little problem

[Mariah]

You see, I play a game called Anarchy-online. And I'm in a guild call Manticore. Well in this guild there's a player nf.

I think you know where this is going. so me and nf have been talking, I've teased him a bit but all in fun (he knows this). any way everyone on the game knows me as Female.(save my Best friend) so ya he now want's to meet me. I'm not apposed to it but the problem. but I'm not really ready. problem is he is 3hrs away, navy man. he's kind and smart. and over all I like him but not ready to date. So I'm kind of screwed. To me he's a good friend and but I think he wants more? I don't know. I really don't know why I am typing this. just one of them days.

Mariah

[Steph Butterfield]

Hi Mariah,

If in doubt, don't go out. I mean if you have the slightest misgivings, don't meet up, wait until you are 100% ready.

Think safety at all times



Stephanie

[Kimberley]

Before going out; Come out? I agree with Steph. Flirting online and meeting face to face have totally different consequences. Better safe than sorry.

:hugs:
Kimberley

[Mariah]

Really don't want to be "the weird Gay guy that thinks he is a woman" to the group ya know. I just want them to think of me as me mariah.

mariah

[Scotty]

I played an online game (Team Fortress) years ago - everyone knew me as Linda (If you played that was me!)......

That was fun, I was SOOoo into that game.

But I'd never meet someone from it, keep the fantasy from the real thing (Ie the game that is, unless you told him you were CD/TG)...

[Sara Violet]

I've been down this road a couple times. For me online games have been a way to be a girl. When it comes to online games I've been full time for 9 years :)

I had one online friend who lived only 15 min. from me. He wanted to meet me bad. I told him for me online is one world and offline is another and I don't cross those boundaries. I did not want to ruin our friendship. He respected that.

Remember there is no rules saying you need to be yourself online. Chances are the person you meet in person is different than they act online. Every one has an online persona in those games.

Even if I was a FAB I would not have met him for that reason.

Hope that helps.

Sara

[Mariah]

thanks scottie and sara.

he has not been on for abit so I'm hoping I don't talk to him right now :P

Mariah

[Emily Anderson]

I don't quite understand what you're expecting out of this.

[Mariah]

Emily sweetie, it seams that you don't understand my post in general.
As for what I am Expecting, the wiser than me Ladies to give me insight. in which I am greatful to the ones that replied already.


Mariah

[Amy Hepker]

Tell him the truth.

[Emily Anderson]

Emily sweetie, it seams that you don't understand my post in general.
As for what I am Expecting, the wiser than me Ladies to give me insight. in which I am greatful to the ones that replied already.


Mariah


I beg to differ. I understood the post, just not your expectations.

Anyway, if wiser ladies can give you insight, you should indeed be grateful for that.

[Mariah]

Amy: what is truth? that I am female but look male? or male wanting to be female, how would the truth of the latter not being lieing and the first be a lie? He has seen pictures of me. I am female. just not with the right parts. :( so in a way I'm telling him the truth now in that I'm lieing that I'm... well I just told him I'm a woman nothing more Lol.

thanks amy.

Mariah