Amy Outed, can this be good???

[Amy Hepker]

Well, as most of you know I am out at work now. Everybody at work knows I have breasts and knows that I am wearing a Bra. Yesterday, I even wore a Girls T-Shirt. I don't know if anyone figured it was a girls shirt or not though.

Today I had a Lady come up to me and ask me how I have been. You have to realize I have been working here for over a year and the most she has ever said to me was Hi. Now, out of the blue she asks me how things are going??? That is Great, I know she knows about the Bra as today I was working and it was so hot I had to take my Western shirt off which only left my T-Shirt over my Bra. My Breasts really show through the T-shirt as I wear tight T-Shirts to show them off. I mean this Lady is a knockout looking Lady. I guess you just never know who will be accepting of your CDing.

I am still getting bad looks from one of the guys at work, like if looks could kill, I would be dead already. I am waiting to see if any guys come up to me and ask me about CDing, you know like, maybe there are more CDs working there than just me. I will bet there is, but whether they come forward or not is yet to be seen.

[victoriamwilliams1]

I think as with any other company we are everywhere, I think if I worked with an TG/TS I would not say anything. Now in a meeting situation if we find out we worked together it would be interesting.

I think you are putting out girl vibes:) So the guy who are giving the kill looks are jealous cause all the ladies are talking to you :)

[Angie G]

Cool Amy sound like your enjoying being outed hun you go girl.:hugs:
Angie

[Nicole Erin]

Well the transphobic one, next time you walk by him, face your back to him, bend your midsection real fast and hit his groin with your butt. He will enjoy that. :heehee:

It is cool you are out at work. You sure are proud of your boobies.

[joann07]

It's great that that lady has accepted you.
Maybe you all can go shopping sometime. :heehee:

Hugs!

[JenniferR771]

Amazing! You are so bold. Be sure to be nice to the girl that talked to you--she is a treasure for sure. Isn't it great to be yourself? And be respected for who you actually are?

[Sarah Doepner]

Amy, I'd consider some options for the one guy who is giving the "looks could kill" vibes. You may want to talk to someone on the management team to make sure he doesn't act out in a way that causes problems. It is unfortunate that sometimes the victim is pinned as the source of the problem.
Good luck and be strong Girlfriend.

[karynspanties]

Let HR know about the one person. Stay clear of him. DO NOT BUMP YOUR BUTT UP AGAINST HIS GROIN !!! That is a sure fire way of getting an a$$ beating. That way just plain stupid advise. The guy clearly has issues with gblt poeple. That's his problem, not yours. Just stay clear of him and do not instigate any contact. Just my :2c:

[Carroll]

I agree...install a rear-view camera on your head:D

[Sandra]

The lady in question is probably curious and wants to ask questions but doesn't know how to, maybe she was hoping you would say more? As for the guy, someone has already said maybe talk to management about it, at least then it should be on file and if you do have any problems later with him, it's already there that you've said something before.



Well the transphobic one, next time you walk by him, face your back to him, bend your midsection real fast and hit his groin with your butt. He will enjoy that.

What a stupid thing to say as if thats going to make things any better. :rolleyes:

[Amy Hepker]

I will just let him alone and hope he does the same.