Live free or die trying!

[emmicd]

I've come to the conclusion I will try real hard to be more free with my crossdressing because it is part of me! Obviously in certain situations I have to exercise discretion.

I realize I really enjoy listening to music and dancing in my living room in pretty dresses.

I just feel so great and I realize I want to show myself to others consistent to how I feel inside.

I see nothing wrong with this and my reasoning is why hide something that brings so much pleasure and joy.

I am hiding so much that no one really knows me.

I need to be a strong husband and father obviously which I will and excersise restraint in those situations.

I would love to stroll the mall in a dress or go to a friendly restaurant to dine in a dress.

I realize I'm only here for a short time and when I die I will be dead forever. So why not get my act together and not be such a sissy.

I need to go out there and be myself!

emmi

[CaRenaeTX]

I've come to roughly the same conclusion. My wife says it's inevitable. Why fight the inevitable? I've grown to agreeing with her. As much as part of me cannot deal with it... I'm here, here to learn, to explore, to talk with and eventually...

Who knows, maybe see where this all goes.

[curse within]

Well good luck to the both of you. I hope others are as understanding sometime you just gotta not care what other think and dive past the point of no return . Now if I can only do that.

[Jenna Lynne]

I've come to the conclusion I will try real hard to be more free with my crossdressing because it is part of me! Obviously in certain situations I have to exercise discretion.

I am hiding so much that no one really knows me.

I realize I'm only here for a short time and when I die I will be dead forever. So why not get my act together and not be such a sissy.
Why wouldn't you want to be a sissy? Isn't that part of the fun?:battingeyelashes:

But seriously ... good for you! I totally support what you're saying. Not only are we here for a short time, but during the latter part of that time it gets harder and harder to look cute!

I personally believe there is real, long-term psychological damage in "hiding so much that no one really knows" us. But because there's still a lot of discrimination (though not so much as in former years!), finding the right balance is not easy at all. Each of us has to weigh our options and our needs.

***Jenna Lynne***

[blogging at jennalynne.wordpress.com]

[Tina Dixon]

Don't we all wish it was that easy.

[vikki2020]

Yes, the last 2 years have been a turn around for me. I really feel that my dressing is who I really am,and yeah, life is too short, so I,ve gotten a little more aggressive in my right to do what I want.Still, that has to be tempered with family considerations, there is a line there.I know I can handle both worlds, but not sure of everyone else involved.

[Emma England]

Well, you have the right attitude. But actually admitting it is the real problem.

Too many are hiding as they are worried about receiving a negative reaction.

It is best to be proud whoever you are.