Amy Hepker
06-29-2008, 06:34 AM
Hi Ladies,
For me I started changing little things, like wearing lipstick that is the same color as my lips, (nobody will notice) Clear Mascara, (yes, there is such stuff), Underdressing with hose, I
also started wearing Bras, but at first I wore Bras that were not padded, I also started wearing a shirt over my t-shirt and did not fasten it up, just left it open, (it is in style) to hide the bra straps, in the office one could wear a tank top over the Bra and under the shirt. Start out with no padding in the bra, and let a few months go by, then go out and by a Bra that has a little padding to it (unless you are taking something to grow your breasts, then it will happen by itself) keep going to a fuller padded Bra every few months. Make it look like they are growing.
If anyone says anything just tell them you had to take Steroids or you were really heavy years ago and it is growing naturally. You can even start to pluck your eyebrows a few at a time on each side, do everything slowly and take your time and most will not know what you are doing until it is done. If guys do start to bother you about it, there are laws that say no one can harass you at work, they could be fired. Then when you are ready start to change your clothing to be more female. The thing you have to remember is you have plenty of time and if you take it slow you and others will adjust better.
I say you because at first you will be scared that someone will find out, you will overcome this as time goes on. Just stay friendly with those who are nice to you and stay away from the jerks who always have a stupid comment to make. I had one guy start saying something about my new breasts one day and tried to grab at one (now I know how girls feel) I pushed his hand away and he tried to say I was embarrassed of them and I said NO I am proud of them. He has not harassed me about them since.
Free yourself and have FUN and ENJOY!!!!
For me I started changing little things, like wearing lipstick that is the same color as my lips, (nobody will notice) Clear Mascara, (yes, there is such stuff), Underdressing with hose, I
also started wearing Bras, but at first I wore Bras that were not padded, I also started wearing a shirt over my t-shirt and did not fasten it up, just left it open, (it is in style) to hide the bra straps, in the office one could wear a tank top over the Bra and under the shirt. Start out with no padding in the bra, and let a few months go by, then go out and by a Bra that has a little padding to it (unless you are taking something to grow your breasts, then it will happen by itself) keep going to a fuller padded Bra every few months. Make it look like they are growing.
If anyone says anything just tell them you had to take Steroids or you were really heavy years ago and it is growing naturally. You can even start to pluck your eyebrows a few at a time on each side, do everything slowly and take your time and most will not know what you are doing until it is done. If guys do start to bother you about it, there are laws that say no one can harass you at work, they could be fired. Then when you are ready start to change your clothing to be more female. The thing you have to remember is you have plenty of time and if you take it slow you and others will adjust better.
I say you because at first you will be scared that someone will find out, you will overcome this as time goes on. Just stay friendly with those who are nice to you and stay away from the jerks who always have a stupid comment to make. I had one guy start saying something about my new breasts one day and tried to grab at one (now I know how girls feel) I pushed his hand away and he tried to say I was embarrassed of them and I said NO I am proud of them. He has not harassed me about them since.
Free yourself and have FUN and ENJOY!!!!