Not This Way, Please

[Donna Delite]

Although I was working on going out dressed soon I wasn't prepared to "come out" quite like this. Last week when I was emailing some pics of myself dressed(to the max) I sent some and then logged onto the web site. I then wanted to check an email I sent one of the members and I noticed that my last email, the one with the pics was sent to my MOTHER. :eek:
About 5 min later I get an email from my MOTHER. She said it took her a few minutes to figure out that it was me and not my sister. Of course there were many ?'s that I had to answer.
At this point I figured what the hell and opened up fully to her. She told me she wouldn't tell my father or sisters and it would be our secret, well my wife has known for years.
What happened next was totally unexpected, she told me that I looked great and asked for me to send her more pics. This couldn't get any freakier! I haven't seen her since the incident but I will soon. In a way I feel good about what happened and now feel even more fem than ever. How lucky can a cd be, both his wife & mother approve.

[Clare]

At least you didn't have the associated nerves in advance of revealing yourself to Mum!!!

You're so lucky to have two GG's who love and accept you for what you are - a wonderful person regardless of your clothing choice!

Christine

[Donna Delite]

Thanks Christine, yes, I am lucky.

[obsessedwithpantyhose]

when i was 12 my mom caught me in my sisters pantyhose and freaked out and sent me to shrinks,, to this day 30 yrs later mom still dont approve,, sis never cared nor did my dad,, everyone who knows me knows i dress in some form or another,,and my wife luvs that i dress :D

i forgot to say my mom dont have email or is even online......

[DonnaT]

Good thing they were nice pictures, nothing naughty :D

Hell of a way to come out. Glad it worked out :)

[Chrissycd]

I just hope it continues to go better than expected for you. Many girls spend months and even years trying to get up the courage to tell parents. You just saved yourself alot of time.

[Holly]

Donna,

What a nice ending to what could have been a very uncomfortable situation. I'll never have the chance to tell my mom as she passed away over 13 years ago. I honestly don't know how she woud take the news.

[Sigrid]

:eek: You must have been beside yourself when you realized your mistake! I'm just thankful to here she took it so well. You are indeed one of the lucky ones.

~Sigrid

[Khriss]

sure- Why would anyone deny the beautiful- "model"- in They're family??- hehe ,,,,,xxx"K"

[Stephanie Brooks]

Wow, that's great! ^_^

[Donna Delite]

I would never have told my mom about my cd'ing. Now that this has happened and I plan on going out dressed soon I guess I can say I'm "out" and it feels great.

[Deidra Cowen]

I'm gald it worked out so well! Your mom sounds like a great lady.

[Sharon]

I'm so glad this worked out as well as it has for you Donna. Even though this was all done inadvertently, I still want to say congratulations!

[Donna Delite]

thx, coming out is fantastic

[Rikki]

Donna9, that is great that your mom took it so well, you are one of us lucky ones . That is a great way to come out, gives them time to cool off before they can confront you, or to admire you. Besides, what mom wouldn't admire such a beauty in the family?


Rikki

[Jill]

I had a similar experience once. I have a good friend who knows about this side of me and I emailed her about it with a unspecific reference to it. I accidentally sent it to my best friend. Who responded immediately asking what I was talking about. I was just glad I wasn't specific in the email.

[Donna Delite]

Rikki- thx hun, I never thought something like this would make me feel so good

[Wendy me]

donna glade things went well and you are lucky that your wife is ok with your cding....
my mom knows she told me that she knew all along .....and she is ok with it she never seen me dressed (not quite ready for that).....my wife knows but just dosen't want to have anything to do with it ..........

[Donna Delite]

Wendy- My wife seems to be fully supportive right down to buying me clothes and taking pics. But deep down I still wonder????? :rolleyes:

[Priscilla1018]

Donna you are indeed one of the very lucky ones to have a wife and mother that accept you as you are.My wife accepts me,my mother,no way am I even going to go there.I bet you feel like a great weight has been lifted.

Love and Hugs,
Priscilla

[Like2BAspen]

You have come a long way since we started chatting. My parents would have a stroke. I may get my sister a little drunk and tell her what happened to some of her clothes I think she would be more acceptable of me I may have to take her shopping to make it up. Any time I deal with women it costs me money damn.

[Georgette]

[QUOTE=donna9]Wendy- My wife seems to be fully supportive right down to buying me clothes and taking pics. But deep down I still


I just wish you the best my wife also found out but did approve then all off a sudden out of the blue she says either Georgette or her, I think she felt, that Georgette was a threat to her and got to the point of being very jealous of her. She used to buy me clothes abd we woild go shopping together for clothes but you never know what is around the next corner. I am Happy for you to feel accepted by your wife and mother.
Hope all ends well. :)

[Alie]

My mother caught me as a young boy using her eye make-up.

I caught it for that.

She is 80 now. I am glad she doesn't use E-Mail

Who knows, moms will be moms. They love their kids!










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