Do you think this is wrong?

[`Kayla`]

Ok some of you have probably read my post and know a little about me by now, very little but still you know something. I have been toying with the idea of using plaster of paris to make a mould of my wifes breast and then use latex or something to pour the mould. I ask her if I could do this and she said yes thought I don't know if she's serious or not. I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.

Actually I want to use skin colored latex and all to replicate her breast to use as my own forms for when I dress. She is very well endowed and they are a beautiful size and shape..I envy her. I want to be truthful...but I am almost 100% positive that if I do so it'll cause a ton of problems. Since I mostly wear her bras anyway cause I don't have my own except for one sports bra...I figure they'd fill the cups just like she does.

I'm also toying with the idea of asking her for one of her bras but don't know how well that will blow over either. As I've told before she saw the pictures of me and I kinda think she thinks that maybe I do wear her bras when she is not here. She did buy this sports bra and the girdle I own but she's never seen me wear it. I sometimes think she bought just to see if I'd actually wear it even though she ask that before hand and I proudly said "yes!". Should I go through with this moulding process or should I forget about it? Give a good reason and please not the "you're a terrible person" response.

[valenstein]

I've thought about that myself. I wouldn't do it without telling her specifically why. The only way my gf accepts me is to include her as best I can. Even if she doesn't want to share in it, you're at least being up front about it.

Just this morning my gf asked me if she could wear one of my tops to work. It made me feel good that we could share in this, however small it was.

[Nicki B]

..you're at least being up front about it.

Did you really just say that? :D

[valenstein]

Did you really just say that? :D

??? one...two..three...how did i not get that, I'm such a boob.

Oh I know, I haven't told her everything, it's taken me awhile to find the words, it's the best advice I have that I don't always follow.

[`Kayla`]

Well I understand what you're saying but that is just it, I don't believe I can be 100% upfront and honest about my intentions. I have a strong feeling that she suspects but maybe pushes it out of her mind or to the back of it. I feel sure that if I tell her my true intentions that she'll wig out and through a freakin' fit.

I want to be honest with her...I'd love to have stuff we could share together, she'd be welcome to anything I would have to wear. It would be wonderful to go somewhere and end up buying matching stuff or something together for each of us. But I don't ever see this happening...I envy the ones here who have supportive SO's...you're so lucky.

I do have that bra she bought me and she's wore it a few times because I think maybe she thinks I don't wear it. It's kinda boring without something to make breast out of in it...so I hardly wear it that much. I feel like maybe it would be flattering to her that I'd want to copy her...I have no desire to cheat on her and I have no desires to be with a guy or anything like that. But I guess it's just the whole dressing thing that will cause such issues...I don't know?

[Nicki B]

Kayla, why do you specifically want a latex cast of your partner's chest, rather than silicon forms? :idontknow:

Is it just because you want what she's got?

[paulaluvssz8]

The only way I would try something like this would be for her to know exactly what I was wanting to do, and why. Because if you love her and want to keep her then you better keep her in the loop. Alot women see CDing as a threat to their femminity anyway and she would not need this on top of you coming out to her. So take it slow and let her give you the green light before you do it.

[`Kayla`]

I want to "cast" her because the bras I wear are ones she no longer wears, so I know they'd fill the bra correctly. Or I think they would anyway...I've never done anything like that and I'm just guessing. Also because I know the forms I want will cost too much money or better yet...they'd show up on a debit/atm card or paypal account that she'd see and wonder why I was buying anything from those places. I don't have the guts to go out and buy my own bra that actually fits me like one should...though I feel the ones I have of hers fit fairly right. Hell I don't know how a bra is suppose to fit anyway. I figure you are suppose to fit yourself with your bra on...right? And then if I bought forms they wouldn't fit right in "her" bra and then I wouldn't achieve what I'm wanting.

She wears either 42 or 44 DD. I measured myself and I'm about 50-52 inches right under my breast without a bra on. I don't see how hers fits me but 2 or 3 of them do but only in the first set of hooks and they are fairly comfortable even when stuffed. Some of the same sized ones won't even come close to touching the clasp...go figure. I want forms that make/show cleavage as well as having nipples on them that atleast slightly show through the bra. I don't want forms that just drop into the cup...that is another reason I want to cast her so that I can control (somewhat) how much shows out of the bra. And yes...I envy her and want my "chest" to match hers when I'm dressed. I love my wife and I love the way she looks and is shaped.

[AliciaWeb]

Take care Kayla, I think you are "skating on very thin ice". If you go ahead without telling her and she finds out, which is almost inevitable in the long run, she will feel that this is a very personal violation. I think that if you can't be totally honest about your intentions you should not go ahead with the project.

Good luck with it if you do.

Alicia.

[Cathytg]

Yes, I, too, am thinking that you are walking a bit too close to wild side. I get the sense that she has only the vaguest sense of your dressing and to do what you are comtemplating without her full involvement - after some long discussions - is inviting disaster. Go slow here.

[Ruth]

I'd like to understand exactly where you're coming from with this. You say you want to make casts because "they'll fit the bra". Frankly this sounds like a bit of rationalizing to me.
If you bought your own bras you could choose the cup size and have any bosom that you wanted - within reason. And it would be you. But instead you want a particular breast that happens to belong to your partner. Do you want to be her?
I'm not saying there is anything wrong with that, but it would be best to be honest, both with yourself and with her, if this project is going to go anywhere.

[SANDRA MICHELLE]

How do we know whats right or wrong for your situation? I would open up to her, it sounds like she may have some idea already. Plus if you want to try on a bra go to a Victoria secret store and try some on, they will help you pick the right size and style, go dressed or in drab it really don't matter all they want is the sale. I have gone to Victoria's many times and the sales girls are all wonderful. You can buy silicone inserts at any Walmart for 25.00 and if you want bigger breast just double them. My wife does not let me wear any of her clothes and I would guess most GG's are like that as well, especially under garments are kind of personal items. Think about it, would you let someone else wear your man briefs? I really wish I had told my wife before we got married, I owed it to her to be honest totally. Instead I waited for 18 years and it has been hard on her and me for a long time and it could have been easier with honesty. I would counsel everyone to be totally forthright as soon as possible, but that's just my "hindsight" and Monday morning quarterbacking after the ship has sailed.
Good luck!!!

[Nicki B]

Frankly this sounds like a bit of rationalizing to me.

I agree...


..instead you want a particular breast that happens to belong to your partner.

If the positions were reversed, wouldn't you feel something of you was being taken from you? :idontknow:


Apart from the basics, of course - a latex chest cast won't look, move or feel like the real thing - particularly the cleavage?

[Jilmac]

If you are able to cast a plaster mold as an exact replica of your wifes' breasts, and then make a latex form for yourself, I would say go for it. If you are successful post another thread to let us know the results. I for one am curious to know how homemade boobs will turn out.

[docrobbysherry]

If you are able to cast a plaster mold as an exact replica of your wifes' breasts, and then make a latex form for yourself, I would say go for it. If you are successful post another thread to let us know the results. I for one am curious to know how homemade boobs will turn out.

There have been a number of threads on boob making here. Maybe in the other sections. I've been one who worked at making my own for MANY YEARS.
The best results I got, were using Halloween, ( it's coming!), or novelty, plastic boobs as forms. Fill with plaster.
Latex will NOT work. It dries up, turns brown, and shrinks in no time at all. I've made some pretty good ones I still use, using Home Depot silicone and balloons. The filling inside these homemade forms is always a problem, too!

The suggestions to buy some inexpensive online forms, ( about $50), is the BEST advice you'll get, in my opinion! Good luck, Kayla!

[Di]

I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.
I want to be truthful...but I am almost 100% positive that if I do so it'll cause a ton of problems.
.
Since you said you CAN NOT TELL HER THE TRUTH...theres your answer..............if you know it will upset her...thats your answer... its wrong

[tamarav]

My wife is the most supportive person I know, I mean, I dress every day and work that way.

But, not even I would think of asking her to do that. That just seems to go over the line to me, but thats just me.

Your sis,

Tami

[Deborah Jane]

Hmmm...Now theres an idea!!!
I really like Michelle Marsh,s breasts [she,s a Page 3 girl in Britain]
I wonder if i could find a way of getting a mould of breasts to wear :daydreaming:

[Holly]

You're making the decision for your wife to not accept because you're not even giving her the chance to choose for herself. Unless you are willing to allow her to participate in the decision making process, then your determination of the outcome will stand and you should not proceed (because you have determined that it will make her unhappy).

[PamelaTX]

As a practical matter, I don't think this would work anyway. Any material that would make a good mold will deform your wife's breast to the point that the result won't be anything close to satisfactory. A better option would be to start with a clay replica of your wife's breast, and make your mold from that. If either you or your wife has artistic ability you should be able to make a pretty good replica to start from.

But you've got to tell her why you're doing this! You're never going to make up a good enough cover story to get out of this one! :)

"How does she know all this?" you might ask. Well, that's a long strange story that I might share with you ladies some day, but not today! :o

[deja true]

Hmmm...Now theres an idea!!!
I really like Michelle Marsh,s breasts [she,s a Page 3 girl in Britain]
I wonder if i could find a way of getting a mould of breasts to wear :daydreaming:


Um...er...actually... a lot of the silicone and latex ...um...accessories...that are available in ...er...adult ...shops are made from life casts of various adult film stars.


...or so I've read...ahem!

But I wouldn't go ahead with this without being totally honest. If you're fixated on your wifes breasts that's a good thing (if she knows it). And maybe...just maybe...she'd see it as an honor that you'd wanna emulate her rather than anybody else...

Just a thought. But it all hinges on you being totally truthful!


(BTW...the shape of the traditional champagne glass was decreed by Napolean to be an exact replica of Josephine's breast shape! Why do I know these things!)

[Amy Hepker]

That's a great idea, but I think I would be truthful about it, but that is just the way I am.

[jennifer easton]

try casting in the bra itself, turn it upside down and pore in what you are using for the breast, you can drape it over a coffee can and rubber band-it so it wont fall in, spray a little Pam in the cup, so it won't stick, put what ever you are going to use for a nipple in the bottom of the cup and pore, happy boobing! Jennifer

[Karren H]

Right or wrong it sound like way too much trouble... I'd just go buy a nice pair of silicone ones.....

[TSchapes]

Plaster of Paris is not what you use to cast with, you'll will want to use Dermagel or dental alginate. Plaster is what you will make a negative with. Plaster does not do well on skin.

I have a link to instructions on how to cast a breast. If you would like the link, please PM me or email me. These kinds of things are too graphic to put links to.

The breast is a real sensitive part of the body so please be careful!

Love, Tracy

[jackie_p]

I agree with most of what has already been said. I'd just like to
add that if she ever does come to the realization that you are a
CD, or even if you confide in her at some point, then she will not
only have to come to grips with your keeping this secret but also
that you "tricked" her and essentially took something that is
extraordinarily personal. For this and the other reasons listed here,
I wouldn't ever attempt this.

Jackie

[PamelaTX]

After thinking about it I thought maybe I'd tell part of that long strange story after all. My father used to sell medical equipment and garments of various kinds, including mastectomy prostheses. This was the early 1960's and at the time there was no such thing as a lumpectomy. Breast cancer meant removal of the entire breast, along with most of the underlying muscle tissue, including the muscles under the arm. The prostheses were essentially a breast-shaped lump of cotton. This caused many health problems like back-aches and the inability to walk straight. In addition, by the end of the day the prosthesis was up around the woman's neck instead of down on her chest. My father's Idea was to create a prosthesis that weighed about the same as a real breast to balance the patient's weight and keep it from riding up.

Now here's the strange part. He decided to make these prostheses out of solid glue so the patient could just lickem & stickem. As time went on, this lickem & stickem idea proved too impractical and he went a different route.

He used a number of different things for molds, but the best mold was one created by my mother. No, not by direct moulage of her own breast, but by using her own breast as a model for a clay replica. We (it was a family affair) used the clay positive to make a plaster negative that was eventually used to make the artificial breasts.

The first problem we encountered is selecting a shape for the model. None of the posts here have noted the fact that the breast changes shape, sometimes radically, with every movement a woman makes. Look at your wife and compare the shape with and without a bra, standing, sitting, lying on her back, lying on her side, bending over to pick something up ... . You will see not one shape, but many very different shapes. The shape my mother chose was standing erect, not moving, and wearing a bra. Personally, I don't see how one could make a direct model of a breast without changing its shape to some degree.

If this hasn't dissuaded you, here are some of the other problems we encountered. The first is lubricating the mold. The breast will stick to the mold, and you've got to lubricate it properly or all you'll end up with is a mess. You've got to apply the lubrication very carefully or it will cause ridges and crinkles in the the skin of the breast. You've got to choose a lubricant that will wash off both the mold and the breast, not damage the mold or the breast. (A degree in chemical engineering would help here.)

Next, as time went on it became clear that it would be impossible to create a satisfactory product using a single material. At least two materials are needed, one for the outer skin and one for the interior filling. We also used a backing material for the part that fit against the patient's skin. Finding suitable materials for the different parts is a major research project.

I'm proud to say that my father solved all these problems, and ended up with an excellent product. Bizarrely enough, drug stores (that's where you went to get your prosthesis at the time) refused to buy them because they were too heavy. I say bizarrely, because today's prostheses are constructed to match the weight of the missing breast. If only he had managed to convince the world ... .

I've left out a lot of the weirder details of this project, so it probably doesn't seem as strange as I've claimed.

My recommendation would be to buy breast forms from a reliable manufacturer. Many years of serious research have gone into creating these forms and they're worth what you have to pay for them.

I hope this helps.

[emmicd]

Personally I feel you should abandon the idea and just find an alternative.
You can go out and buy your own lingerie and find breastforms.

Respect your wife.

Just my feelings on the matter.

emmi

[amishrobots]

I kinda think she thinks that maybe I do wear her bras when she is not here... She did buy this sports bra and the girdle I own but she's never seen me wear it. I sometimes think she bought just to see if I'd actually wear it even though she ask that before hand and I proudly said "yes!".

Not entirely sure I understand the question. So... she's seen pics of you, she knows you're cd, she has even bought you a bra, and you are worried about what, exactly? Maybe I'm wrong here; i don't know your wife, but I would suspect she can at least put 2+2 together? Transvestite husband + mold of my boobs, hmm...

Like a lot of the others here are saying, I would suggest, just be honest! I mean, a relationship without honesty, in my opinion, is not really a "relationship" its just two strangers in close proximity to eachother.

Mind, I could be wrong, humans are masters of self deceit after all, but I'm sure that on some level she must already know why you want her boobs; its because, well, you want her boobs!

I would also add that, as far as the difficulty of making your own boobs this way, sure it might turn out wrong, make a mess, turn into a big hassle, but worst case scenario? you end up with a botched pair of fake boobs. So what? The project sounds like fun, and possibly, a way to bring you and your wife a bit closer together. I say, relax and have fun with it, don't get all bent out of shape if it doesn't work right, it probably won't be perfect the first time or two, but at least its an excuse (as if you need one!) to more fully explore your wife's er, assets!

[Jamie S.]

I have some experience in making prosthetics for small independent movies, so I guess I should chime in here.

You shouldn't use plaster on bare skin, for several reasons. The weight of the plaster alone would deform the soft tissue of the breast. Also, using any form of plaster on the skin is not a good idea. Plaster heats up as it cures, and in the quantities required for casting someone's chest along with the plaster bandage reinforcement necessary to keep the mold from breaking this would likely cause great discomfort and possibly burns.

The way to do it properly would be to use a load of dental alginate to cast YOUR chest, reinforced with a plaster bandage backing. From this negative you'll cast a plaster positive (using something like Ultracal plaster, plaster of paris is very brittle). It is on this positive plaster model of your chest that you would sculpt breasts onto using grey clay. Once you've sculpted the desired breasts, you coat your work with light vaseline and cast it using the Ultracal plaster. Once cured, removed the new mold and remove all the clay from it. It is from the positive of your bare chest and negative of the sculpted breasts that you will create your prosthesis.

Store bought Latex would be a terrible choice, you would have to use foamed latex and that requires a massive oven running for several hours and is simply too complex and delicate a process.

The other solution would be to make a silicone casting, which is slightly easier with some of the compounds available now.

Honestly, if I had boatloads of money and time to spend on an endeavor like this for myself I wouldn't bother with breasts, I'd create facial prosthetics.

I'm sure I missed a few steps in between, but I'm basically just trying to point out that making prosthetics (at least good ones) requires alot of time, money, artistic talent, and patience. Using your wife as a model is a terrible idea, I mean, you could do it, but the end result would be a terrible latex abomination at best and definately a strain on your relationship with your wife.

Go with the breast forms. Cheaper, easier, more realistic, guaranteed to work.

[Angie G]

I think it cute you want you wifes boobs.:hugs:
Angie

[battybattybats]

I gotta agree against plaster.

When studying sculpture I did my major work in cast concrete which were a large series of bas reliefs from plaster and wood moulds. So I ended up mixing a very large amount of buckets of plaster by hand. I had two interesting experiences. Now I was using plaster from the same large industrial bag in the exact same measurements yet one day the plaster took ages to 'go off' and start to set. The next time was fine though. However a few casts later and it went 'off' in a huge rush generating massive amounts of heat that almost burnt my hand! I had to scrape and wash the curing plaster off my hand halfway to my elbow in a huge rush!

I've heard of people getting quite serious burns that resulted in permanant scarring from plaster! Please do not use it for this!

There are life-moulding materials specifically formulated to be safe and effective. I've seen the results at a bulk sculpting supply store in Brisbane run by a guy who made some props for the Hercules and Xena tv shows and believe me, after seeing one partially nude sculpture on the wall molded from a real womans body they can mould breasts quite well indeed!

Take the time and expense to find the real deal and get professional life-moulding stuff. The risk of burns is far far too great from plaster!

[suzy cool]

Let's look at the facts. You're wanting to mould breasts to fit your wife's bra.
The reason you are wanting to do that is because you are nervous of buying your own breasts forms and bra. And the reason you are nervous of doing THAT is because you think your wife would hit the roof if she found out.

Therefore, the problem you have is that you are being very creative in order to satisfy your needs whilst keeping it all secret (and I think we've ALL been there in our lives.) And yet you may not need to keep it all a secret anyway because she already bought you some items, you already suspect she knows and you already told her you wore a bra and girdle.
Difficult as it may be, all this subterfuge could be done away with by being honest with her and if she hits the roof it will be because of the subject matter rather than she caught you lying and being deceitful. It's a risk worth taking.

[Melinda G]

Ok some of you have probably read my post and know a little about me by now, very little but still you know something. I have been toying with the idea of using plaster of paris to make a mould of my wifes breast and then use latex or something to pour the mould. I ask her if I could do this and she said yes thought I don't know if she's serious or not. I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.

I don't know if it's right or wrong, but you are definately pushing the envelope. I would start preparing for an early divorce, if I were you.

[Sandra]

Well seeing as you didn't tell her the truth then YES it is wrong, if it happens and she then finds out why you wanted to do it all hell will break loose and you'll only have yourself to blame.

[Genifer Teal]

I am not judging your reasons for wanting to do this. Here is the best way to go about it:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=r8AO_oFhO6Q

Tell us how the process works out if you try it.

Gen

[`Kayla`]

I guess maybe I am trying to emulate her? But I'm not crazy like Texas Chainsaw crazy and try to take over her life and skin her nothing like that... I know that is not what you are saying but I kinda get the feeling that maybe some of you are looking at me really weird right now, I don't want that.

Yes, I wear her stuff because I am too scared to buy my own stuff that fits "me". I wish I could...it would be so much easier and I wish I had the guts to buy forms too. I just figured this would be a safe and easy answer to my problem...but I see maybe it's not. I wouldn't care personally if I were done this way but that is me and how I feel about things.

I'd like to do nothing more than tell her and have her support me. But I don't think that'll ever happen...I could tell her, sure, but I don't think she'll ever accept it...one way or another. She did buy me those things...and I don't know why. That was before she saw the pics and when I told her I wore that bra she was really disgusted looking with me. She really gave me some shit about those pictures too and I still hear stuff about that, especially when she's mad with me. She won't support my cd'ing...she doesn't know I actually do it she just knows I tried it...that is what I told her...i was curious. She didn't buy that I'm sure...

I guess it's best to scrap this idea then because the ones who said I'd be digger myself a bigger hole are right. You say it would cause me more problems than I already have...you just don't know my relationship with my wife. It is like living with a buddy or a roommate and not a spouse...let me tell you. I could go into great detail but I don't think I should do that openly here for everyone to read. If she ever finds these post I've made...a moderator will have to do some IP blocking I'm sure. I'm trying to be careful as to not give too many details about myself so maybe she'll never figure it out.

[Tracy_Victoria]

Ok some of you have probably read my post and know a little about me by now, very little but still you know something. I have been toying with the idea of using plaster of paris to make a mould of my wifes breast and then use latex or something to pour the mould. I ask her if I could do this and she said yes thought I don't know if she's serious or not. I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.

Actually I want to use skin colored latex and all to replicate her breast to use as my own forms for when I dress. She is very well endowed and they are a beautiful size and shape..I envy her. I want to be truthful...but I am almost 100% positive that if I do so it'll cause a ton of problems. Since I mostly wear her bras anyway cause I don't have my own except for one sports bra...I figure they'd fill the cups just like she does.

I'm also toying with the idea of asking her for one of her bras but don't know how well that will blow over either. As I've told before she saw the pictures of me and I kinda think she thinks that maybe I do wear her bras when she is not here. She did buy this sports bra and the girdle I own but she's never seen me wear it. I sometimes think she bought just to see if I'd actually wear it even though she ask that before hand and I proudly said "yes!". Should I go through with this moulding process or should I forget about it? Give a good reason and please not the "you're a terrible person" response.


Hang on, you have just asked your SO, if you can cover he breast in plaster of paris, to make a sex toy, and your worried about telling her you want to dress?

You seem to have a comunication problem, I would suggest you try pushing the door open from the sounds of it, your partner could be more accepting than you believe, and she certainly deserve you to be honest with her, and your motives to do this. Who know she might say yes, over the No you have already accepted she will give you.

And YES. PLASTER OF PARIS PRODUCES HEAT (A THERMAL CHEMICAL REACTION) AS IT SETS, THE MORE PLASTER, THE MORE HEAT. IT CAN GET VERY HOT, AND IS WHY SKIN IS PROTECTED WITH BANDAGES BEFORE PLASTERING BROKEN BONES.

You may find this link to useful on body casting kits

http://www.craftmill.co.uk/epages/Store.sf/en_GB/?ObjectPath=/Shops/CraftMill/Products/PR23

[Tracy_Victoria]

you just don't know my relationship with my wife. It is like living with a buddy or a roommate and not a spouse...let me tell you. .

Yes We do Kayla

Because we have relationship like that to, My SO is my life, when she is here but that never is 24/7, but she is in my heart 24/7. I Told my partner I was a Transvestite when we very first meet and got serious, because I wanted her to know, and I wanted to be able to share it with her. we started great but it all went to pot, she struggles to see me dress, has in 15 years seen me dressed fully about three times and to at times my dressing becomes more of a problems to me because I can't share it with her, than it is to her that I actually do it.

However my problem is, I still can't share what I really enjoy with her, believe me I would love our relationship to be perfect but it isn't, but that doesn't mean I just give up and go find someone that will, we get through it talk and comunicate.

Believe me, no one more than me would love to share everything with there partner, do every thing with there partner, but sadly I know it never going to happen. but at least I can talk to her, if that all she can give me, now, or for the rest of our relationship I have to accept that, pushing for more may get me more, it may get me all I desire, but I may lose everything due to it. But at least she knows, we do and can talk sometimes, and the door is always open for her to join me in my world, as much as I try to join her in hers.

good Relationships are as much as being friends and soulmates, as being lovers.

[Butterfly Bill]

Since I mostly wear her bras anyway cause I don't have my own except for one sports bra...

If you are wearing her clothes, especially her "intimate apparel", without her knowledge and permission, I would say you are cruising for a bruising. Most women (and people) don't like that.

[Brooke Smith]

Right or wrong it sound like way too much trouble... I'd just go buy a nice pair of silicone ones.....

I have to say I agree with Karren if you just need something to fill your bra. However I would never dissuade you artistic and creative girls from experimenting with your own creations. Don't limit your attempts to just boobs either. Getting there is half the fun and it's nice to see there are so many of you, like me, out there.

[`Kayla`]

There is so much more detail I could go into about all the situations I've mentioned above but I think it's best that I don't. My wife knows I get aggravated with her when she doesn't show an interest in things that I have an interest in, I'll leave that at that and NOT go into detail or explanations.

I think she just agreed to me making them into a sex toy to keep from starting a fight, I guess. Which I wouldn't have...I'd just have said she was such a fuddie-duddie. I was trying to feel her out before I just sprang the truth on her because of how our relationship is in the first place.

I think what I'm going to do is sit and try to gather the courage up to tell her what I want them for. Not my whole Cd'ing thing, but that since she knows I've worn her bra and I have my own...that I'd like to be able to fill it up with "her". And without being too graphic...tell her that they'd be a great sex toy for me...maybe she'd even want to see or take part sometime? I don't know. Depends on whether or not I can just get the nerve up to do it...and if I do then I'll see how she reacts. If it looks like it won't be as bad as I'm expecting it to be, then I'll tell her that I like to dress up and we'll go from there. I can imagine that afterwards I'll have plenty of alone time however...which might be a good thing too...I don't know.

I don't think though after thinking about it and listening to some of you that this would be a great idea to lie to her. I don't like to be lied to...and while I also see it as not really telling a direct lie...I wouldn't exactly be telling the 100% truth either. SO I guess I'll scrap the idea. But I think I'll look into making my own another way or just figuring out how to buy forms that I want.

[Bev06 GG]

Why do I get the impression that this will all end in tears. Alarm bells are ringing in my head already. What does your wife think you want a plaster cast of her boobs for anyway. I mean how have you explained this desire away to her.
Bev

[Sally24]

I have been toying with the idea of using plaster of paris to make a mould of my wifes breast and then use latex or something to pour the mould. I ask her if I could do this and she said yes. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy"

Actually I want to use skin colored latex and all to replicate her breast to use as my own forms for when I dress.

As I've told before she saw the pictures of me and I kinda think she thinks that maybe I do wear her bras when she is not here..

If you think she buys the "personal toy" bit maybe you are the one that is pushing things out of your mind. Why ask for her bra? Just take the size and brand from the lable and buy your own. Most women are a little territorial about their clothing. If they've had sisters or room mates raid their closets it can be a bad thing to be using her stuff. That may be why she bought you the one bra. Get your own stuff!

As for the technical practicality of what you want to do;

Getting flesh tone silicone to look realistic enough to do visible cleavage with it will be pretty tough. Are you SFX person or have other experience in this?

Good silicone is not that cheap also.

Solid silicone with out a gel inside could be pretty solid and not at all breast-like. The forms most of us buy are filled with a goo that simulates the fatty tissue of an average breast. They are not a solid muscle and don't behave the same way. If you have to do this I would buy an inexpensive form and put it inside the silicone as it hardens. That would at least make the behavior of the new breasts a little more realistic.

Personally I would have a heart to heart talk with your wife, but that's just me.......

[docrobbysherry]

Kayla, not that I'm an expert at discussing CDing with an SO, because I'm not.

But, as a formerly married, now divorced man, I DO know something about communication problems!

Not talking about something may or may NOT be considered lying. Depending what and when, she finds out.

Talking around a subject, or downplaying your real intentions, WILL be considered lying by most SO's! Whether u think they're your " best friend, good buddy", or not.

Please be very careful, my friend! It sounds like you're walking on eggs!:sad:

[Maria2222]

If you don't tell her, and your wife finds out, she may think you are replacing her by becoming her image (the breast molds). Convincing your wife to accept your being a CD is hard enough without complicating it that way. I'd just buy the forms. Look at the cup size on her bra and buy forms to suit.

[CD Susan]

Right or wrong it sound like way too much trouble... I'd just go buy a nice pair of silicone ones.....

I agree!

[trannie T]

The title of this thread is, "Do You Think This is Wrong?" You are sneaking around her wearing her clothes without her knowledge or permission and you wish to copy her breasts without telling her why. In my opinion everything you are doing is wrong.

[Susan Loves Life]

The title of this thread is, "Do You Think This is Wrong?" You are sneaking around her wearing her clothes without her knowledge or permission and you wish to copy her breasts without telling her why. In my opinion everything you are doing is wrong.


Most definitly WRONG

I just talked to my SO about your post and she agrees with me and all the others - what you are doing is very, very, wrong! In addition, you are showing a great deal of disrespect for HER. My SO said "that there was no way in heck that she would ever allow me to make a mold of her breasts for my use. They are HERS - not MINE - if you want your own boobs" she said " grow them yourself!!!"

And my wife is very supportive of me too! :)

also, get your own undies and stuff, my SO made me get my own instead of letting me wear hers. Her sister, on the other hand, has given both of us undies and other clothes that she has no further need of - go figure? :)

Susan :)

[Tracey Corset]

Dont go any further with this Kayla, i'll tell you why, i have a very happy openly cd marriage, but i would never want my wifes boobs, lets be honest we all want boobs right ? but my wife likes me to be me (Tracey) when i am dressed, and not look in a mirror at her own chest !!!, try taking one step at a time, there are many low cost ways to fill a bra, after all most of us girls have more than one set, its all about comfort and the occasion, please be patient and concentrate on turning yourself into the lovely Kayla

[Nicole Erin]

I have been toying with the idea of using plaster of paris to make a mould of my wifes breast and then use latex or something to pour the mould. I ask her if I could do this and she said yes thought I don't know if she's serious or not. I sure as hell didn't tell her the truth as to why I wanted to do it, I lied. I said I wanted to use it as a "personal toy" if you get what I'm saying.


Personal toy? I am about to assume...

So if she has no problems with you making a replica of her boobs for erotic pleasure, I somehow doubt she would have a problem with you wanting to wear them.

It just does not make sense - "You can use them for nasty things but you can't wear them..."
Just let her know first why you really want them. Of course by "personal toy", that could mean anything... :heehee:

Well, happy boobing (. )( .)
Erin

[trisha59]

Just a technical point. Plaster of Paris gets very hot as it cures. Burnt boobs anyone? They do make other mold making material that if you decide to proceed will work better.