Enjoying the Transformation

[Deborah Jane]

One of the biggest joys i,ve found since completely accepting myself as a crossdresser is the ability to be able to completely transform my look from that of an average guy into that of a woman.

I love being able to go from being an average guy in the street into becoming a glamourous, sexy [in my eyes] woman whenever i please.

It,s a really great feeling to see the woman inside appear in the mirror in front of my eyes as i transform my look.

Does anyone else feel like this, or is the transformation part just a neccesary part you go through to reach the desired end result?

[Tina Dixon]

I get that feeling every now and then when I do the transformation, but it really floored me the last time I went and had a make over done, I looked in the mirror and thought "My god thats not me, I'm like gorgeous" just could not believe a ugly duckling could turn in to a swan, it is amazing.

[Holly]

It's as if something beautiful on the inside is brought to the outside. :battingeyelashes:

[Deborah Jane]

It's as if something beautiful on the inside is brought to the outside. :battingeyelashes:

Nicely said Holly...
Now why couldn,t i have put it as simply as that!!

[Davinnia]

I totally agree, I love the actual process of transforming into a woman. First, the lingerie, then dressing, shoes, makeup & wig. Finally, purfume & lipstick. Then look in the full length mirror & the wonderful feeling of seeing a [hopefully atractive ] woman looking back.
Then I'm ready to face the world, well, just my wife actually.

[NoraTV]

Getting dressed and putting on makeup is like being born for me. I take my time (which is good, because it takes a long time). It's almost like a religious ritual. As I complete each step I feel my true self emerge.

Just thinking about it has made me cry.

[darla_g]

I remember picking out this dress once and a particular wig, putting it all on and then when i looked in the mirror I reminded myself of one of my aunts! not the look i was going for.

[Kate Simmons]

The transformation process involves positive energy feedback which is additive. It amounts to very much more than going from one "look" to the other. Magical? You might say that in a way Deb.;):)

[Angie G]

It is a good feeling like you have created something beautiful. :hugs:
Angie

[Jamie S.]

I love seeing the male me disappear. Just looking in the mirror and seeing him fade away into nothingness makes me feel happy for a while. So yes, I do enjoy the transformation.

[Jennifer Marie P.]

I love transforming into the beautiful woman that is trapped inside and I'Mm amazed at the results of how I change to the woman I'm supposed to be

[Gemma Rhodes]

One of the biggest joys i,ve found since completely accepting myself as a crossdresser is the ability to be able to completely transform my look from that of an average guy into that of a woman.

I love being able to go from being an average guy in the street into becoming a glamourous, sexy [in my eyes] woman whenever i please.

It,s a really great feeling to see the woman inside appear in the mirror in front of my eyes as i transform my look.

Does anyone else feel like this, or is the transformation part just a neccesary part you go through to reach the desired end result?


You and me really do have a lot in common Deborah.

[Kristen Kelly]

Putting on my make-up changing the earrings and shoes still does something to me, it's like the icing on top of the cake makes me just a little sweeter. I always feel fem since I have grown and highlighted my hair my personality doesn't change but putting on the makeup and going out is for me is the same feeling I get the when I go out on stage

[Shelly67]

All of the time I crave for that moment when I emerge .......the real me .
Trouble is , I have to wait a whole week for that special moment ......

[renee k]

I love seeing the male me disappear. Just looking in the mirror and seeing him fade away into nothingness makes me feel happy for a while. So yes, I do enjoy the transformation.

My sentiments exactly!!

Huggs, Renee

[tricia_uktv]

Yes, I absolutely agree. Its the most wonderful feeling (for us) in the world!

[Jocelyn Quivers]

I love transforming into the beautiful woman that is trapped inside and I'Mm amazed at the results of how I change to the woman I'm supposed to be

Same here as well. :thumbsup:

[TGMarla]

Sure I like it. It's one of the reasons I like to dress. I've been doing this so long, sometimes it's like a return to normal. When I'm done getting dressed, it's like "Aaahhh! At last. Finally." And there's a wash of relief, knowing that I can stay this way for several hours.

Getting there is half the fun!

[Carol A]

I have been dressing for so long it's an everyday thing for me but the real thrill comes after the makeup and I put my wig on. To this day I still get excited when I look up into the mirror and see who I really am. :love:

[Kristen Marie]

You said it sooo well. And I find part way through the process, usually after the foundation but before the blush, eyes, lipstick, etc., I ask myself...is this going to work. My face hasgone from that average guy look to a blah nothing. Then slowly, the transformation takes shape...and there's always something special about putting on the wig, fluffing out the hair a bit with the shake of the head, and arriving! I love it!!!! Dare I say it's a bit erotic?

[judge75]

I agree! Jeannie

[Coquette]

As somebody once said, "the journey is the reward!" Enjoy every minute of it!

[Mitch23]

Never ceases to amaze me - the transformation from drab to beautiful ...

mitch

[Dawna Ellen Bays]

I Loooooooove the transformation process when I get to see my male self gradually disappear into Dawna. The best part is after applying my makeup, nails, clothes, heels, perfume, jewelry and wig cap, where I admire how far I've come when I look in the mirror. Then I put on my wig, toss my head back, and usually get blown away by how good I think I look...

[SherriePall]

The transformation process is very important to me. It's when I become the woman I feel I was meant to be. He disappears and I am here. That's the way it should be.

[whitelace]

Hi deborah,
Yes ! would agree 100%! we all seem to be on the same page on this. It never ceases to amaze me the transformation rescues myself from the drab. being able to go fom a middle age male to a younger looking attractive female appearance now that's empowerment and with it comes tranquility fullfillment, and excitement it's nirvana. I'm a pretty happy person most of the time but alas patiently waiting for the next opportunity to shine fully

The more time I have the more I can enjoy perfectiting my make- up.... a labor of love which I have so much patients for . To me the most satisfying part is transitioning my face and also the most rewarding
....love ....lacie:battingeyelashes:

[deja true]

Nora captured it for me when she said "...ritual..."!

I've always felt that way...

I take my time...no hurrying...

Each gesture, each application has a little meaning for me and each has a rosy little memory of where that piece came from, or where it's been.

I almost revere the clothes, the shoes, the hair... I respect them immensely as icons of another life.

And the final result is a revelation...every time...that deja is as real and alive as what's-his-name ever will be...

(Can anybody tell that I used to be an altar boy?)

[tamarav]

The whole transformation process for me is just an unstated return to where I am supposed to be. I love every step and have been known to stop midway and start all over again just for the the thrill of it. It seems so natural and complete that I just flow through it until I can get out the door. (Or stay in if I am not working that day) What a relief when I am out and able to act as I should. Some of my friends tell me I act just like a natural woman. Isn't that the whole idea?

Tami

[Pattie O]

I really love the feeling of fully transforming but get few opportunities.
My favourite was when I stayed overnight at a private house in the UK and was allowed to dress up and be pampered and even go visiting.Probably my favourite though was becoming a bride at the Transformation centre in Bristol and allowed to stay for 4 hours and just enjoy the freedom.

Pattie