Absolutely mortifying moment

[ashley82]

I had a terrible moment today, mostly due to my own stupidity. My buddy was over and I was showing him pictures, and then went to show him something on the web. Well, I had forgotten that I had this site open in the browser and minimized to the dock. I hit the safari button, and out pops the site with "crossdresser" in huge pink letters. My face immediately turned 8 shades of purple, I closed the window, and tried to go about what I was doing, but was still visibly shaken. Basically just moved on with the conversation as if nothing had happened, though by this point I swear my head was even sweating. Sigh.

[ronni]

Wow, Ashley, about every single time now, every time I try to log on, somebody walks by and I scramble to hide it, we shouldn't have to do that.

[shewizz2]

I know I only do it with the doors locked and a good excuse!!!!!!!!!!!

[Tamara Croft]

Solution: Install Mozilla Fire bird as a secondary browser and use it to access this site.Use MicroSoft's Internet Disaster for all other browsing needs. Delete Firebirds desktop icon and use only the one in the program menu.


That way you don't have to be MORPHIFIED ever again!!
And that will do what exactly?? magically disappear when she leaves the browser open again??? *omg... someone is coming.... I'm going close myself* :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

[Melissa A.]

Hey Ashley,

Some would say that there are no accidents. Maybe your'e trying to out yourself.

Hugs,

Melissa :)

[philmaria]

All you can do is hope your friend doesn't let your secret out,or maybe it could be a good thing,if your secret is out,then you don't have to hide

[Wendy me]

a real good at it coumpter person i am not... ok my son comes over to use the coumpter ... turns it on and my yahoo thingy comes up as cdingme..... ok fixed that so it dosen't go on when the coumpter starts now...and what do you think is in my fav's thingy????? by the time i got smart enough to figger out thatr he could get in that and then check it out he probly has done it alkl ready ....so like terifing moments ....mortifing moments well a few but you get over it soon....no worse than running into one of the wifes girlfreinds while your out shopping and you got a ton of things that your wife won't fit in ..... after a while it just dosen't matter ...

but if your swaeting it with you buddy then tell him you were looking at porn and this site poped up.... see on the inter net you can blame porn for almost any thing.......

[linda glam]

im always panicking when my wife walks in heaven forbid that should happen!i guess i would have to come clean!

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

i dont have those problems,, everyone who knows me knows i dress :D

[Darlene.]

What is the big deal? If I wasn’t a cross-dresser would I need an excuse to check out sites like this? Over reaction is one of the symptoms of a very deep closet, and can become our enemy.

Love Darlene

[jjjjohanne]

If he knows, and he didn't react, then you are past that issue. He isn't going to confront you in a dramatic way. If he knows, he may one day get the nerve to bring it up to you. You will be able to talk to him about it. All guys get driven by their hormones in some direction. Personally, I am happier that mine drive me toward CDing versus watching strangers, or messing with children, or thinking about other women when I am with my wife. CDing isn't as bad as what I could have found myself drawn toward!

The second issue is what if he mentions it to someone? Then, there is the benefit of the doubt issue. He and anyone he might tell have no evidence except that you had the page up. They might only watch going forward for clues that support this evidence. I told my girlfriend that I like to wear stuff (the first person I ever told.) Then we broke up. Then, I think she told my best friend. It has never come up. I think he has told me about some of his struggles hoping that I would open up to him. I never have. I hope it does not hurt him that I am keeping something like this to myself when he has been so open, but I am not ready to share my feelings about CDing with him. So.... it never comes up.

This may not be all that bad for you. Take heart!

[Natasha Anne]

I don't care so much that people see the logo, but it does make it tough to do a quick sneak browse of the site at the office. The logo stands out too much.

[Ariel]

If he didn't say anything, and is still your buddy, no problem. Could also be he is a CDer, also, and isn't comfortable talking about it either, or could be he isn't, but is open minded, or could be he ........ god, the list goes on and on. Just take it one day at a time, and see what happens with him. Plan your response incase he does bring it up, be it the truth, or the porn site that way you will sound convincing, either way.

Hugs
Ariel