at me. That puts me on a "high" for the rest of my dressing session.

[Sarah Doepner]

The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.
That being said, I don't see Sarah until the wig goes on. At that moment I can look in the mirror and everything but the girl is gone.

[Claire3]

i love my pantyhose and slips

[lilmissemily]

For me it's hooking up my bra, inserting my silicone breast forms, and watching my chest transform from flat to voluptous. Luv and :hugs: Jill

Exactly! I just did that a few minutes ago, and it's the highlight of my night!

[rian]

I think wearing & even removing my pantyhose and the bras 7 a skirt , its a ritual I love to do .

[Jenny Ann]

Pantyhose and high heels would do it for me.

[Heather613]

Panties for me actually. I always seem to feel so femme when I look at my backside and see it in nice satin panties (pink ones preferably).

H

[laura.lapinski]

Bra's, and panties do it for me, but I like wearing tight fitting denum carpis, and a nice hip hugging, long-sleeve blouse. I also love tight dresses about mid-thigh height that hug me so I can feel the sensation of the dress. I wish I had a wig too.

[georgeous]

I LOVE MY HOSE AND PANTIES, BUT I LIKE DRESSING UP ALL THE WAY TOO. I JUST HAVE FOAM FORMS RIGHT NOW CANT WAIT TIL I GET SOME SILICONE ONES.:o

[maid phylis]

for me its also putting on by bra and inserting my breast formf and also putting on my girdle and nylon stockings.:love:phylisanne

[Carol A]

Since a teenager it has been hose & heels, my wife get's upset because I am always buying another pair of heels

[DeeDeeB]

For me it's the whole package too, but to answer the question, since I put on heels to make my morning coffee, I guess I'd have to say that's my fave.

Dee :fairy1:

[Lisa Rose]

For me it's the whole package too, but to answer the question, since I put on heels to make my morning coffee, I guess I'd have to say that's my fave.

Dee :fairy1:

You Too??? As soon as I'm in for the evening the boots come off, the heels go on until bedtime, then the first thing on in the morning are the heels. :o:battingeyelashes::love::drink:

[Kayla_CD]

For me it's definitely the lipstick, it always completes a look and makes an instant change to how I look (and act!).

[Lara Smith]

Panties, panties, panties! Pretty under wired bras. High heels. So, pretty panties, then a pretty bra, and walking around in panties, bra and high heels. How can you not feel completely girly ands sexy?

[deja true]

There's a glorious feeling in the accoutrements, and the more wardrobe on the body, the bigger and better the feeling.

But, in truth, I start to feel it when I just hear or see my name. That's where the identity is. The clothes can go away. I'd miss them, but deja will always be here now!

[christid66]

I've tried dressing without hose and heels.....but it's just not the same for me without them

[amymax]

cant beat pantyhose and heels

[Frankinstine]

The thong. The thong does it for me. I always, well almost, have to wear a thong when dressing up at all. even now, im wearing my moms spandex workout pants and a thong. it just doesn't feel right without it.

[Robyn2006]

After a long bath and shaving fest, after getting everything right... breast forms attached (with my wonderful Bali Lace 'N Smooth bra, a plug here for this!), outfit or dress just right, et al, foundational and eye makeup as perfect as I can make it, it's only then when I can bring myself to do the one thing that is so gloriously feminine for me... the one thing that takes me completely into my world of femininity. It's only at this moment when I finally feel I've... well, earned the right to put on my lipstick, as silly as this may sound. For me, there is just nothing quite like the feeling of looking myself in the mirror with every inch of me as much a woman as possible and then completing my look with my lipstick ju jour, usually some shade of red..., deep coral reds being my favorite (today it's Estee Lauder's Woodland Rose). This is truly a magical moment for me in my transition, one that I always save for last.

Sorry for the long answer here. Just having fun! :kiss:

Robyn

[Slip Affinity]

I've said it in other threads but it bears repeating ... I LOVE slips. But it's even better when I add a bra, panty and thigh highs. I guess I like it all.

[Christine Andrews]

For me it is the item which stimulated the curiousity and the first item I wore - tights. They are for me, definitively femanine.

They feel incredibly comfortable and natural to me, look fantastic and on a practical note stop any chaffing that male jeans cause on the rare occasions I am brave enough/have a safe opportunity to underdress.

However, I have begun working towards a full outfit and progressing to try to dress for periods of time fully enfeeme - although this is difficult between, uni, work and living with my parents and I am strictly in the closet - and the feeling of being fully dressed is powerful. Even so, I find myself gravitating towards denim miniskirts with tights.

Tights are my number one item but even they are starting to pale to the experience of being fully femme.

[EjayeCD]

There is nothing like slipping on a nice pair of Victoria's Secret Second Skin Satin panties & wearing them under my ugly boy clothes.

[heather42fl]

A garter belt and stockings does it for me!

[Jessica212]

The thong. The thong does it for me. I always, well almost, have to wear a thong when dressing up at all. even now, im wearing my moms spandex workout pants and a thong. it just doesn't feel right without it.

It's a thong for me too. I absolutely love them, and can't go anywhere without one on.

A second for me would have to be wearing a bikini - I wish I could just go to the beach in one!

(I also love boyshorts, especially lacy ones - I have way too many to count. ;))

[daviolin]

I love everything that woman gets to wear. From my pretty hair do down to the bow on my pumps. But if i was stuck on a desert island, I guess a pair of pantyhose would be my pick. I HATE THAT WHEN SOMEONE ASKS THAT QUESTION:eek:Daviolin

[Susancd]

a bath and shave......... then sliding on my silkiest pantyhose. YUMMY!!!!!:o

Me too!!!!!!!!

[StephanieH]

Panties... heels... stockings... in that order.

Take care! :)

[Tomara]

For me it would have to be panties , bra and forms . :o Tomara

[Samantha43]

Cannot honestly answer this one.. it's not just one thing... it's EVERYTHING.. from the undermost panties, to the outermost blouse that creates/heightens, or increases the en femme experience. I must be dressed from the tips of my toes to the top of my head for it to "work" for me.

Kandis:love::rose2:

I agree. It is all or nothing for me.

[jayme357]

Wow! What a great question! I say that because I have asked myself the same question many times. The way I come to an answer is to ask what do I choose to wear when I have only an hour or so before the real female comes home. Number one is always the bra and forms. Always. I can wear the same T-shirt with or without boobs. Then the heels and long earrings.(These are so easy to put on and take off, and give me instant gratification). From there it is just a series of building blocks that depend on the time available. Makeup is not usually an option other than perhaps lipstick. Since I keep my toes painted most of the time hose is not really an option. (Ladies, one does not wear hose with open toed shoes). I can usually apply Mascara as well since my sort of droopy eyelids help hide it. In reality, it doesn't matter. Whatever we are cofortable wit, and whatever makes us feel good about ourselves is just fine.

Love you all.

[Veronica 1]

For me it is hose, heels, thongs and lipstick.

[ellieparsons]

Pantyhose and Heels

[lizzie]

Hmmm well for the time being I do not and cannot have clothes, but when I did, my bra felt the most feminine out of all the clothes I had :)

[Carol A]

Oh gosh, since I have been a teenager it's stockings and heels.

Even if I'm under dressed I still have my stockings on.:daydreaming:

[Joanne f]

A nice long dress.






joanne

[jenny logan]

When the bra straps go over the shoulders the pink fog has definitely set in. I really enjoy it all, especially when an outfit "comes together". The well accessorized, perfectly co ordinated skirted business suit puts me in cd heaven every time.

Jenny L.

[tamara]

high heels. No doubt. And second place for lipstick....

[Lauren Gray]

Pantyhose or stockings with heels and skirts following closely behind. And then, closely behind those bras and......

[Emily Anderson]

panties!!!

[rata]

A nice dress and heels.

[TammiHeartilly]

That would definitely be the feeling of pantyhose on freshly shaved legs, I’m not ever in complete femme mode without it.

[janet p]

the pull of stockings on my garter!:love::love:

[jackie storm]

Is there one particular ritual or article of clothing, that heightens the experience of becoming 'enfemme' for you?

I always thought that one article of clothing obsession is a fetish, but "enfemme" is a state of being.:)

[Melissa Anne]

I would have to agree with everyone who said pantyhose. I love them and can't be enfemme without them.

[PaulaMea]

It's actually the experience of putting on makeup and watching my face transform in the mirror. Usually, I have been anticipating dressing for a few days and that adds to the excitement as well.



Is there one particular ritual or article of clothing, that heightens the experience of becoming 'enfemme' for you?

[Jennifer Marie P.]

Hose and heels and a sexy dress to go with it

[StephanieH]

Heels, stockings, garters, panties... in that order I think! :)

[Sophia de la luz]

Heels do it. I like the sound and the feel of wearing them, what they ask of my body to walk in them.
Pantyhose are right there too. And with a nice short skirt and a slinky top.

[Jessicainme]

It would be heels for me.

Jessica

[janexx]

Heels drive me! Hose next. Putting my forms into my bra next, I have three sizes of forms and the bigger they are the more I love them!

Love, Jane

[Rose01]

Skirts or long dresses make me feel sexy.

[PamelaTX]

After waiting nearly 50 years to admit the truth to myself? Anything will do.

[Nikki Cox]

Black seamed stockings, a gaff, and panties.

[susan fuller]

I agree that it all feels good to me but I love the feel of a real sexy garter belt and nylons. Don't care as much for pantyhose. Of course with them I must have a real nice pair of high heels.

[Dixie]

Thong panties with garters and stockings:daydreaming::D