sexual advances on myspace

[gagirl1]

so i put up my pictures on my myspace profile, and within minutes i'm chatting with someone wanting to know my "size" and whether i'm a top or bottom. what should i do? this is a first for me.

[Mollyanne]

Hi there, "What should I do"???? Well that's entirely up to you!!
I'm not going to ask your sexual preference only you know that.
Personally I would be very very very cautious about chatting w/someone on the "net" after posting my pics. Like I said, I personally would not do it.


:love: Mollyanne

[Ashley Lynn Swift]

Depends is wanted or unwanted.

[LisaElizabeth]

If you are interested, talk to them.... If not! Tell them you don't swing that way!!!
I mean what can they do? SHOUT AT YOU IN CAPS?????
You can always leave the chat!
Lisa E

[gagirl1]

well, my preference is no preference, but this looks like it's either some kids fooling around or some guy trying to get his rocks off. i'm not into that. think i got a "tranny chaser" on my hands.

[Ashley Lynn Swift]

well, my preference is no preference, but this looks like it's either some kids fooling around or some guy trying to get his rocks off. i'm not into that. think i got a "tranny chaser" on my hands.

Well if your not into him then tell him to leave ya alone.

[gagirl1]

i mean, i like the attention, but it's kinda creepy.

[Ashley Lynn Swift]

i mean, i like the attention, but it's kinda creepy.

well girl's loves attention, but I know that it can be creepy, I've had serveral guy's kind of creeped me out, that's why I stop them right up front.

[Bev06 GG]

Hi Gaga,
Its not only creepy its also not what its cracked up to be. But at the end of the day your an adult and you know what your doing so only you can decide that one. Just be very careful honey
Bev

[gagirl1]

i feel bad now, i'm messing with this poor guy's head, but i think he deserves it.

[Ashley Lynn Swift]

i feel bad now, i'm messing with this poor guy's head, but i think he deserves it.

careful you might find yourself trapped in a conversation that you don't want to be in, and not able to get out of it.

[Ayame]

Me I just delete anyone that says anything to out of hand. You have to keep in mind that not all people cross dress for the look or to feel complete there are a lot of people that cross dress for a sexual thrill. However a lot of people on myspace are rude and ignorant. For example my profile says in a relationship but that does not stop people asking to hook up with me. I guess its cause a lot of cross dressers are married or in a relationship and cheat but that is wrong to do so.

[gagirl1]

well he kept asking me my "dimensions" so i gave him some bs and as soon as that happened he disappeared. guess he didn't listen to the part about, "treat a lady like a lady." hope i don't hear from him again. anyways, if any of you girls are on myspace, don't accept a message from mrcasino1979. he's a phoney.

[Alis McShane]

well he kept asking me my "dimensions" so i gave him some bs and as soon as that happened he disappeared. guess he didn't listen to the part about, "treat a lady like a lady." hope i don't hear from him again. anyways, if any of you girls are on myspace, don't accept a message from mrcasino1979. he's a phoney.
...and, evidently, an asshole.

I'd never ask someone his/her real size for two reasons; 1) I'm not the type to do that and 2) I'd be too creeped out doing it in the first place. However, it's a "running" gag in my role plays on AIM, YIM, or WLM to have my character ask that of my partner's character and share his/her size with my partner's character. I keep real life and role playing very separate.

[valenstein]

If this is new to you, prepare yourself. People have started conversations with me that would make a sailor blush. If you're into it, fine.

I don't answer any IM from strangers that doesn't have a greeting with my name in it (many people will just multi IM a hello to see who they can get). If they immediately need to know my age, sex, location, sexual preference, if i have any pictures... I ignore them, whether they are GM, CD, TG, claim to be GG, or GG.

[gagirl1]

this is very new to me. in fact, the first time. i enjoy attention, but it was strange.

[docrobbysherry]

I've had similar experiences since I came out on line a year ago. However, I DON'T chat with anyone. And telling admirers that I am straight, has scared off even the most agressive ones.

I've had to delete only a few course talking ones.

You'll get used to it! There's some really sweet guys out there! I say that because I've had so little contact online with GGs, it's not worth mentioning!:sad:

[Tina Dixon]

It's the internet! Talk to the person or delete them pretty simple.

[PhillyGuy2Girl]

I would just tell him straight out, I'm sorry but I'm not gay,so please don't bother me again.


Felicity :)

[Kristen Marie]

You will get used to it after a while. Most people hit a few times and then move on. I usually chat for a bit and give some less than real info. They usually brag about their size and I usually say something innocent like....I think that would kill me...or that is way too big for me....but, it is no longer the thrill it used to be.

[karynspanties]

Well, if you decide to persue it, just remember it could be a cop. Or worse, some psycho. The internet is a very dangerous place.

[~Seana~]

Personally I embrace the darkside. But most of it is just drivel. Unless they are local and willing to do something about it I dont get much from talking to some guy in the UK or alabama or wherever. Some of it can be charming and I've met a few nice folks out there but honestly most of them appear to be idiots. You cant do much through a LAN line .

They Dont call me the Happy SL*T for nothing

Amanda

[Fab Karen]

You can set your profile pics to be friends-only. You can even set your profile restricted if you want, but I personally didn't feel that necessary.

[Nicole Erin]

Hmm interesting. So this is your first encounter with a chaser?
We used to get them all the time back on the old MSN chat rooms.

One guy came in and said "I want to have sex with a TV" :heehee:
couldn't have worded THAT with more class.

Ah also, anyone familiar with those old chats, does anyone remember Mr Pudding?

[Sasha Anne Meadows]

I love compliments from guys. It a validates my fem persona. I just tell them I am married and liz.

[DemonicDaughter]

If this is new to you, prepare yourself. People have started conversations with me that would make a sailor blush. If you're into it, fine.

I don't answer any IM from strangers that doesn't have a greeting with my name in it (many people will just multi IM a hello to see who they can get). If they immediately need to know my age, sex, location, sexual preference, if i have any pictures... I ignore them, whether they are GM, CD, TG, claim to be GG, or GG.

They usually start a conversation with me asking if they can see my cam.

....

I send them a picture of my cam. They usually get pissed off and leave me alone.


Hmm interesting. So this is your first encounter with a chaser?
We used to get them all the time back on the old MSN chat rooms.

One guy came in and said "I want to have sex with a TV" :heehee:
couldn't have worded THAT with more class.

Ah also, anyone familiar with those old chats, does anyone remember Mr Pudding?

Did you tell him the stereo might get jealous? Nothing brushes off an idiot like pointing out JUST how much of one they are.

[bijust4funjax1]

i dont think you should really worry. i can imagine how you feel, but its not like a real life party. a simple delete or ignore button can easily fix a problem guy like that.

btw, is that your real face? very pretty

[gagirl1]

bijust4funjax1, which picture are you referring to? all but one thread has my real face in the pictures (including my avatar). no editing. thanks for the compliment! always nice to hear.

thanks for all the advice, girls. i talked to my dad about it (he's been openly gay in atlanta for about 10 years now and has seen all the bad that comes with being out), and it helped alot. it was a very eye-opening experience. i didn't realize how careful i need to be, or how easy it is to get rid of people online. i will definitely be more wary from now on about who i add to myspace and whatnot.

about an hour after i posted this another guy hit on me, claiming his fiancee had just left him. i told him straight out i wasn't willing to talk about sex and he just left me alone, thank god.

[victoriamwilliams1]

I ignore them:) I get advances not from myspace but from flickr as well I just smile and in most cases I delete the message.

[lynnmcarthur]

I know it can be exciting when someone pays attention to you on line and that is the stuff that one can use for fantasy. Mnay girls here will tell you that going the next level is much less satisfying.

As someone said above, when chat situations were the first and only way to make contact for us we would often get abotu three lines into a chat before a request or offer of oral sex was given.

It says soomething about our society's attitudes twoard womanhood that attracting men is something that we think of a feminine but men arrent dressed to attract women usually.

[MsJanessa]

It's the internet! Talk to the person or delete them pretty simple.

Absolutly right!!! It's your choice darling---if you think it might be interesting to talk to them---to flirt or pull their chain or whatever, by all means feel free to do so---If you are not interested, simply delete them---and I think you can also block them from contacting you again. I get contacted by submissives on some of My other websites all the time---I only bother responding to those who 1) post a photo of themselves 2) approach Me in a respectful manner and 3) seem interesting enough so I think that it might lead to something in the real, verses cyber, world. I'm not interested in talking to somebody who wants to remain anynomous by not posting a photo and profile, who isn't respectful towards Me(ie calls Me Babe--chickie etc or requests that I perform sexual acts on them, or just wants cyber or phone porn) or who doesn't look and act like someone I would be interested in meeting eventually. Am I too demanding? I hope so.

[Angie G]

I would never get to into someone on the net looking for sex unfortinately there are a lot of sick people you there just me :2c: hun. But we would hate to see something bad happeng to you.:hugs:
Angie

[bijust4funjax1]

i was talking about your avatar, very nice

~Bailey