It's been a long time.

[Glenda58]

I've been gone for about 8 months now. And haven't dressed once. But the new SO is moving in next week and we have bring her things over here plus shopping with her. She knows that I had been cross dressing and doesn't want me to do it. So one thing lead to another shopping see a cute skirt on sale for 70% off then a pair of white sandals for $10 and here I sit writing you all. The worst part about it is she doesn't dress up at all.

All I know I look better than she does. Plus I still it. I just wish she was more in to it but when I'm with her I have no need to dress she feels all my needs.

I have been back here reading some of the threads and have posted on some. I still have friends here. Some have helped me to get over my fears of dressing and going out other I have helped. I also went for a walk tonight just to get out of the and mail some bills.

I think this is going to be my last hooray for a while. I will have to store my stash in a place where not only she can't find but it won't be easy for me to get it.

Good bye for now.

God how I like the lipstick feel and the wind up my skirt

[tamarav]

Glenda,
My heart goes out to you, I understand when the SO is not supportive. I hope you are able to channel your energy into other areas or to fulfill that dressing need when you are alone. Good luck.

Your sis,

Tami

[teresa jeen]

sweetie if you have to alter your life to accomidate someone elses i dont think its worth it. we have only one go round best to take it as we want, not as dictated by someone else.

[Glenda58]

sweetie if you have to alter your life to accomidate someone elses i dont think its worth it. we have only one go round best to take it as we want, not as dictated by someone else.

I'm not acomidating her it just this pink fog row in tonight. This my fifth one so I have been down this road many times. In 60 years you do find things that make both of you happy.

[azpanties]

I'm not acomidating her it just this pink fog row in tonight. This my fifth one so I have been down this road many times. In 60 years you do find things that make both of you happy.

Yes, but dressing is so much a part of you that giving it up for her will be temporary only. It's like "quitting" being blue-eyed - can't be done.

You need to have a heart-to-heart with your SO and let her know that you'd love her to be part of this part of you. But if she can't, let her know that it's part of the package and you'll be dressing on occasion by yourself.

I wish you the best of luck.

[Angie G]

Good luck Glenda :hugs:
Angie

[CD Susan]

Glenda I can appreciate this difficult situation you are putting yourself in. We all have to make concessions in life and it sounds like you are making a huge one here. I am sure you are aware that your urge (need) to cd will never go away. If you are determined to agree with this living arrangement then I suggest you find another place to dress up ocassionaly. This may prove difficult but if you have to hide your things from her and dress behind her back in your own home she will find out eventually.

[docrobbysherry]

For the warning. I'm 60 also. And I have been dating. However, after reading your post, I think I'll stop trying to meet someone special until I'm ready to give up CDing!

( Which may happen when:devil:freezes over!):eek:

[Di]

IThe worst part about it is she doesn't dress up at all.
All I know I look better than she does.

oh how nice......so tell me why is it she is moving in with you?
As she doesn't measure up to you.


I'm not acomidating her it just this pink fog row in tonight. This my fifth one so I have been down this road many times. In 60 years you do find things that make both of you happy.

Well good luck....I do hope you do find happiness....but for petes sake the 5th one and you still are hiding things.:wall:

[Glenda]

Hi Glenda. Bye Glenda. You're only stopping in to say goodbye? I was looking forward to reading your posts. I always have. I noticed you had been gone for a long time. She must be a very special lady in many ways.